January 20, 2021
I hate that I fully understand this
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@niamhlincoln / niamhlincoln.tumblr.com
January 20, 2021
I hate that I fully understand this
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Dean: What're you talking about, man?
Cas:
hell world
I can't believe capitalism took away from us Peanuts too hell world
middle-aged white woman who’s entire personality is Liking Harry Potter vs. middle-aged white man who’s entire personality is Liking Star Wars: fight
They’re dating and calling me slurs on Twitter
they also have a tinder where they beg for threesomes
by Madison Calley
ONCE UPON A TIME: “SNOW FALLS”
merry christmas
Producers: Christina pls just sing Merry Christmas
Christina: MAAAAARRRRR *points* AAARRRR *raises hand* RRRRYY CHRISTMUUUUUUS YEAH *points* OH *points* YEAH OH *points* YEAH OH *points* YEAH OHHH *raises hand* OHOHOHOHHOH MERRY CHRISTMAS BABY YEEEEAH OH YEAH-EAH-EAH OOOOOOOOHHHHHHHH Y-EAHAHEAHEAH TOoooOOOOoooOOO *raises hand to ear* yoooouuuuuoouuu
God what’s that one poem abt homosexuality. Of all definitions of homosexuality I’ve read not one mentions love. That one
Not a poem but from annie on my mind by nancy garden. I get it. I get it.
hey just a heads up/warning for those of you who don’t do well dealing with the heavy subjects or videos portraying violent acts, sandyhook promise has a new gun violence school shooting PSA that is probably going to be going viral and is slated to play on television and in AMC movie theaters and it’s pretty heavy, especially at the end. I know it’s a topic that needs to be discussed but it’s not a video that everyone will be able to watch, so just a warning for those of you that might not be able to handle it.
For when you’re stuck watching like in a theater- When it begins to play, you will see kids talking about their binder or their other school supplies. When you see the boy with the skateboard, stop watching and plug your ears.
I think you should stop watching when you see this person saying “these colorful binders help me stay organized” because pretty much right after that there’s some panic inducing stuff. The entire ad is 67 seconds long.
It’s legit terrifying to watch. It hits you out of nowhere and I know that this is important for people to understand but I have anxiety and this just makes my fear of school shooters worse
It’s called “Back-To-School Essentials” on Youtube. Dark themes to watch out for plus timestamps:
Boosting this because I saw it came up on insta and without knowing what it was i played it and ended up having a break down over its ending. It’s an extremely important topic but also…. extremely hard to watch……..
It’s going around Tumblr now too, just so you’re all prepared
I watched it when it first started going around and it made me incredibly anxious. Heads up to anybody who needs a heads up.
The first time I watched it I legit felt a panic attack start. If I wasnt on the call with someone to help me before it got into a full blown thing, it would of been much worse for me- please dont watch this unless you can stomach it
be careful!!
Watch out everyone
Parent: yells at and threatens child over a mistake
Child: doesnt want to spend time with them afterwards
Parent:
Parent:*yells at and threatens child over a mistake*
Child:*doesn’t want to admit their mistakes and starts keeping secrets from their parent*
Parent:
parent: *yells at and threatens child over them self-harming*
child: *doesn’t talk to parents about their issues and feels worse*
parent:
Parent: *attributes all their child’s achievements to god and all the mistakes to the child*
Child: *actively avoids academic achievement and becomes an atheist*
Parent:
THAT LAST ONE IS WHY I STOPPED ATTENDING CHURCH AFTER I STARTED THERAPY.
Parent: *uses personal info,told to them in confidence as ammo to make child feel bad*
Child: *never tells the parents about how they feel or their personal insecurities*
Parent:
wow this tea is exceptionally tasty tonight thank you
Parent: *tells child they’re overreacting every time they speak up about poor mental health*
Child: *never tells parent what’s wrong until they break into a screaming match with parent*
Parent:
Parent: *immediately dismisses or laughs at child’s ideas about plans, future and clothes choices, without consideration even when asked for ideas.*
Child: *becomes indecisive or never gives ideas because they’ll just be dismissed regardless of how good they are. Answers every question with ‘I don’t mind/ care.*
Parent:
Parent: *groans or whines about childs interests*
Child: *actively avoids them and never wants to hang out with them or talk to them*
Parent:
abusers can change and if you deny that you are not in contact with reality. signed, a victim of extensive abuse
I am also a victim of abuse, so if you could understand that it would be great.
I have learnt to minimise and help myself by learning that my abuser won’t change. Because he hasn’t since I was born. I’m now 19 years old and still he acts in exactly the same way he did when I was 2.
Yes, abusers can change, and yes some people develop into better and more fruitful versions of themselves, but for others it’s a fact of life that the abusive behaviour is ingrained in their DNA.
For an abuser to change, they have to WANT to change, and they have to understand what their actions have done and what the consequences of them are. They have to see what damage they have caused and think differently to every time they’ve caused that damage before.
Some abusive partners promise they will change as a way of manipulation. Some show remorse after the abuse happens, but again to break the cycle, the have to actually want to better themselves.
Maybe your abuser has changed, and for that I am glad that either you managed to get out of the situation and let them grow, or maybe they changed because they saw they hurt you. But mine hasn’t, and millions of others haven’t.
It’s not “[out of] contact with reality” to think an abuser won’t change, it’s a truth that many victims have to face every day.
So I am truly glad your abuser changed, but many don’t. And that is reality.
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