i’ve changed and that’s okay
Y’ALL I’M SO SAD I’VE BEEN TRYING TO FIND THIS ONE TODOBAKUDEKU FIC FOR WEEKS NOW AND IT’S KILLING ME UGH.
It’s actual filth and it’s from a while ago but I can’t seem to find it anywhere and I’m sad 😭
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13.4.20
Y’all know I only post original content on here unless I feel like it’s important to share. Take it in ✨
have you ever betrayed someone's trust? what do you do if you have and genuinely feel awful abt letting that person down and sorry doesn't feel like enough
Not that I'm aware of, I don't think. While I consider myself to have a loose standard of morals about certain things, I do strongly believe in a few key spiritual principles, namely karma. I'm very cognizant of decisions I make regarding other people and their feelings because I don't think karma waits til the next life to restore the balance; I believe the consequences happen in this life. To betray someone means that I can expect to be betrayed later, so I try to avoid it. I have been betrayed a couple of times by past lovers and family members.
If you've betrayed someone, then the consequences are up to that person. They determine your fate regarding your relationship, not you. You can say you're sorry and try to atone and promise it'll never happen again, but at the end of the day, the one you hurt decides whether to trust you and keep you around. You may not be worth the trouble of repairing the relationship from their point of view. For them, you're a risk. You cannot be trusted to the same degree as you had in the past.
Does that mean you're expendable and you should be abandoned completely? Not necessarily. It depends on whether the sum of your other actions and deeds with this person compel them to forgive and give you another chance. Some people are more willing to forgive than others.
Assuming the wound is fresh and you care about this person, give them a few days of peace before asking forgiveness and trying to repair. Betrayal, especially if it involves lying or infidelity, can make someone feel physically ill. You jumping in and demanding for your feelings to be soothed is salting the wound, so I recommend waiting it out. After a few days, open the door to reconciliation with the understanding they may say no.
what do you do when you hurt someone you love even though you had good intentions for what you did ://
sometimes I feel bad because I’m not really the jealous type or the needy type and I’m not really sensitive to the needs of other people. like my boyfriend has been really needy this weekend while I’ve been away for my friend’s graduation and it’s been kind of irritating and it made my weekend slightly less enjoyable because I had to keep updating him on what I was doing. and I’m the type who prefers to have my own space and be independent and not be questioned so much/have to report back to someone all that often. its a bit frustrating because he said he’ll make it up to me since I was so understanding of how he felt about the situation, but I don’t really want him to make up for it, I just wanted to be able to enjoy the weekend while I was there. Idk being in a relationship is weird.
reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)
OH MY FUCKING GOD, IT’S BACK ON MY DASH.
THIS SHIT WORKS OKAY, I AM DEAD SERIOUS.
The last time I saw this on my dash, I didn’t think it would happen, so jokingly I wished I could go to a fun. concert.
AND GUESS WHAT, I WENT TO A FUCKING FUN. CONCERT.
THIS SHIT WORKS, TRY IT.
YOOOOOOO
I SAW THIS ON MY DASH THE OTHER DAY AND THOUGHT “ITS WORTH A TRY” SO I WISHED I COULD GET A 3DS
LITERALLY LIKE 4 DAYS LATER MY DAD SENT ME A PICTURE OF THE 3DS XL HE BOUGHT FOR ME WHILE I WAS AT SCHOOL
IM STILL FREAKING OUT ABOUT THIS
holy fuck, I didn’t expect this to work, I was like psh, whatever it’s just a quick reblog, but I wished my Dad would actually respond back to me AND HE FUCKING DID A FEW DAYS LATER, I GOT A FUCKING TEXT FROM MY DAD TODAY WHO HASN’T SPOKEN OR RESPONDED TO ME IN MONTHS HOLY FUCK WHAT IS THIS MAGIC IT WORKS.
I WANTED TO SEE MY BOYFRIEND AND I DIDN’T THINK I’D GET DAYS OFF BUT THIS WEEKEND I’M HEADING UP THERE??? THIS IS CRAZY SHIT
SO LIKE I JOKINGLY WISHED FOR MY OWN LEN KAGAMINE AND THEN LIKE A WEEK LATER I GOT A LEN NENDOROID??? H ELP
WTF OKAY SO THIS SHOT ACTUALLY WORKS BECAUSE WHEN I WISHED, I HAD WISHED MY CRUSH WOULD LIKE ME BACK AND GUESS WHAT? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND NOW. WHAT THE HELLLLL?????
ok I’ve said this before but IM DOING IT AGAIN THE FIRST TIME I SAW THIS, MY WISH DID COME TRUE SO I REBLOGED AGAIN AND SAID IT IN THE TAGS BUT THEN I WISHED FOR SMTH ELSE AND IT LITERALLY LITERALLY HAPPENED LIKE A COUPLE DAYS LATER WHAT THE HELL SO NOW IM WRITING THIS HERE FOR YOU BC I DONT BELIEVE IN THIS CRAP BUT STILL IT’S AN AWFULLY BIG COINCIDENCE
THE BOY I FELL I LOVE WITH LEFT TO TRAVEL THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD AND HAS BEEN GONE NOW FOR 3 MONTHS. WE HAVENT SPOKEN SINCE BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT TO MAKE HIM FEEL TRAPPED TO ME AND NOT ENJOY HIS TIME SO I WAITED FOR HIM TO CONTACT ME FIRST. I SAW THIS ON A PARTICULARLY LOW DAY WHEN I WAS MISSING HIM SO MUCH I CRIED FROM THE PAIN, GUYS I REALLY LOVE HIM, SO I THOUGHT MEH WHAT THE FUCK, AND WISHED HE WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW HE WAS OKAY.
GUYS.
HE FUCKING CALLED ME 20 MINUTES LATER
20 FUCKNG. MINUTES. LATER.
GOOD THINGS DO HAPPEN. AND ITS IN THIS POST.
I wish for someone to leave something in my ask.
OKAY SO I ASKED FOR A HEDGEHOG AND NOW GUESS WHO HAS A PET HEDGEHOG
i want you to stay for one day and one nigh with me and give me sp much love i dont have to cry of lonliness tonight, every night
no bUT THE LAST TIME I DID THIS SHIT I WISHED MEETING MY IDOL AND IT WAS RIGHT BEFORE I FCKING GOT THE FCKING EMAIL SAYING I WAS GOING TO MEET TAYLOR OH MY GOD
liKE THIS SHIT ACTUALLY WORKS PPL
wont hurt to try
I wish everything works out for me in 2017
I wish that I will get a hedgehog this month
Going to reblog this again because I need some luck tonight!
Reblog the writers’ fortune cookie for luck!
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Kakashi is the hottest character in Naruto and if you disagree you’re blind
me when any old mblaq, infinite, 2ne1, Kara, t-ara, teen top, beast, wonder girls, 4minute song plays*
The girl next to me in this class opened a new tab on her phone and pornhub was a recently used site. Suddenly I dont feel so alone in this world.
Painfully average looking with a great sense of humor and always down to get drunk
Just a normal conversation between me & @yoongihime