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Dreaming Flower’s Rhapsody

@dreamingflowersrhapsody / dreamingflowersrhapsody.tumblr.com

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Writing a book on asexual, aromantic, and agender identity and trying to get it funded. If you help the project fund, aside from receiving a copy of the book, your name will also appear in the book. 📚 https://t.co/igDW1xAZih

Hey y’all, this book is hanging out at 46% funded. It needs to get to 60% by the end of the month, 80% by the end of November, and 100% by the end of the year. Please boost this for more visibility, and if you have the money to spare, maybe back the project as well.

We need more resources like this in the world, and bringing this book to life can help close the current gap. I’m not affiliated with this project at all - I would just really like to see it fully funded.

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full fruit trees in random yards that I pass while driving are more tempting to me than any man ever will be

this is what got us kicked out of eden, cuz u hoes can’t follow rules

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“We’re fake-dating and I’m supposed to publicly break up with you but you’ve been irritating me lately so instead of dumping you I publicly proposed to mess up your plan and now we’re getting married, fuck” au

“And now you’re supposed to call off the engagement because it’d be tacky if I did it since I proposed, but you’re picking out cake and flowers for the reception, wtf are we doing this” sequel au

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ace-thinks

I don’t get the argument that ace representation in media is rare because asexuality isn’t something you can write about or show or whatever. Like no? Lol there is So much potential for interesting storylines around asexuality

A sex repulsed ace gym teacher who gets roped into teaching sex ed and can barely keep from gagging for 45min as he answers a series of increasingly in depth questions from a bunch of middle schoolers

An aroace wizard who spills love potion on themselves and spends the entire week fending off uncomfortably forward advances

Greys Anatomy but from the perspective of the sex neutral ace first year who keeps accidentally walking in on smoking hot sex in random places in the hospital and is dumbfounded by all the awkward tension everywhere

I could go on lol

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galentines

sometimes i want to pull my hair out because i want to see just ONE female character i can relate to in terms of their romantic/sex life

i want to see a girl in her mid twenties who has never been kissed

i want to see a girl who is confused because she has literally no experience

a girl that has panic attacks when she thinks of sex and cant stop thinking about what kissing is like while also being terrified of it

a girl who cant figure out her sexuality because she’s never gotten to try

a girl who self destructs because shes terrified of how bigger her baggage gets with age

i’m sick of seeing woman in tv and movies who date and have sex and still have relationship hangups, not because that doesnt exist but because i cant relate to those women

i want to turn on the tv and see a 25 year old woman who has never been with anyone, was genuinely not looked at for a long time and has become terrified of attention, who’s anxiety cheats them out of dating, who greets every birthday with this feeling of dread in the pit of their stomach because they’re getting older and older and it feels weirder and more wrong with every passing year

i know i’m not the only woman like this, but with the way the media is, it’s maybe the most alienating baggage i carry. everywhere i look, it’s weird that this is my experience. i feel ashamed and i feel scared that i one day have to tell a person to their face that i’m am adult who has never had a first kiss. its terrifying and consuming and confusing and awful. you start to believe it isnt meant for you - not just sex, or intimacy, but fucking love itself. because you dont turn on the tv and see people like you. “unlucky in love” means slightly clumsy and loud on dates and fear of commitment. its a quirky girl who probably has had sex with multiple people and just ~cant figure it out~!!!!!

i want a girl who feels so alone because she literally always has been

that’s what i wanna see

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i’m going to scream i’m so bored all the time but nothing interests me and i don’t have the energy to do anything like i have a list in the back of my head of all this stuff i want to accomplish but when i think about actually doing any of it my brain just like hits a wall and suddenly it sounds like the most unappealing thing in the world

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This might be a hard pill to swallow, but chances are, if everyone hates you in a group, the fault is with you, not with everyone else.

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