I was telling my mom about yet another random middle aged guy who insisted on me paying attention to him (you know the type who gets super angry if you donāt respond to them saying hi or whatever, either because you didnāt hear them or didnāt know they were talking to you, instead of just letting it go like a normal person) and I was like āIām sorry but itās always guys your ageā
I expected her to defend her fellow man but instead she responded āOh my god yes. Theyāre the WORSTā
Talk about Karenās all you like but no group of people are more entitled than middle aged men. I hope itās just those generations because I never experience it with guys my age and younger. But weāll see in a few years. Iām close to middle aged myself and perhaps people just lose their fucking mind at a certain age.
Best part of being a cleaner is that if I donāt respond to those types of guys at work they just assume I donāt understand what theyāre saying. I can hear them get all worked up at which point I start to ignore them out of spite and eventually Iāll hear someone say āSheās probably an immigrantā and they cool off. Yeah buddy, thatās the only explanation. It couldnāt possibly be because I donāt want to talk to you because youāre acting like an entitled dick.
At this point Iāve made it my mission in life to piss those guys off. I always pick up after my dogs but more than once some middle aged guy started ordering me to pick up as I was getting the bags out. I love the look on their face when I call them shit-sheriff and curse them out for thinking they can boss random adults around like that. And they never have a comeback because they never expected anyone to challenge them. I had a shouting match with one older guy who tried to push me over while I was riding my bike slowly past him because he felt I was trying to run him over for some reason but it ended real fast when I told him to fuck back to his retirement home because they forget they donāt get my respect for free. Same if you call them ugly. They have no idea how to respond to that because they never had to worry about their looks before.
So to anyone reading this, just be cool if people donāt respond to you and donāt act like you can order random strangers around. Niceness will get you anywhere with strangers (unless theyāre assholes themselves)