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@hehebread / hehebread.tumblr.com

embarrassing anime posting. hetalia. birb. yugioh. snk. naruto. bnha. mp100. ye. currently an avid dkbkdk shipper.
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I dislike how clumsy it is to share Twitter threads but here is a portion from a guy I follow (for his trans porn and monster fucking content at that) echoing a sentiment that aces, traumatized people, people with low libido, etc. can fully relate to. The rest is here and it’s absolutely worth the read.

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mastreworld

“Sex isn’t special” 

Thank you! I’ve always been fascinated by how sexuality is viewed in such a dramatic, over-criticized way when it’s just another one of those things we do in life, no different from eating, sleeping or playing.

This is also why sex workers don’t appreciate being pathologized for having sex for no other reason than ‘hell yeah money’ or ‘sure, beats an office job’.

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doberbutts

I’m pretty uninterested in dinosaurs. They’ve never really been my thing, for several reasons. But I dated a guy for a while that was autistic, and his special interest was dinosaurs, and we did a fairly large number of dinosaur themed dates for the duration of our relationship together.

To be frank, I couldn’t really care less if I tried about dinosaurs. But I still went on those dates with him because he wanted to, just like he did dog shows with me because *I* wanted to. And you know what? I even had fun on those dates. Not because I enjoyed the actual activities we were doing, but because I got to see him passionate and unrestrained about his love of something. And so as he infodumped at me about whatever fossil he was admiring, or excitedly showed me the latest piece in his collection, or waxed poetic [or angrily ranted] about the animated depiction of dinosaurs on whatever movie we’d turned on… I can’t tell you that I really enjoyed the act, but I *did* enjoy the light in his eyes and the smile on his face as I nodded along and tried to follow whatever he was talking about.

It was fun. I liked going out with him. It was a nice thing that we did together.

Anyway, I’m not ace or aro, but I figure it’s probably pretty close to that.

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mycroftrh

Far worse, in my opinion, than the famous “he wouldn’t fucking say that” is “he WOULD fucking say that, as part of his facade, but you seem to think he would mean it genuinely”

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stil-lindigo

oh to one day live in a world that doesn't hinge on the whims of the united states of fucking america.

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ghostcrows

due to inflation you must answer my riddles five

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zouffle

due to budget cuts i will grant you two wishes

due to recent layoffs there is only one of me and I lie 50% of the time

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