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@bugaboo-valerie / bugaboo-valerie.tumblr.com

val | she/her | nineteen | pan woc | cancer | writer | multifandom blog, but i talk about world issues, politics and occasionally, school | read my about
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I know I’ve posted about this a few times already, but I just want people to be aware than Sia knew all about Autism Speaks and how awful they were prior to recent events. Several finds very politely approached her and informed her about it and she even acknowledged them in both situations, only to turn around six months later and pretend she had no idea. That is part of the reason why people, especially autistic people, are so upset.

Yes, her casting a non-autistic person as an autistic character is bad, but to deny that she knew anything about a hate group she actively chose to partner with when she very well did, makes this all the more abhorrent. Especially considering she’s demanding ppl to waste their money on her movie and “give it a chance” while responding aggressively to hurt autistic ppl who are criticizing her. She just wants to make money and using a marginalized group of people as her personal cash cow. It’s really as simple as that.

Please spread this. I know celebrities get away with a lot, but even if we can’t hold her accountable, people deserve to be aware.

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Anonymous asked:

Did you hear about SIA revealing herself as a huge ableist piece of shit?

I did :/ Personally, I still like her music while not supporting/liking her as a person, and I DEFINITELY do agree with and see why people are angry. Although I did see a few autistic people saying they’re fine with Maddie Ziegler as the role. I don’t think I can say anything as someone who isn’t autistic (but I do have ADHD, so I guess that I am neurodivergent), though. However, I think that there IS time for Maddie to learn right from wrong, and I hope she’ll apologize in the near future. However, I wouldn’t expect Sia to, yet with how she’s already acting on Twitter.

Thanks for the ask! (PS; if I said anything that sounded offensive, let me know. I don’t mean anything said above that way, but I’m not the best with wording things sometimes and can type things in a way that seems the opposite/different of what I mean.)

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Anonymous asked:

Just curious, if we’re mutuals, would you ever be willing to rate and read each other’s NSFW fics?? I’d like an opinion and I remember you mentioning ur open to writing it so I was curious if you’d ever be willing to do something like this lol. No pressure either way!

I would, yes! I’m completely comfortable with reading NSFW works as long as both characters are adults, and I am open to writing it on the same guideline. Perhaps, I’ll do it soon!

Thanks for the ask, anon! <3

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there’s this little rumble brewing. we are all stepping around the same date, less than a week.

i have been getting texts. one of them reads is it okay if i don’t want to even fucking look at the results i just want to sleep through it all. i don’t know how to respond. i have this habit of wanting to cut my hair and then keeping it long. i like to snip split ends any time i have scissors in my hand. i’ve been walking around with sharp things a lot lately.  

i have been getting emails. on account of the fact we don’t know what the world looks like in a week, we will not be holding classes on wednesday. i want to ask my classmate - do you think she’s just planning on being hungover but it doesn’t even feel funny. i stare at it for a long time and then make an annotation to my calendar about due dates. the story i was going to turn is about being bisexual and young and having good friends.

i have been getting resume requests. jobs all come with mission statements and addendums. it feels silly to plan for something in 2021. that doesn’t even sound like a real year, my sister says. on my cover letter, i consider typing - there are many who would liken me to a cockroach.

i have been getting little worries. we are in the skype together, and he says - i love you all so much. i want to watch the world change with you. how terrifying a thought. we make a joke about it. about penning each other letters across the rest of the end of our lives. they say - oh! you’ll be armed with a hot glue gun

more and more people reach out. do you want to meet up? they pass little hopes and keep little loves. will you be here? do you need me to come? are you safe? i’ll get in my car and drive. do you need to just get drunk?

what else is there. these tiny little proofs of love. of wanting to hold hands, of wanting to be together, of not being done.  

seriously, i’ll get in my car this moment. seriously, i’ll buy the plane ticket. seriously, i’ve been meaning to run. say the word and i’ll come. say the word and i’ll come. say the word and i’ll come.

