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Eskimo Pie, EBro Everything Cophine

@im-the-cold-turkey-asshole / im-the-cold-turkey-asshole.tumblr.com

Katie 18 F ? England. Ebro fangirl. Actual Cophine Trash. Teams #Hendrix #Foodtruck too. #sorrynotsorry
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Lyanna: so what should we name our son?
Rhaegar: aegon targaryen
Lyanna: um but isn't that the name of your other son?
Rhaegar: i've always been a dick to elia why stop now
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for real though delphine is such a dramatic hoe like siobhan opening the door and the first thing that comes out of her mouth is I’m not a ghost come on you couldn’t have started with hello

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Reblog or your mom will die in 928 seconds.

THE AMOUNT OF REBLOGS THIS HAS  THOUG

not worth the off chance

Wdf ffs. I wanna collect all the voodoo ever practiced in my ancestry line and throw it at the person who created this post.

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aberharry

I fucking hate this fucking post but still not taking any risks. Sorry, pals

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treabitch

Damnit

Fuck u.

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ability

abled people: can you do the thing??
disabled people: ... technically yes BUT it would hurt like hell/ruin my day/trigger a flare/exhaust me/be a fall risk/make me more sick AND THEN I would have to spend a day in bed/increase my dosage/cancel all my other plans/spend a week recovering afterwards
abled people: ... but you CAN do it
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One of the most frustrating things is that nobody teaches you how to be disabled.

Everybody teaches you how to try to get better, how to blend in, how to be as normal as possible and “lead a fulfilling life.”

But nobody says the important shit.

There is no 

“Hey, fuck, you’re in a wheelchair and that just sucks balls, but you know what? You gotta fucking do it so here’s some things to make life easier.”

Or “Here’s your new cane! Congrats! Here’s how you use it. Stairs might fuck you up at first but let me show you how to make it easier.”

Or “Hey, you’re autistic, that’s cool. Let me know how I can help as your friend/family. I care.”

No one teaches you, actually teaches you about how to deal with daily life moving forward. 

Once you’re disabled, once people know or once you’re injured or sick or diagnosed or whatever, 

it’s all about pushing to get out of the chair, to stop using the cane, to blend in. 

There is no help to accept your disability and move on with life working with it. 

It’s always a push to work against it in every way possible and that makes it even more exhausting.

God, this! It’s always about trying to ignoring and deny our disability or giving up on us completely. 

It’s like disability is the ultimate failure, even if they won’t say it. 

No one tells you how to make accommodations or what accessibility problems you’ll face.

Disabled people can have quality lives. 

But our lives are going to be different from abled people’s. 

Our health is going to be different. And so should our healthcare. 

But instead we are given the same treatment tailored to abled people, and that means it is going to fail us in so many ways.

This is also why “cure” culture bothers me. 

Because if there’s no cure, doctors give up. It’s like no cure = no available treatment, because why try if we can’t get you back to abled standards?

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So. Much. This.

fuck this is so relatable right now

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teenswithcp

THIS

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