reblog this post and say in the tags whether you know how to write in cursive. I’m curious

he’s a little confused but he’s got the spirit

no this counts i think

This is kind of a weird tip but keep a toothbrush in the shower.

I say this cause I know dental hygiene is one of those super important things that gets so often skipped/forgotten/whatever by mental health.

but like.

once i'm IN the shower, I look for any excuse to stay there. So I have a toothbrush. I have my water pick. If I were smart, I'd put a little bottle of mouth wash in there.

this post is about brushing your teeth but its also about knowing yourself. If you think you're most likely to brush your teeth while standing at the coffee maker every morning? Put a toothbrush by the kitchen sink.

If doing the laundry has too many start up steps, put your dirty clothes right into the washer when you take them off. Use it like a hamper.

Eat a gogurt for breakfast literally every day if you find yourself skipping it because figuring out what to eat is too much brain.

Just like, don't be afraid to adapt things to your reality. You don't have to do things "right" for them to be worth doing. A quick swish of mouthwash when you go in to pee is better than doing nothing at all.

fake relationship is such a good trope. they have to act in love and they are in love but they think the other isn’t in love. oscar. pulitzer. nobel prize

4 word horror story

“I heard my wife knock on the bathroom door, but then I remembered…. our bathroom doesn’t have a door”

I’m sorry, but the confusion of why your bathroom doesn’t have a door far outweighs any feelings of horror this might evoke.

can’t afford door.. the horror here is the realities of life

So what fuck was your wife knocking on

this dick

It’s not even 4 words???

I feel FATIGUED like send her to the seaside for her health type fatigue

yo does anyone else feel CONSTANTLY guilty? like you’ve always done something wrong but you don’t know what it is?

Yes, and I’ve spoken to my therapist about it, who offered an explanation:

She says that people who from a young age were made to feel like they kept doing things wrong - people who’s parents had impossibly high standards for them, people who were bullied, people who have special needs, people who didn’t develop crushes on the “right” people, people who didn’t act like the “right” gender - basically ended up being made to feel guilty so much that guilt became their default response to everything. Guilt became the emotional response to anything which the person didn’t already have a set emotion for.

People for whom guilt is the default emotional response are also more likely to have low self-esteem, doubt their own experiences, and experience impostor syndrome. So, watch out for that too guys

Oh no it makes sense

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rip in fuckin peace u beautiful bastard

Shadow and Bone + 👀

Reminder that fanfic as a whole humanizes queer relationships more than almost any other form of storytelling out there, and it is not dirty or inherently fetishizing to enjoy it✌🏼

Additional reminder that fanfic has been a gateway for literally thousands of people to realize and explore their own sexuality in a place that is safer and more understanding than most offline spaces. It has allowed people to realize they are trans, ace, gay, not gay, pan, bi, demi, nonbinary. It has been a place of support for queer people since before a good percentage of fandom was born. And saying who gets to enjoy what part of fandom in which way is completely antithetical to the whole point of fanfic.