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Manners Maketh Hobbit

@imjustahobbit / imjustahobbit.tumblr.com

El. 29. Italy. Mostly The Hobbit, LotR and Tolkien in general. Currently obsessed with this dork . I violently ship. Some wild nsfw may appear!
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brutereason

I find it fascinating that people who choose not to have children are generally assumed to feel really strongly about not having children (or even to feel really strongly against children, anyone’s children, in general). I am probably not going to have children, not because I REALLY REALLY HATE the idea of having children, but because I don’t really really love it. Out of all the major decisions I will make in my life, this one is the only irreversible one. I can sell a house, quit a job, divorce a spouse, whatever. I cannot unhave a child. I cannot opt out of being a parent once I become a parent. I can’t even take a step back for the sake of self-care or whatever, or else my child will suffer.

So for me, having children is fuck yes or not at all. The default will be to remain childfree. Having children should be an opt-in decision, not an opt-out one. Until/unless I develop really strong feelings about wanting to have children, I won’t have them, even if that means I never end up having them at all.

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yadivagirl

As a mother, I really wish more people gave having children this kind of clear contemplation and thought. It’s an irreversible decision. Too many people don’t understand that.

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Middle Earth Meme: [1/8] Moments: Gandalf visits Minas Tirith and reads the scroll of Isildur

“I forsook the chase, and passed swiftly to Gondor. […]”     “[…] there lies in Minas Tirith still, unread, I guess […], a scroll that Isildur made himself […]” “[…] For this scroll concerns the Ring, and thus wrote Isildur therein:     The Great Ring shall go now to be an heirloom of the North Kingdom; but records of it shall be left in Gondor, where also dwell the heirs of Elendil, lest a time come when the memory of these great matters shall grow dim.     "And after these words Isildur described the Ring, such as he found it.     It was hot when I first took it, hot as a glede, and my hand was scorched, so that I doubt if ever again I shall be free of the pain of it. Yet even as I write it is cooled, and it seemeth to shrink, though it loseth neither its beauty nor its shape. Already the writing upon it, which at first was as clear as red flame, fadeth and is now only barely to be read. It is fashioned in an elven-script of Eregion, for they have no letters in Mordor for such subtle work; but the language is unknown to me. I deem it to be a tongue of the Black Land, since it is foul and uncouth. What evil it saith I do not know; but I trace here a copy of it, lest it fade beyond recall. The Ring misseth, maybe, the heat of Sauron’s hand, which was black and yet burned like fire, and so Gil-galad was destroyed; and maybe were the gold made hot again, the writing would be refreshed. But for my part I will risk no hurt to this thing: of all the works of Sauron the only fair. It is precious to me, though I buy it with great pain.     "When I read these words, my quest was ended. […]”
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[Fic] A new bed

My dearest El (aka @imjustahobbit), here’s your bday fic! I hope you’re having a lovely, lovely day my dear – and, as requested, here is something about putting together a new home with our two favourite dwarves. Set in Ered Luin after they have decided to stay and build more permanent houses.

 Dworin ahoy!

“You sure about the bed?” Dwalin was standing in the middle of the room, arms crossed over his chest.

“Of course I am. Something you don’t like about it?” Thorin frowned as he threw a gaze at his friend. Dwalin shrugged and stepped over until he stood right by his side and they were both looking at the bed in front of them.

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Things I’ve Seen During Finals

  • Someone calling in sick to work in order to sleep for their hour long shift.
  • Someone breakdancing to a boombox blasting Christmas music on the quad.
  • Someone crying because they got a free sandwich.
  • Someone walking into the lounge at 1 am with a huge stack of books, and the determination of someone who forgot a term paper.
  • Someone putting off writing their thesis because someone else needed math help and “logarithms are fun!”
  • Someone taking a lighter to a notebook as soon as they left the science building.
  • More than one flask being carried to class.
  • Someone literally giggle evilly when given a 6-pack of beer.
  • A freshman taking gen eds complaining about everyone else complaining about how hard finals are. (Note: the freshman may or may not have ever been seen again.)
  • Someone crossing campus at a run in slippers.
  • A nursing major explaining that finals are actually natural selection, and that she is the strongest and most adaptable and she was going to survive, while talking to herself.
  • A different nursing major looking very forlorn because she just ran out of wine.
  • Someone sleeping on a bench in the music building, with actual pillows and blankets and everything.
  • Sticky notes with swearwords written on them littered around the science building.
  • A group of students trying to one-up each other about how badly their juries had just gone.
  • Someone leaving for the library at 3 am, because there was free coffee there.
  • Someone flipping off the professor after being wished good luck on the final.
  • The same person realizing that they have an entire lifetime of that class ahead of them, because it’s their major.
  • Someone being questioned about how they wanted their funeral to look, after talking about the 8000 words they had due.
  • Just, so many people sprawled on floors because it’s easier to do that than anything else. So many.
  • The most genuine gratitude I’ve had directed at me possibly ever, because I gave someone a peanut butter cookie.

Finals: we’re all tired, hungry, and a little unhinged. It’s okay.

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the netherlands on tumblr: fairytale mist.. beautiful little farm.. pretty little houses next to the canal.. romantic lighting.. smiling models on bikes

the netherlands irl: it’s flat, sharon. it’s just a flat green piece of land with grey overcast skies. also amsterdam has a permanent smell of weed just hanging over like an annoyingly strong perfume just fyi

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Since side blogs are never too many, I decided to have a new one :P

This will be my theme blog, as I’m trying to take my themes and make them look and work better ^^

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