remember love

yr locked in a room alone with three adult men but you feel perfectly safe. who are they

I mean, I feel safe from them but I’m suddenly EXTREMELY worried about what shenanigans I’ve stumbled into

“These men mean me no harm”

“So you feel safe now?”

“Oh, absolutely not”

yr locked in a room alone with three adult men but you feel perfectly safe. who are they

I mean, I feel safe from them but I’m suddenly EXTREMELY worried about what shenanigans I’ve stumbled into

“These men mean me no harm”

“So you feel safe now?”

“Oh, absolutely not”

I still occasionally get the sir uh no ma’am no sorry sir comments almost 6 years on T and a lot of people don’t get why that happens to me but what people don’t get is that most people out in the world aren’t like expecting to see trans people so if they catch sight of my bra line under my shirt or hear me talk slightly high pitched something short circuits in their brain as they try to rationalize that with the rest of my appearance.

I mean I pass the vast majority of the time. Even without binding or packing. But sometimes you’re gonna cause a little short circuit. And you know what? Usually the other person is the one embarrassed in that situation. Not you. For the most part with strangers what gender they think you are isn’t your problem. If you act like your gender should be obvious to them then they’re the ones who will be flustered. Not you.

Make a confused and slightly judgmental face at them or correct them like uh, sir like it’s obvious when they misgender you and that’ll take care of a lot of your problems, I’ve found.

A lot of the way to combat getting misgendered around normies and conservatives is just to act like they’re stupid for thinking you’d be anything other than what you are. There’s mannish looking women and womanly looking men out there and everybody knows that and if they make wrong assumptions about you that’s egg on their face. Like asking a fat person when the baby’s due. The embarrassment in that situation lies on the person asking that question. Not the fat person.

The same principle applies to when a stranger misgenders you. If you act like it’s obvious and you’re confused why they’d think you’re the wrong gender then the crowd is more likely to be with you.

Also if a stranger ever walks up to you and asks if you’re a man or woman you’re within your rights to say “What kind of question is that?” or “Why’s that your business?” and walk away from them.

I’m

The youth are lost

“coke is better!” “pepsi is better!” wrong. squirt supremacy.

i posted it and then i heard it

Im gonna derail.

This Is my cat. His name is Squirt.

Squirt supremacy.

SQUIRT SUPREMACY!!!

Ok now we have a booping feature I propose to tumblr next ides of March we have a stabbing counter and the person with the most stabs gets crowned Caesar and the blog with the most stabbings gets crowned Brutus

so you guys like booping, now get ready for this new feature: reblogging <3

noticing as I learn different languages I tend to think using the shortest word from any of those languages, so for example instead of "this is" or "dette er", I'll just automatically think "c'est"

So my proposal is a creole of every language in which we find the shortest syllabic way to say every single word and speak at maximum efficiency

Boop!!

gonna be a big one under the cut

even after this goes away i want my mutuals to know i'm always giving you a little boop

drake?

josh?

where’s the body of christ?

me when i fuckging get you