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cishet aces arent lgbt

@discoursereaper-blog

19, white, she/they, bi, mentally ill, not a side blog, no terfs allowed, feel free to talk to me!
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goobra

i love (read: hate) when inclusionists say “this is just the new form of bi discourse!!” or “this will pass, they used to hate bi people, now they hate aces, what’s next?” like

as if bi discourse is over ? sorry i don’t think all of the biphobes got your mogai memo that bi discourse is over and we’re on ace discourse now. i still get told that i’m not really bi because i’ve only been in “””hetero”” relationships

if mogai tumblr has decided that bi discourse is over, can they please let biphobes know that? bc i’m tired of getting told that someone knows my identity better than i do, or that i’m just faking it for attention

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antiandrogen

a libfem with crooked eyeliner: my eyeliner is sharp enough to kill a man(: slaying the patriarchy one fleek at a time!

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homoethotic

Hey I’m just curious about my fellow aphobes what state/country do y'all love in? If you’re comfortable giving that information out I mean. I’m from idaho, ,, it is , not good

I’m from western Australia, it is also not good

south australian here, it’s not good here too

Australia is just not good

I’m from South Florida it’s the Australia of America

ive heard people say that before and idk if its refering to just the sweaty heat or the blatant racism or what

im in the new york (western ny not nyc i live in the boring suburbs)

I live in Michigan! and it’s basically Canada but without the benefits of living in Canada

I live in California where SF just instituted free college and the adopt-don’t-shop rescue dog law and also our state governor is suing Trump, so it’s getting better here

jeez I live in switzerland and tbh? it’s really cool here

im from Colorado we have skiing

im from Arizona and it's hot

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enby-hawke

Aphobia PSA:

I know I’m gonna get hate for this but hey just more people to block. Feel free to add:

Aphobia is real. 
Aphobia makes ace and aros unsure of what our boundaries actually are. 
Aphobia tells us our boundaries are unreasonable and even cruel. 
Aphobia tries to negotiate our boundaries for us.
Aphobia believes that being ace means lack of sexual agency.
Aphobia dictates how much or how often we have sex in order for us to claim our own identities.
Aphobia tells us our love isn’t real or as pure because of how we choose to show it. 
Aphobia tells us those that do not love in certain ways are inhuman. 
Aphobia says our lack of certain love is inhuman.  
Aphobes still believe that aceness and aroness are mental illnesses and many of us who are mentally ill can’t speak to our therapists. Medical professionals will try to say our aceness and aroness can be explained with our illnesses or cured with enough therapy. 
Aphobia minimizes the damage that this has on our mentality. 
Aphobia tells us the isolation we feel is deserved.
Aphobia tells us being prideful for who we are is undeserved.
Aphobia tells us our struggles are not worth talking about.
And that we do not deserve a space for ourselves.

do you have receipts or are you just gonna make faceless claims?

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you sit down for your job interview. you’re nervous, with your foot making rhythmic taps on the carpet. this is it, your dream job, you cant fuck up. the interviewer clears his throat and clasps his hand on the desk, leaning forward. he asks you one question

“do you believe aces are inherently lgbt?”

you feel sweat drip from your forehead

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