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Black Lesbians Love Lab

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Black Lesbian Love Lab (BL3) is a magazine-inspired relationship blog committed to sharing relationship stories and resources about and for black queer women (lesbian, bisexual, poly, transgendered, etc.) and the women who love them. We are accepting photos and love stories at blacklesbianlovelab@gmail.com
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@sosobrat got a boo thang y’all that had her out in these streets crying & giving us a glimpse into her usually private love life. The hip hop star says she’s met her heart’s match & that she can live in this dream forever 😍😍😍#blacklesbians #loveislove🌈 #lgbt #blacklesbianlovelab https://www.instagram.com/p/B-NjdemlizH/?igshid=1rg5bw9joayo9

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Deciding to walk in your truth as a masculine black lesbian is already a bold move. But does deciding to carry your own child as a masculine woman take it to the next level? What is it like being a masculine of center black lesbian who chooses to carry a child? . . Join Shaunna, Mychelle and Sarah tonight, March 15 at 7 p.m. EST in the Black Lesbian Love Lab Private Community for a panel discussion. . . They will share what drove them to fulfill their dreams of having a family while expressing their truth as a masculine black lesbian woman. They will share their biggest challenges, fears and joys and their best tips for navigating pregnancy. . . To catch the live or the replay, subscribe to the private group by going to community.blacklesbianlovelab.com. https://www.instagram.com/p/B9wW4Eollpf/?igshid=2g5c5u2v7vzo

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Let’s talk about #blacklesbian #masculinepregnancyandmotherhood. There are masculine women in our community who are carrying children and creating families because they have so much LOVE to share. I just don’t think these women get enough attention! We have enjoyed watching model and author @thereal_holliwood share her pregnancy journey! Are there any pregnant #studs, #MasculineofCenters, #aggressives or butch mommies to be out there who would love to share their stories? Message us! We’d love to interview you! . . #Blacklesbians how do you feel about masculine women becoming mothers? . . . #blacklesbianlovelab #blacklesbians #qwoc #blacklesbiansofinstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/B9MuVA3lZ_S/?igshid=tjkc4ib2dzsc

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Congratulations to Djay OmG and Mmorenasa who got engaged on Valentine’s Day! Djay says she met Mmorenasa three years ago at a Halloween event. They are both from New York and after a year of dating, Mmorenasa relocated to Texas for more opportunity. . . “We tried a long distance relationship for a year and we decided that we missed each other wayyy toom much,” Djay said. “So I relocated to Texas to be with my love and the moment we got together physically I knew I didn’t EVER want to be apart like that again! This Valentine’ss was our first Valentine’s Day in Texas. we did a lot of fun activities, but I ended the night at the Love Lock Bridge in downtown Houston where I got down on one knee ready to lock in our love forever!” . . CHECKOUT THE FULL SCOOP ON YOUTUBE: http://bit.ly/DjayOmG-Mmorenasa . . #SheSaidYES #TheDavisFamily #DavisFoundation #blacklesbianlovelab #blacklesbians #LoveisLove #blacklesbiansofinstagram #woc #wlw https://www.instagram.com/p/B9CIa3tFj1R/?igshid=jeb3c8itsm1c

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People have all kinds of judgements about femme women or lesbians who can “pass for straight?” Today four co-authors of the soon-to-be-released book, “Passing as Straight: Beautiful Women Whose True Sexuality Went Undetected by a Judgmental Society” will share all the tea in the Black Lesbian Love Lab Private Community. Co-authors @kinyattagraytheauthor, @thebutterflyemerges, @amandarrichard, @nikojoe will share real life situations where they had to make the dreadful decision to hide their sexuality to prevent labeling, judgement or even death! The conversation starts at 7pm EST, February 2. To catch the live or the replay, join the private group by going to community.blacklesbianlovelab.com. #blacklesbians #blacklesbiansofinstagram #qwoc #wlw #lovewins🌈 #lgbtq🌈 https://www.instagram.com/p/B8Elo_NlniU/?igshid=ql67y39anhp2

