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imagine thinking 30+ year old women aren’t sexy lmfao can’t relate

From the perspective of someone MUCH older: 30+ is barely getting warmed up. Maybe I've met an unusual sample but, in my experience, women around age 50 seem to reach new levels of sexual openness and adventurousness. They know what they want and have high standards but, if you respect them, treat them well and know something about how to give pleasure, they will go with you to places you've never dreamed of before.

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christiandomme

vaspider

butchnandos asked:

something you said has been on my mind for a while - "kink is not inherently sexual". good faith! I don't understand that at all, could you explain it a bit?

This post is educational, hooray! Extensive discussion of kink under the cut. Nothing explicitly sexual is described in detail.

Please note that in this post, I use the terms top and Dom/me interchangeably. This is because I personally identify as a "top" and not a Dom. Some communities draw sharp lines between these two terms, and it's useful to make sure that you're using the same definition as other people when you're talking. Some people use "top" solely to refer to the giving or penetrative partner, which is not synonymous with the dominant partner. Topping subs, power bottoms, and all other permutations exist. I just use that term for myself because I don't like being called a Dom. It sounds like a guy's name to me, I don't like it.

vaspider

🤔

Do you mean like me, or like that people in general should do that?

There should definitely be more kinky romance in the world.

katsdom

thought provoking and well written. Sex plays a BIG part in my kink relationships, but so do non-sexual things. The big take-away is how much variety there is amongst us.

#d/s #platonic D/s #d/s philosophy

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luciasarchive

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“I lived in books more than I lived anywhere else.” ― Neil Gaiman, The Ocean at the End of the Lane.

whisk3yteacup

I think maybe books saved my life when I was a child. I remember the library, which was a mile away from my house, as a quiet refuge for me away from a screaming, angry mother. It took a long while to walk there but life was safe then and it was the burbs so I got there. Always got more books than I should and had to carry them all that way, but they were exotic and interesting and anywhere but home. Certainly, books saved my sanity. Please support your local library :)