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annashipper
Anonymous asked:

" they just look like an awkward pair out to eat with not a whole lot to talk about." // BC looks like he's in a boring af marriage to a woman he can't talk to. Compare how animated and lively he is with women like loo and Lupita and the way he always looks with wifey. This is a waiting-for-death type of marriage despite his calculated adoring-for-PR stares at her on the red carpet.

Waiting for death by boredom?  Death by silence?  Death by cringing, listening to Weirdo slurping on her soup in public?

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I’m sure it’s just bad luck they were photographed in that one moment during their whole time there that they weren’t smiling and laughing and chatting.  I mean, every celebrity couple is going to have one pic in 10 where they look dismal, right?  It’s just that in this case they seem to have really, really, really, really bad luck that so many pics of them look that way.  Tsk.

They do look dismal in 95 percent of pics, but at least in this one they were both obviously focused on eating. It’d be creepy as hell if they were laughing and smiling at each other while they were both stuffing food into their mouths. Now that is what I would call selling it way too hard.

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Great Day

Had an amazing day with my neighbor's kids! We made snowmen, drank hot chocolate, and took pictures with them, something I haven't done in a while. So precious!

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gatorfisch

Why I am worried about that Tweet

Some of you may be wondering why I am so worried about some random tweet from some unimportant dude.  I thought I’d take a few minutes to explain.  From my own very personal experience with NPDs, I’ve seen this pattern of behavior too many times.  It’s almost textbook NPD.  

When a narc realizes they’ve lost control over their victim, they feel an almost compulsive need to destroy said victim.  Some even take it so far as attempting or committing murder.  Most, however, look for ways to ruin the victim’s life in the worst way possible.  They do it in retaliation for the victim “ruining” their plans.  Narcs ALWAYS play the victim.  ALWAYS.  They blame everyone around them (especially their victim) for their actions.  So, what is Sophie’s best alternative?  

  • He’s a cheater!- There are several issues with this one.  First, people hardly blink twice at cheaters in Hollywood.  It’s almost expected these days.  Second, Sophie has been caught cheating, more than once.  So, it will look like they cheat on each other.  And that doesn’t gain her sympathy.  Third, There are already rumors that CCC isn’t Benedict’s .  Painting him as a cheater just reopens that angle of attack for Disney
  • He made her fake being pregnant for an Oscar!- PSFF pics and videos.  “nuff said.
  • He’s a neglectful husband and father!- See above two alternatives.  Also, see everyone knows he’s a workaholic.  It’s sad, but she knew what she was getting into
  • He’s Abusive!-  Sign.  This one ticks ALL the victim boxes.  It’s hard to prove he DIDN’T abuse her. Even if she attacked him and he was defending himself, he’d be seen as the aggressor.  This would get her the MOST sympathy and doe the MOST damage to him.  Given the attention being given to this issue, she knows there will be an acceptance of her claims within the general public.  It also plays into her inherent need to be the victim.  And let’s face it, most Tumblr blogs will immediately side with her and claim anyone trying to discredit her are “blaming the victim”, when, in fact THEY are the ones doing it.  She can split the fandom into fractions really quickly.  

I also want to clarify something right now:

Almost all claims of abuse are legitimate!  The ONLY time I ever question it is when a known NPD is involved as the “victim”.  THIS is one of those cases.  We have almost two years’ worth of evidence that SHE is the abuser in this relationship.  And I wanted to bring it up because I’m afraid that Disney has put it’s foot down and she knows her control is gone.  So I fully expect her side to try to ruin Benedict.  And I want to go on record NOW, before things escalate.  

If Benedict and his team have ANY sense at all, they will cut off her access to him.  NOW.

We are seeing some of these steps already.  Heads up Ben!  

Reblogging this again. Reasons

FYI, this is an old post being brought back just in case.

What Tweet are you talking about?

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Horrible Week!

Sorry I haven’t been on in a while. There was a bomb threat at my grandson’s school on Friday. Really scary stuff! Hope everyone is doing well and staying safe!

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My Thoughts

I don't think we should make fun of Sophie for being an escort/sex worker. Horrible person/blackmailer? Of course! But sex worker? No way! Because of she wanted to do it, we shoudn't shame any woman for doing sex work. We should shame them for being a bad person. And if she was forced into it, than that's really sad! Many women who have survived sex trade have PTSD and trauma about it and that's not funny at all. Just my thoughts!

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gatorfisch
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"Heyyy Sophie! You seem to be doing alright! If you have time to be trolling all over the place then you must be getting by just fine. ''-this is my second response to this type of bs. I. am. not. sophie-I'm a regular on skeptic blogs. Gator didn't post my response to nuttyarcade calling me a troll earlier. I was merely pointing out that Ben acts very occ from his normal gentleman behavior when he's with wifey. sheesh, smdh. SW anon

You might want to send that to @teacupdragon, since she wrote that part. And AGAIN, we didn’t say you were Zero. But we know Zero lurks and reads our blogs. So, teacup used the post to send a message to Sophie. They weren’t calling you Sophie. Sorry for the confusion.

