HIM TOO?

𝐏𝐢𝐜𝐧𝐢𝐜 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐉𝐨𝐞 🧺

i wish

Road trip with Joe Mazzello Moodboard

Requested by @redroses-too

i wish pt.2

Road Trip with Joe Mazzello part 2

in love with this concept.

i need so desperately that joe come to my city and share with him some afternoons):

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JOSEPH FRANCIS MAZZELLO III (Sept. 21, 1983)

HE IS SAW QYOOD

Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.

Shout out to people like me who have parents who are loving but are black holes of emotional labor… It took me a long time to realize that it’s okay to have mixed feelings about your parents, about your relationship with them.

Sometimes parents can love you but be somewhat toxic to you and your growth, and that’s a very hard realization to come to if you, like me, grew up extremely close to them.

Sometimes parents can love you genuinely but lack emotional maturity, forcing you to perform disproportionate amounts of emotional labor. Some parents manifest symptoms of their mental illness in ways that are toxic to your mental illness.

Some parents, like mine, try so hard to be good parents but fall back on habits of emotional manipulation because they haven’t processed their own traumas and are modeling behavior they grew up with. That doesn’t make their behavior acceptable, and it’s okay to feel exhausted and hurt when they betray you. You don’t have to forgive every mistake.

I want you to know that it’s okay to protect yourself, to need some space apart from them. The love you have for your parents is still valid, and you are making the right decision.

Placing a safe emotional distance between myself and my parents has been one of the most difficult, heartbreaking processes I’ve ever gone through… it hurts to try to curb the strength of your own natural empathy around people you love. It feels disingenuous to your heart’s natural state.

But I promise you, you are not hard-hearted or ungrateful, and you are not abandoning them. You are making a decision about your own emotional, mental, and spiritual health.

I know what it’s like in that confusing grey area of love mixed with guilt and anxiety, of exhaustion and quasi-manipulation and unreciprocated emotional labor, and I promise you, you are not alone.

Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.

Thank you thank you thank you bless this post ohmygod thank you

i can’t even begin to show how much i needed to hear this, thank you, op, thank you so much

everyone, anyone: why are you so obsessed with queen?

me: why are you not obsessed with queen? next question and make it a good one

i mean, you can love them in this soft boy era:

or this hot dad era:

the possibilities are endless.

I'm sorry for this

bohrap cast + aspect ratios

JOE MAZZELLO as JOHN DEACON in BOHEMIAN RHAPSODY (2018)

just thinking about how cuddly joe mazzello is 🥺

Bassists stop looking so bored on stage challenge