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kitkatelyn

Thank you @bugaboo-valerie for dropping suggestions to help me write this trash - enjoy all, lmao

I 👈🏻 lost my wife 👱🏻‍♀️, yeah 😭, what 🤷🏻‍♂️ am I 👈🏻 gonna do 🤔

She was 😣 everything 👩‍❤️‍👨 to me 👈🏻, and now I’m 👈🏻 real 👍🏻 blue 🟦

Tell me 💁 I’m 👈🏻 a bad father👨‍👦 and awful 😑 lord 🥱, I get 👆🏻 that shit 💩, but damn 🤯, I 👈🏻 feel 😌 so free 🏃🏻‍♂️

But 🤭 the Red 🟥 Viper 🐍 wants to 👀 get back ⚔️ at me 😢, after all I’ve done 😈 to his beloved ❤️ family 🌞, Prince Oberyn 🥵 wants me 😳 to pay 💰 the fee

Richest 🤑 man 👨🏻 in the nation 🌎, yeah 😎, everybody knows 🤓 my 👈🏻 name

My daughter 👨‍👧 the queen 👸🏻 burst 💥 the Sept of Baelor ⛪, yeah 💔, burst 💥 it up ⬆️ into flames 🔥🔥🔥

I 👈🏻 ain’t 🙅🏻‍♂️ letting no Starks 🐺 beat 🏆 me 👈🏻 at this game

Especially 😡 that boy king 🤴🏻, yeah, what’s his name?

How 🤷🏻‍♂️ was I 👈🏻 supposed to know 🤓 my son 👦🏻 would’ve done this? 🤯 I’m lost 🙃 and 😤 kinda 🤭 a tyrant 👹

Maybe 🤷🏻‍♂️ I should stop ❌ this shit, yeah 💔, I really have no life 😔, maybe 🤷🏻‍♂️ that’s why 😱 my son 👦🏻 ended it ⚰️

TALENTED BRILLIANT INCREDIBLE AMAZING SHOW-STOPPING SPECTACULAR NEVER-THE-SAME TOTALLY UNIQUE

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every time i see someone like "we're raising our kids without gender stereotypes... no princesses!!!" i want to Scream

you're not raising them without stereotypes, you're teaching them femininity is bad. tell both boys and girls stories of princesses, and tell them both other stories too. and if anyone's favorites are the stories of princesses, tell them more stories about princesses. it is not that complicated.

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I just want to yell so many good things about Britney Spears. Look at this parenting right here; rather than just twist their arms and tell the ‘smile or no McFlurry on the drive home’ she’s checking if her little boys are comfortable with the cameras and attention and if not, no problem baby boy, you go chill. And I have no problem with her staying to get more pictures, especially not when her other adorable kid wants to.  I mean, it’s her job up to a point. And we all know for a fact she probably watched the film with both the little bugs in her lap anyway. 

Considering what she dealt with and went through in front of paps….god, I love her. 

people can say what they want about her supposed meltdown, but frankly, that entire ‘episode’ always made perfect sense to me. she and i are of an age, and no matter how young or old i was, i always understood perfectly why she did it, and thought it was utter bullshit that a court could order what they did, instead of reprimanding the many, many people that felt so entitled to her that they drove her to extremes just to get 5 seconds of peace.

and now seeing this kind of thing? she has just gotten more awesome.

i remember reading how she got herself a tutor so she could help her kids with their homework. not got THEM a tutor, but she got herself one because she wanted to be the one helping them. that’s a+++ parenting right there ok?

This makes me so happy :’)

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latining

She got a court order because she was, by her own admission, raising her kids like her mother raised her. The judge sent her to therapy and parenting classes to work out all of the horrible stage-mother bullshit she had to live through. I mean, she thought it was normal to give her kids cough syrup and whiskey so they’d sleep, because it’s what her mother gave her to knock her out when she got rowdy.

I think Britney is a great role model for adult abused children and is living proof that you are not trapped in the cycle of abuse.

The purest 90s kid experience is being so happy for Britney Spears in her new life

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