It is nothing new that many of us find ourselves so often feeling the heat of dislike and hate from another, but when you’re feeling down and defeated it’s important to remember one thing: it doesn’t change the worth of your existance.  if someone was to hate the galaxy it doesn’t take away from the beauty of the stars and the uniqueness of the planets. Just because you’ve made a mistake doesn’t mean your world is at it’s end.  people make mistakes and people on this website think that they’re above it and they’re not.  

• let them talk: if someone finds it nobler to speak behind another’s back then to your face it shows you don’t need that person in your life.
• It’s not your job to defend yourself and so often we find ourselves feeling the need to PLEASE everyone on this site we forget to worry about ourselves.
• Just because someone speaks ill of you doesn’t mean everyone believes them nor does it mean you’re hated and don’t belong here.
• it’s okay to acknowledge that we might not please everyone. 
• it doesn’t take away from your worth

• Self-reflect & try and reach out: those of us who don’t intend to hurt others or might of found ourselves saying the wrong thing should know it’s better to reach out and resolve the issue. if you can see the problem find it within yourself to reflect on what you could do to be better and what might have hurt the other.
• some people don’t want to resolve issues and prefer to keep it on a sour note and that’s not your problem. 
• you are not chained to your mistakes nor are you expected to suffer from them on a daily basis. unless you are someone who goes looking to hurt people just remember that it’s the part of being human. we are not perfect ; we are not spared from making mistakes.
• it doesn’t take away from your worth 

• if someone is badmouthing another: make sure to ask for evidence rather than form an opinion over hearsay and remember every side has it’s story.
• no one is spared from making mistakes therefore you’re not alone. 
• you are not your mistakes: who you are is the person that tries to fix them and that will reflect on you depending if you consider your mistakes or not. 
• aim for being happy and not being perfect. 
• you are not alone: you are never on your own on this website and if you’re in a need for help or someone to vent too never feel ashamed to reach out to a friend or mutual.  many of us are happy to hear you out. 
• you are not a bad person: making mistakes doesn’t put you in the same catagory as someone who has done the extreme though some people on this website prefer to throw everyone into one group. 
• you deserve to be on this world: those who encourage suicide are nothing, but cowards that don’t understand the true meaning and importance of life. don’t let them win because why give power to someone of such vile intentions?
• you are loved: you mean the world to your friends and mutuals therefore don’t ever feel like you’re none or less.
• you are a human before an rper: you should take time to yourself and keep yourself comfortable and safe. 

• you are not your mistakes. 
• you are not your bad days
• you are not expected to be happy all the time
• you are not expected to be perfect
• you are not alone
• you are not worthless
• you are not meaningless
• you are not disgusting
• you are not a punching bag for others
• you are no talentless
• you have every right to to the good things in this life and no one can take that away from you. . 

requested by @momokitty27​! i set it up into a few different categories so it’s not just for couples but for a whole range of relationships!

• “I noticed them checking you out.”
• “Were you checking them out?”
• “So… they’re good-looking, right?”
• “Don’t lie to me and say you don’t think they’re hot.”
• “Just admit that you like them.”
• “Come on; even I know that they’re hotter than me.”
• “It’s not fair that they get to be around you all day and I don’t.”
• “They were hitting on you.”
• ‘I know you liked it when they were hitting on you.”
• “Would you like me more if I was more like them?”
• “They’re not (funnier / cuter / better looking ) than me, are they?”
• “Are you going to leave me for them?”
• “Would you leave me for them if you had the chance?”

• “You deserve better than them.”
• “They’re not even that good-looking.”
• “What do you see in them?”
• “Why do you stay with them?”
• “Wanna tell me what they did to upset you this time?”
• “If I had someone as wonderful as you, I would (never forget our anniversaries / always cherish you / etc).”
• “You should just leave them.”

• “I wonder what they’re doing right now.”
• “Their new (boyfriend / girlfriend / datemate) isn’t right for them.”
• “I can’t stop thinking about them with their new (boyfriend / girlfriend / datemate).”
• “They moved on so quickly.”
• “I get angry thinking about anyone else having them, even though I don’t have them myself.”
• “Do you think they were cheating on me with their new (boyfriend / girlfriend / datemate) before we broke up?”
• “They never looked at me like they look at them.”

• “I noticed you hanging out with (character’s name) lately.”
• “You hung out with them and didn’t invite me?”
• “I feel like a third-wheel.”
• “They’re pretty fun, right?”
• “Maybe I shouldn’t come and let you two hang out together instead.”
• “I know that they’re more interesting than me.”
• “You two have more in common, anyways.”
• “It’s alright; I have other friends.”

• “No! I don’t want a new (brother / sister)!”
• “You like (sibling’s name) more than me.”
• “If I get a new (brother / sister), you’re going to love them more.”
• “We haven’t played together since you had the baby.”
• “I hate my (brother / sister)!”
• “They’re not better than me! They can’t even use the bathroom right!”

• “Am I hotter than that person?”
• “So many people have achieved so much by this age, yet here I am.”
• “I’m a better (cook / surfer / etc) than them.”
• “They’re not even that good at (cooking / surfing / etc)…”
• “I look better in this than them, right?”
• “Do you think I could pull off that (hat / dress / etc) like them?”
• “Whatever; I’m not jealous.”

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