hey y’all i made a backup account: @lotusandlavender ! eventually i will lose access to this account bc i can’t get into the email i signed up for it with :( if you see that it’s been a while since i posted, it probably means i’ve been locked out and have moved to my backup account. i’m working on following everyone back on there!!! luv y’all 🫶
well i dont have a phd or anything but im friends with every cloud
i hope you connect with your found family soon
Beyoncé in 2021 .・⋆☆࿐｡ ₊
(shaking my 14-year-old self) I was so mean to you but I love you, I love you, love you
I will make it up to you, I promise
you deserve to be treated with respect. you deserve to be treated with understanding. you deserve to be treated with humanity.
recent film (this is what the inside of my heart looks like)
Wachifield lip balm carrying cases
The Wishing Tree (ნატვრის ხე), Tengiz Abuladze, 1976
Britney Spears in 2003｡⊹ ♡.*࿐ ｡ ₊ ·
“your partner isn’t responsible for your wellbeing”
“go tell this to a therapist”
“omg stop traumadumping” (after hearing a mild complaint)
can you guys hear yourselves? we are human beings. part of being in relationships (including friendships) with each other means looking after each other. we are responsible for each other. I look after your emotional needs when you need it, and you look after mine. sometimes things will be difficult and sometimes they’ll be outside my paygrade, and I’m allowed to step back from that. but you have to stop acting like it’s some massive toxic imposition on you to have to listen to someone talk about their feelings
experts are saying it's fine man, and they recommend that you chill
