love yourself despite it all. love yourself even when you said the wrong thing. when you messed up in class. when you got a grade you didn’t like. when you haven’t been outside in a week. accept yourself in spite of it all. accept yourself even if you didn’t get into the university you wanted. when you broke up with someone you thought you would stay with forever. when the guilt is eating you alive. when you feel like you can’t take it anymore. you are already whole, you are enough.

the best part of growing up is that you always will be!! there's always gonna be something more to learn and see and feel and think and that's what u gotta look forward to babey!!! the universe is infinitely expanding and so are u!!!!

hi, it’s me, i’m the problem

I can’t wait for “Taylor breaks her own record” season

Speak Now was the most magical era THE MOTIFS THE RAIN SHOW THE VLOGS THE UKULELE UNDER THE MAGICAL LITTLE TREE THE COLORS THE CASTLES THE SPARKLES THE DRESSES THE COMING-OF-AGE OF IT ALL DESPITE CLINGING ONTO YOUTH. ALL OF IT ALL OF IT ALL OF IT IT WAS SPECIAL LIKE NOTHING ELSE EVER HAS BEEN OR EVER WILL BE

ANTI-HERO by Taylor Swift dir. Taylor Swift

no because i love her

you were more than just a short time

Taylor swift really said it's okay if you're still not over a relationship that ended a decade ago because of the way you were groomed, manipulated and treated. You NEVER have to feel pressured to move on from something like this. It's totally fine if you still think and cry about it. You were exploited at such a naive age and you never ever have to be okay with something like that at any age.

Okay can we please talk about Bigger Than The Whole Sky??

(TW: discussing miscarriage)

When I first listened to this song, I actually wasn’t sure what it was about.

And then the next day (after staying up until 4am cause of the bonus tracks surprise) someone told me about the miscarriage theory.

And I LOST IT. (I was sitting in my driveway about to go to Target for the physical album) And I SOBBED AND SOBBED AND SOBBED.

I had a miscarriage 3 years ago and it was one of the WORST and most physically and emotionally painful things I’ve ever experienced. But even more painful, was that certain members in my fiancé’s family thought I was ‘making it up’ (for attention I guess ???!!!). That I had actually never even been pregnant!!! (Even though I have an ultrasound photo!!) They’ve never felt I was good enough for my fiancé and they would often say cruel things and judge me unfairly.

Not only were we experiencing the worst kind of heartbreak I’ve ever known. But there was also this sense of BETRAYAL. It felt so cold and cruel, like they had crossed a line. Like they had won. There would be no baby now. And all along it’s what they wanted. And my body took MONTHS to recover.

Also, no one really wanted to talk about it. It was such a TABOO subject. Medical professionals assured me it was actually quite common. Family and friends expected me to bounce back and get on with life as normal. I felt like my fiancé and I were the only ones who really cared.

@taylorswift @taylornation if you ever see this…THANK YOU TAYLOR for this song. Whether my interpretation of the song is on point or not. It means EVERYTHING to me. THANK YOU for validating this pain. THANK YOU for making me feel less alone. THANK YOU for giving this a voice. THANK YOU for writing something that so PERFECTLY conveys emotions I couldn’t even find the words for. JUST WOW. THANK YOU WITH MY WHOLE HEART AND SOUL.

platonic soulmates are underrated yet so incredibly important

THIS.

Taylor Swift for “Anti-Hero” Single Cover

the entire point of life is to be silly, kind, and really weird btw.

TAYLOR SWIFT and JACK ANTONOFF + celebratory hugs