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jackwolfes

thinking about that post of people assuming ao3 has an algorithm and also about how bonkers persistent the view is that ao3 is social media lite. like with startling regularity I get comments saying something along the lines of "it's probably weird to comment on a fic this old--" no it isn't!!!! this is an archive I am literally just assuming you searched for a selection of specific tags or sorted by kudos or looked back on my pseud or any other number of completely normal ways to use an archive site ?? kill the tiktok ghost in your brain and comment on old stuff it's NOT weird

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magescythe

list of mundane things that feel like ancient human rituals

  • cleaning or wipe your bare feet
  • breaking off a piece of bread and handing it to someone
  • putting the weight of a basket on your hip or head
  • eating nuts or berries while hunched over close to the ground
  • seeing something startling just out of your line of sight and very quickly stepping or leaping on to a larger object to get a better view
  • cupping your hands into running water to wash your face
  • the unanimous protection of a baby or child in a public space where women are present
  • when an elderly woman laughs and grips your forearm tightly

May I add?

  • Touching someoneโ€™s face with the back of your hand to see if they have a fever
  • Stopping to watch animals moving in groups (geese, fish, horses, butterflies, bees)
  • Helping an elderly person to walk or sit
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xactodreams
  • telling stories around a fire
  • huddling together for warmth when itโ€™s cold
  • marveling at sunlight through leaves
  • wonderment at the brightness of a full moon
  • bringing food to sick or grieving families
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mirthandir
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anddreadful

look. look. you have to honor what you want and what you feel you need, even if itโ€™s cringey. you have to. if you donโ€™t, if you ignore your weird animal desires and your petty hungers because you feel shame about them, or because theyโ€™re not practical, or theyโ€™re not what you โ€œshouldโ€ want, you starve your soul. and one day, youโ€™ll meet people who donโ€™t starve their souls, who give themselves the things you denied yourself and are happier than you for it, and it will hollow you out further with resentment and rage.

the good news is that itโ€™s never too late to start. you can always ask yourself what you want, and maybe if what you want lives at the heart of your disdain. do you know what it feels like to have a well fed soul? would you like to?

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look, itโ€™s not that i NEED attention from a man, i am grown and perfectly capable of entertaining myself. i just simply think that it is cruel & unjust as an eldest daughter to have to complete ur nighttime chores while listening to ur brother on a call with his girlfriend in the next room. no i do not neeeeed the validation of a man, BUT it is simply sick & twisted that my brother has a love life when i am the one that knows how to bake banana bread and he does not wash his own dishes. i have less going on than a guy who tried to convince me that most ppl have never washed their jeans. we need to un-normalise this

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how to find literally any post on a blog in seconds (on desktop)

there are so many posts about ~tumblr is so broken, you canโ€™t find any post on your own blog, itโ€™s impossible, bluhrblub~

I am here to tell you otherwise! it is in fact INCREDIBLY easy to find a post on a blog if youโ€™re on desktop/browser and you know what youโ€™re doing:

  • url.tumblr.com/tagged/croissant will bring up EVERY post on the blog tagged with the specific and exact phrase #croissant. every single post, every single time. in chronological order starting with the most recent post. note: it will not find #croissantsย or that time you made the typo #croidnssants. for a tag with multiple words, itโ€™s just /tagged/my-croissant and it will show you everything with the exact phrase #my croissant
  • url.tumblr.com/tagged/croissant/chrono will bring up EVERY post on the blog tagged with the exact phrase #croissant, but it will show them in reverse order with the oldest firstย 
  • url.tumblr.com/search/croissant isnโ€™t as perfect at finding everything, but itโ€™s generally loads better than the search on mobile. it will find a good array of posts that have the word croissant in them somewhere. could be in the body of the post (op captioned itย โ€œlook at my croissantโ€) or in the tags (#man I want a croissant). it wonโ€™t necessarily find EVERYTHING like /tagged/ does, but I find itโ€™s still more reliable than search on mobile. you can sometimes even find posts by a specific user by searching their url. also, unlike whatever random assortment tumblr mobile pulls up, it will still show them in a more logically chronological order
  • url.tumblr.com/day/2020/11/05 will show you every post on the blog from november 5th, 2020, in case youโ€™re taking a break from croissants to look for destiel election memesย 
  • url.tumblr.com/archive/ is search paradise. easily go to a particular month and see all posts as thumbnails! search by post type! search by tags but as thumbnails now
  • url.tumblr.com/archive/filter-by/audio will show you every audio post on your blog (you can also filter by other post types). sometimes a little imperfect if youโ€™re looking for a video when the op embedded the video in a text post instead of posting as a video post, etc
  • url.tumblr.com/archive/tagged/croissant will show you EVERY post on the blog tagged with the specific and exact phrase #croissant, but it will show you them in the archive thumbnail view divided by months. very useful if youโ€™re looking for a specific picture of a croissant that was reblogged 6 months ago and want to be able to scan for it quicklyย 
  • url.tumblr.com/archive/filter-by/audio/tagged/croissant will show you every audio post tagged with the specific phrase #croissant (you can also filter by photo or text instead, because I donโ€™t know why you have audio posts tagged croissant)ย 

the tag system on desktop tumblr is GENUINELY amazing for searching within a specific blog!ย 

caveat: this assumes a person HAS a desktop theme (orย โ€œcustom themeโ€) enabled. aย โ€œcustom themeโ€ is url.tumblr.com, as opposed to tumblr.com/url. Iโ€™ve heard you have to opt-into the former now, when it used to be the default, so not everyone HAS a custom theme where you can use all those neat url tricks.ย 

if the person doesnโ€™t have aย โ€œcustom themeโ€ enabled, youโ€™re beholden to the search bar. still, Iโ€™ve found the search bar on tumblr.com/url is WAY more reliable than search on mobile. for starters, it tends to bring posts up in a sensible order, instead of dredging up random posts from 2013 before anything else

if youโ€™re on mobile, Iโ€™m sorry. godspeed and good luck finding anything. (my one tip is that if youโ€™re able to click ON a tag rather than go through the search bar, youโ€™ll have better luck. if your mutual has recently reblogged a post tagged #croissant, you can click #croissant and itโ€™ll bring up everything tagged #croissant just like /tagged/croissant. but if thereโ€™s no readily available tag to click on, you have to rely on the mobile search bar and its weird bizarre whims)ย 

the archive/tagged trick is a lifesaver!!

a caveat on opโ€™s caveat is that if your blog/the blog you want to search is older than [whenever they forced everybody into the tumblr.com/user change], most of these tricks will still work whether or not they have enabled โ€œcustom theme.โ€

tumblr works itโ€™s just a closely guarded secret

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