alec lightwood + not having any patience for heterosexuality

insp.

have y’all ever seen someone on the phone and they fake the most convincing fake laugh you’ve ever heard but they don’t smile at all and it’s trippy as hell

bruce wayne does that

my kink is when ppl actually care abt my feelings & what I have to say

too unrealistic, settle for bondage like the rest of us

Anyway almost every gay person I know used to think they were straight but I literally don’t know a single straight person who used to think they were gay so statistically, whose sexuality is more likely to be a phase? Not mine bitch

Behind the Scenes: Diego Luna ©Tyler Kindred & Michael Muller // Malibu Magazine, Vol. 14 | Issue 06

please dont make fun of an autistic person’s special interest, i dont care how obscure their interest is. their special interest could be a book written 50 years ago. their special interest could be a cartoon. their special interest could be cooking. their special interest could be a singer. their special interest could be flowers. their special interest could be rabbits.  whatever it is, dont make fun of them for it

also in addition, autistic people shouldnt be made fun of for “cringy” interests. such as things as minecraft, fnaf, mlp, bands, youtubers, sonic, anime, or anything along those lines. it doesnt affect you at all if anyone has an intrest in a “cringy” fandom. leave autistic people alone. let autistic people enjoy things without people calling them “cringe”.

reminder: it’s ok to feel lost

CUT MY LIFE INTO PIECES

THIS IS

this isnt directed @ anyone specifically but if youre not native, dont make native blood quantum jokes or police who is native or not based on their blood quantum. dont make jokes about white ppl racefaking as native.  dont make jokes about “1/4th cherokee” ppl.  dont say “youre not really native unless youre (insert blood quantum here)” or say whitepassing people arent native.  

these things are not your place to decide or joke about, even if you mean well.  i know racefaking and white people claiming to be native for funsies is a serious issue in the native community, but it is an intra-community one, and making jokes about ppl who are mixed and native or pretend to be does more harm than good if you are not native, since non-native people should not be allowed to decide which native people are legit or not. 

if youre white and/or not native you should reblog this mayhaps

here is something i think people don’t understand, when they get all pearl-clutchy about nazis getting punched:

we – and by this i mean ‘people targeted by nazis’, but mostly jews, because i am a jew and that’s where my experience lies – we did not want to end up in a scenario where the highlight of our day could be some guy getting punched. in fact, that’s kind of ghoulish.

like, ok. i am pretty much the worst kind of bleeding-heart, dyed-in-the-wool pacifist you will ever meet, when circumstances allow me to be. i don’t, personally, want to kill nazis; i just want nazis to stop being nazis. ideally, the world would work like it did in my 10-year-old fantasies, where i could walk up to a nazi and be like “jews are people,” and he would be like “holy shit!!! mind blown” and stop being a nazi and we’d sit down and have a deep philosophical discussion.

but real nazis have this unfortunate, terrifying habit of continuing to be nazis. when you hit them with intellectual debate, or reason, or “tolerance”, or “just giving them a chance”, or “compromise”, or any of that shit. they continue to be nazis, which means they still want to wipe out me and my people, and many other swathes of people as well.

which is why i understand people who want to kill nazis. or, in a milder variation, punch them.

i wish they would stop being nazis but they wish i would die. when you, historically, adhere to an ideology that advocates mass murder past the point of any nonviolent resistance, you have forfeited your right to a fair debate. you have forfeited your right to any response but self-defense that is as violent as whatever you make necessary.

nazis forfeited their right to nice counter-tactics long ago, and jews know this.

there’s another reason, too, why i whooped at that video. not because someone was getting hurt – don’t be dense. as i said, that’s ghoulish. we did not want to end up with our livelihood as a people so threatened that violent self-defense makes us cheer. can you think about that for a second? can you think about the kind of corner we’re backed into, here? it’s not a natural state of being. it’s a place where most people, as far as we can tell, truly do not give a shit if we live or die, because they’re talking about “tolerating” people whose ideology involves straight-up killing us. and so if we see somebody punch a nazi, it’s evidence: that person in the black mask, they’re on my side.

there is one person who recognizes the nazi as a mortal threat, which means they recognize that jews are people. that people of color are people. that any of the groups threatened by nazis deserve to have their fear recognized.

and every time you, a moderate liberal, a white goy, wring your hands about a nazi getting punched, about violent tactics, about fighting hate with hate, you push us further and further into the corner where we have to cheer at that. it’s sheer relief, at somebody recognizing the terror enough to punch back.

so no, we weren’t born bloodthirsty, just salivating at the chance to kick a nazi in the balls. we got driven here reluctantly, by history, to a place where violence in our defense can make us weep with gratitude. you drove us here.

“we got driven here reluctantly, by history, to a place where violence in our defense can make us weep with gratitude” !!!!!!!!!