It Meant Something to Me starters
"It was just supposed to be fun, [name]. No strings attached."
"You can't honestly tell me that meant nothing to you."
"I didn't sign up for this emotional rollercoaster, [name]."
"Why did you have to complicate everything? We had an agreement."
"I thought we were on the same page, [name]. This wasn't part of the deal."
"Feelings? That's not what we agreed upon when we started this."
"You can't go around pretending everything we did didn't matter, [name]."
"I never expected you to fall for me. This was just a game, remember?"
"I don't need this drama. Let's just go back to how things were."
"You're overreacting, [name]. We agreed this was casual."
"Why are you making this so complicated? We were having fun."
"I don't want a relationship. Can't we just go back to how it was?"
"You're acting like this was some grand love story. It wasn't, [name]."
"Feelings weren't part of the plan. This was just supposed to be physical."
"I'm not ready for something serious, [name]. Can't you understand that?"
"Don't act like I broke your heart. We were just messing around, right?"
"I don't know why you're making a big deal out of this."
"Let's not complicate things. We both knew what we were getting into."
[CONFESSION] The sender confronts the receiver about their feelings.
[RESISTANCE] The sender avoids eye contact and tries to change the subject when feelings are brought up.
[RETREAT] The sender emotionally retreats, unwilling to engage in a conversation about the relationship.
[APOLOGIZE] The sender apologizes for catching feelings, feeling like they broke the rules.
[REASSURANCE] The sender seeks reassurance, wanting to know if the receiver cares beyond the physical.
[BREAKUP] The sender suggests ending the arrangement, realizing it has become too complicated.
[EXPLANATION] The sender tries to explain that they're not ready for a committed relationship.
[CLARITY] The sender seeks clarity, asking if there was any chance for them to be more than casual.
[CONFRONTATION] The sender confronts the receiver about seeing them with someone else, triggering unexpected jealousy.
[REFUSAL] The sender refuses to acknowledge the emotional side of the relationship.
[CLOSURE] The sender seeks closure, asking for a clear answer about what the relationship meant.