INFJ Traits, Social, Weirdness
Naturally inclined to help others
Natural diplomats because of the ability to see both sides
Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs
INFJs find it easy to make connections with others
INFJs need time alone to decompress and recharge
We can’t stop reading people even if we try
Champions for the oppressed and downtrodden
Often neglects to take care of themselves – putting others first
Prone to exhaustion due to the passion of their convictions
Gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive
Self-Expression comes easier on paper than face to face
Struggle to adequately express ourselves
Has a deep need to help people “sort out their stuff”
INFJs are inclined to create order and practical systems in their outer world
INFJs operate within themselves on an intuitive basis
Knows things intuitively without knowing how
INFJs are easily affected by other people’s emotions
Have uncanny insight into people and situations
Prefer deep conversations to surface topics
Are protective of their inner selves
Geared to improve themselves through personal growth
Are rarely at complete peace with themselves
Has “little use” for social norms and routines
Always improving themselves and their surroundings
Always testing people to see if we can talk about things that really matter (usually can’t)
Can hold grudges for long periods of time.
We are information addicts, INFJs are the most well-read of all the personality types
Love’s variety in our romantic relationships
We rebel, but also want to be accepted
Losing/ Ending relationships is extremely painful
The whole INFJ existence is bound up in hiding and concealing our true nature
Have very high expectations of themselves
Tendency to take care of others needs while neglecting our own
Most likely of all types to cope with stress by seeing a therapist
Is a naturally nurturing, patient, devoted and protective
Hyper-aware of their surroundings
Are the least able of all the personality types to be in a long-term relationship
If the person we are talking to is too active, they will take a passive role, if the person we are talking to is too passive, we will take an active role.
INFJs know we are special and we revel in our rarity
Highly reserved, quiet, thoughtful, and almost above all else – introspective.
They make loving parents and usually have strong bonds with their children
Prefers careers where they can be creative and somewhat independent
Are very hard on themselves
It’s common for INFJs to intuitively assess their vicinity, and modify their behavior accordingly
To get an INFJ to open up, you must have some degree of depth about you and show that your view of things are not that dissimilar from their own
Always looking for something new, rarely satisfied with the mundane or routine
Not good at dealing with minutia or very detailed tasks in careers
Are highly cerebral and reflective
Wants to be alone about 75% of the time
Very sexual in private, but respectful and dignified in public
INFJs are quiet around you if; they don’t trust you, or they are completely comfortable with you.
Have a natural affinity for art, and may excel in the sciences, using their intuition
Are complex characters with a range of talents and abilities
Has a limited amount of social energy
INFJs are often mistaken for extroverts
Would rather spend time with our creations than with people
Keeps the majority of people in their lives at arm’s length
Because of the high demands of people close to them INFJs frequently withdraw into themselves shutting out the world for a few days
Loyal to those they trust
Wonders why most people are idiots
Does not take kindly to being ignored or interrupted
Natural activists for causes but not for political gain or power
Suffers from emotional overload because of their inherent nature to be “givers”
Has the clear insights into the motivations of others, for good and for evil
Highly empathic – Can feel and sense what others are feeling
Are natural counselors and healers
INFJs are the Archetypal “Loner” by choice
Are moved to champion causes and activities that serve the greater good
Has a strong sense of personal integrity
Are private and selective about sharing intimate thoughts and feelings
INFJs are far less serious inwardly than they appear outwardly
We like to have things orderly and systematic
Use both sides of the brain equally