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is there a word to describe the feeling of frequently forgetting your sense of self, i often forget who βi amβ and it often correlates to how often i been drawing and how consistently, itβs seriously a problem maybe iβll bring it up to my therapist soon
i found that journaling about myself as a person every few days kinda helps with this
i think there is generally always going to be a main priority of comfort in my selfships, like not just for myself but for my f/os
So funny to see someone call a m/m/f pairing "het"....I believe in women and I believe she can have gay sex with those men. if she wants
boldly post abt weird shit you like and your real friends will stick around
be sincere and real and so will your friendships
never thought iβd be listening to dua lipa for insert insp but here we are
one day ill make cool inserts again
commissions for @totters-carino!! THANK U SOSOSO MUCH ONCE AGAIN CHLO!!!!! ur my bestie in the world and Iβm so honored to get to draw for you always !!! π₯Ήπ«Άπ½πππ
we love a pretty and morally ambiguous priestβ¦.
i knew youβd see it
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we love a pretty and morally ambiguous priestβ¦.
is there a word to describe the feeling of frequently forgetting your sense of self, i often forget who βi amβ and it often correlates to how often i been drawing and how consistently, itβs seriously a problem maybe iβll bring it up to my therapist soon
okie i guess my star rail insert will be halovian
I'm gonna say this now cause it's becoming an issue again.
Don't be violent towards others or when vaguing others about a character you're uncomfortable sharing. This is literally taking a step towards the pipeline of harassing someone or leading someone to be harassed because they share an f/o that you aren't comfortable sharing. There are other ways to avoid seeing them besides blocking if you feel like it's "not enough." Don't wish violence on someone. Just blacklist a tag. It's that simple.
Please, for the love of god and the stars above, I get that sometimes you can feel protective and possessive, but don't be violent about it towards someone who isn't doing anything to you and is just having fun. I don't want to lose friends cause of this because they start being violent towards others. This isn't what should happen. It shouldn't happen at all. So please just do better and not be violent in vaguing towards someone. Please.
I honestly encourage reblogging this post because I'm getting tired of seeing posts that say, "Blocking isn't enough, I need to see (blank or vague violent reference here) happen to this person" or "blocking isn't enough I need to (blank/"joke" of implied violent act) this person." And people encouraging them. It's disheartening.
What happened to "its okay to be uncomfortable sharing just dont be violent about it"? What happened to the whole "Don't harass others who share an f/o yiu don't share" talk we've had? I thought we were over this.
But to see people I thought I could trust saying stuff like this or pulling this type of shit is heartbreaking and has ruined my trust in people more.
This needs to stop. Your words have an effect on people. Your actions have consequences. Especially when it involves wishing violence on someone else who did nothing wrong.