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@tsubakiscarlet

♥ i'm cal ♥ 25 years old ♥ transmasc butchdykefag, ze/hir preferred but they/them and he/him are okay ♥ demi-pan ♥ polyamorous ♥ my blog is a mishmash okay i don't know ♥ header by @sylphidae
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carfuckerlynch

I love you trans women. i love u transfems. I love u transfems who have fucked up unethical kinks (yes including that one). I love u transfems who have had callout posts. I love u fat trans women I love u autistic trans women I love u Black trans women I love u Indigenous trans women. I love u trans women who r mean or defensive or don't behave nicely or are too nice. you deserve to be treated with love and care and you deserve to express your sexuality and anger and age regression and autism and personality disorders and joy and intelligence and stupidity and faux pas and every other little human experience in ways that are not palatable without facing social or interpersonal violence or ostracisism. you deserve everything in the world. safety and love and care and unconditional solidarity and community. you are a beautiful gift to the world whoever you are. I love you forever and I have your back

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carfuckerlynch

I love you trans women. i love u transfems. I love u transfems who have fucked up unethical kinks (yes including that one). I love u transfems who have had callout posts. I love u fat trans women I love u autistic trans women I love u Black trans women I love u Indigenous trans women. I love u trans women who r mean or defensive or don't behave nicely or are too nice. you deserve to be treated with love and care and you deserve to express your sexuality and anger and age regression and autism and personality disorders and joy and intelligence and stupidity and faux pas and every other little human experience in ways that are not palatable without facing social or interpersonal violence or ostracisism. you deserve everything in the world. safety and love and care and unconditional solidarity and community. you are a beautiful gift to the world whoever you are. I love you forever and I have your back

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carfuckerlynch

I love you trans women. i love u transfems. I love u transfems who have fucked up unethical kinks (yes including that one). I love u transfems who have had callout posts. I love u fat trans women I love u autistic trans women I love u Black trans women I love u Indigenous trans women. I love u trans women who r mean or defensive or don't behave nicely or are too nice. you deserve to be treated with love and care and you deserve to express your sexuality and anger and age regression and autism and personality disorders and joy and intelligence and stupidity and faux pas and every other little human experience in ways that are not palatable without facing social or interpersonal violence or ostracisism. you deserve everything in the world. safety and love and care and unconditional solidarity and community. you are a beautiful gift to the world whoever you are. I love you forever and I have your back

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wakewithgiggli

The threead continues:

All people have a tendency to be unconsciously biased toward seeing trans women as untrustworthy, unsafe, lacking vulnerability, the problem to be solved rather than a person to be taken care of. And this is not less true in trans and queer and feminist communities. It’s just more unconscious, and more propped up with social justice, feminism, queer lib, leftist, and anti-oppression beliefs. This book is talking about this in context to a physical public situation of harassment, but this is true of social conflicts too, including on social media, in friend groups, in all kinds of situations. The unconscious bias also gets taken advantage of by people who know what they’re doing and hide behind that bias to make their mistreatment of transfems seem reasonable—again, often supported with social justice and anti-oppression rhetoric. TERFs aren’t the only people who do this! It felt so incredible to see this spelled out in print, plain as day, an actual book calling out a real thing I’ve experience more times than I can count, that all transfems I know go through, and that I still feel crazy for seeing because there’s so much gaslighting about it. You know how when you KNOW something is real, but you feel defensive about that knowledge, like you have to be ready to hold onto it, and then you see something confirming that knowledge for you in no uncertain terms and it feels like “wow maybe I wasn’t crazy all this time!” That’s how I felt seeing this.

The book linked is free to read and download. See the link above.

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butchmartyr

if you’re a transfem you should read this, and if you’re not you should reblog it for your transfem friends & followers, the advice in here is extremely good and the grips breaks are not hard to practice!!

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rochenn

I think we should write more straight relationships with 2010s TV queerbait tactics. Let that man and that woman's lives be horribly intertwined, let them take bullets for the other, let them be each other's meaning but NO KISSING. They are holding each other platonically. You're crazy for reading anything romantic into it at all tbh

#Star Trek Voyager tbh#also I've never seen the x files but that is what it appears to be like#based off Tumblr posts which are ofc always representative
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ultipoter

when u rompin around with ya pot

when u romp too hard and get ya head stuck in the pot 

when ya hubris is ya downfall and there is no release 

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