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teacupdragon

Sophie and Gambles are also regulars on many skeptic blogs. They are regular commenters and regular trolls too. Is this only your second response? Where did all the others go? Oh right I only put out 3 or so, so far. I went back to what you posted earlier, just to be fair, and I found no mistake. You wrote what you wrote and you knew what you were going for. You’re still at it here.

Ben does not act ‘occ’ or ‘ooc’ at all. That is the behaviour of someone under duress. Let’s use simple logic to debunk you(again). If your house was on fire, or if you were on fire, would your behaviour to escape be constituted as ‘ooc’ or ‘occ’? Would it be a departure from your usual polite or gentle behaviour? Or do we dismiss the urgency of the situation so that you can sell your pitch? Nice try, trying to push that again but it doesn’t detract from what you’re really trying to pull here. 

I have a simple suggestion. If you don’t want to stand out as a troll, don’t behave like a troll. No amount of verbal convolution is going to escape us. But that’s going to be difficult for you ‘regulars’ because you have an agenda. That’s what trolls do. Troll.

I'm confused. The Anon says that they are a regular Skeptic on Gator's blog yet you're insisting they must be Sophie or Gambles because they said something you didn't agree with? Why?

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gatorfisch
Anonymous asked:

BCs ring slips & slides all over his finger like he doesn't respect his marriage or wife. Quite in line with his standoffish almost petulant demeanor in pap walks as the one in Malibu, he stood there indifferently while she hung on him. Or rushes ahead of her leaving her to dash after. Then his attitude toward her in the CBE videos. You can tell he thought she was an idiot, which she was. This from a guy who knows how to be a gentleman to other women.

Exactly! He would NEVER act like that with his real love…he doesn’t even act like that with complete strangers!

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teacupdragon

Heyyy Sophie! You seem to be doing alright! If you have time to be trolling all over the place then you must be getting by just fine. *Phew* And here, I was starting to get a little worried about your well being. No jokes. My concerns have been quite legitimate and deep given your current round of activities. They teeter on the brink that can go sideways so easily. Addictions are such nasty problems. More so they run in vicious circles. But this is a new one isn’t it. You are addicted to hurting Ben. Any way you can and you won’t give up. You adapt to changing circumstances accordingly and sell your pitch in any which way possible to malign him. So let’s give you the little attention you crave with these tantrums. Oh don’t worry, this one will do a lot more good than harm. 

Benedict’s anatomical features are not a reflection of his respect for his wife and marriage. Especially when their legality is thoroughly questionable all the way down to all the papers you forged and forged and forged. Because you could? Yes, yes you were ambitious in wanting to ace up to a respectable place on the global conman-conwoman list and you worked hard at it too. How’s the drop though? It doesn’t seem to be holding together. Tsk tsk. 

That ring that keeps sliding up and down is hardly in line with what you describe as standoffish and petulant demeanour. Let’s use our brain a bit shall we. Or what’s left of it. Those pap walks were prompted and staged by you. Why on earth would he be happy going along with it. You’ve mistreated him for 3 years now at every opportunity you can. You had a short well paying stint as an RCGF that you stretched and convoluted endlessly. From the get go you have misbehaved before all the cameras in the world and you have the audacity to paint him as petulant and standoffish when he has never once stepped out of line when dealing with you? Well done. There is no limit to how low you will sink. Because you can? 

He was indifferent to you in Malibu at Nobu’s where you turned up in your pyjamas, so why did you hang on to him? Oh yes, you had called the paps. Clearly Ben’s discomfort and dislike for your antics was of no consequence to you. Why did he walk off? Maybe because he’d had enough. Why did you dash after him? Oh right, you couldn’t miss your shot with the paps after all that. So tell me. Why should he not mind his self respect? He did not ask for you. Heck even at the French Open he was keeping away from you. You still went on to force your way in by running your own PR coup. He did not ask to be engaged to you, or to marry you, or to father your puppets. That was all your doing, no?

I thought a little refresher would be good for everyone. It’s easy for people to get confused by your double speak. But don’t worry, that’s not going to be so easy while I’m here.  :-) 

I agree with you fully, Sophie. You were an idiot, and you still are an idiot. Fact. You were not even supposed to be at the CBE and yet you turned up badly dressed, high as a kite and conducted yourself poorly. He was incensed with you as we all were. Even your nanny friends were disgusted with you. Tell me Sophie, where was all your blue blooded pedigree that you espoused so heavily in the absence of any professional accomplishments? You couldn’t even behave decently on the day the man you swindled into contract with you was being decorated with a well deserved honour. 

How many opportunities have you trashed while in contract with him? Are there very many doors that still open for you these days? 

He has been a gentleman to you Sophie. At great cost to his own well being. Getting away from a narcissistic abusive person like you is exactly what he should be doing. 

Tick tock.

I have nothing to add but carefully read Teacups response. She hit everything on the nail. @teacupdragon great post! I too was concerned but if she is trolling she is doing just find. She is back to her old self trying to discredit Ben.

Great post. @teacupdragon.

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