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Let’s face facts, most #blacklesbians don’t respect uhaul relationships (even though many of us have had at least one uhaul experience). The respect is not often there because most of those relationships crash and burn. <3 But what about the uhaul relationships that DO work???? Uhaul success stories do exist! Three #blacklesbian couples who are STILL happily uhauled will be joining the women of our private Facebook group to share their stories tonight. <3 To join the conversation live tonight, November 17, 2019 at 7 p.m. EST or to catch the replay, subscribe at community.blacklesbianlovelab.com. #qwoc #blacklesbiansofinstagram #blacklesbianlovelab #lesbianuhaul #loveislove🌈 #lgbtq🌈 https://www.instagram.com/p/B4-h4lwl799/?igshid=13oe6oy4spjua

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Weddings are beautiful. We fought long and hard for the right to marry the one you love. But sometimes marrying the one you love is a huge painful mistake. # # Tonight in the Black Lesbian Love Lab Private Community, three black lesbian divorcees share their stories of what went wrong in their marriages, why divorce turned out to be the best decision for them and advice they have for women considering marriage. # # To participate in the conversation, subscribe to the private group at community.blacklesbianlovelab.com. ## #blacklesbians #blacklesbiansofinstagram #blacklesbianlovelab #blacklesbiansofig #qwoc #lgbtq🌈 https://www.instagram.com/p/B4INuegF4E8/?igshid=198jov8xwbi6w

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"I would love to give an Anniversary shout out to my beautiful wife for our 11th and 1st. She and I met at work and immediately connected through laughter, food and travel. One of our 1st get aways was to Chicago to celebrate Obama’s announcement of his presidential run. Over the years we have both changed so much and yet our love remains constant. Last year on our 10 year to-the-date Anniversary we were married in front of our beautiful families who love and support us fully. Her name is Nicky Avant-Brown and I am Jade-Leslie Avant-Brown." Congratulations and happy anniversary to the Avant-Browns! #BlackLesbians #loveislove #blacklesbianlovelab #blacklesbiansofinstagram #queerwomenofcolor https://www.instagram.com/p/B3H1J0qlzho/?igshid=5gkcha5bi6ip

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Who is the dominant in your relationship? Who is the submissive? Power in relationships can be a complex and emotionally frustrating thing to master. And it has very little to do with who is more masculine or feminine. In most relationships, one person tends to take charge while the other leads. Some couples trade off while others CONSTANTLY jockey for power resulting in a lot of fighting and anger. . . Therapists Lena Queen and Jeanae Hopgood will be joining the ladies in the Black Lesbian Love Lab Private Community to share more about how couples can create a balance of power that works best for their relationships. . . Catch the live discussion on Sunday, August 18, 2019 at 7 p.m. EST, or watch the replay by subscribing to our membership at community.blacklesbianlovelab.com. https://www.instagram.com/p/B1T3T3AlMWV/?igshid=2dqi6xmajzru

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Why do some #blacklesbians keep repeating toxic relationships? It turns out that we may be missing a critical piece of information about ourselves that would help us break the pattern. The answer may be as simple as how you were raised or our attachment styles. We talked to queer psychologist Dr. Curtesia Plunkett to get her take. . . We will be talking to Dr. Plunkett and two other mental health professionals, Sunday, August 4, 2019 to dig even deeper. To join the LIVE conversation or to catch the replay, go to community.blacklesbianlovelab.com to subscribe to our private group. https://www.instagram.com/p/B0wPsWUgE83/?igshid=1pl3oaih8ghr8

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Leslie and Lervene first met five years ago on Facebook. But they were in relationships and in separate countries. The femme beauties re-connected in 2018 when both were single and emotionally avaible. It didn’t take long for them to realize that they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together. . . . Check out their story at. - http://bit.ly/Leslie-Lerverne - #blacklesbians #lesbians #blacklesbianlovelab #queer #qwoc #queerwomenofcolor, #lgbtq #girlswholikegirls #instagay #wlw #blacklesbiansofinstagram #lovewins #loveislove #blacklove #femme4femmes https://www.instagram.com/p/B0d-XurF8Ha/?igshid=aql3oenq95cv

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