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Ohlalam

@miundy-foxy / miundy-foxy.tumblr.com

Miundy~ (He/they) Autistic - AroAce - Agender. INFJ. Multifandom. I've been on this hellsite for quite a long time. It will crumble around me but I won't leave. Icon by Meltesh28
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online communities are so strange because people slip away so easily. you can be on here for years, folding people you've never met into the fabric of your daily life, and then they disappear, leaving only ghost posts scattered across tumblr behind. or their blog stays dormant, for weeks, months, years, until you're only still following them because you remember that they love sunflowers or they were kind to you when they didn't have to be or the last thing they posted was sad and raw and you still worry about them sometimes.

and sometimes they come back when you least expect it, years later, even, and there's this sudden rush of relief like there you are, there you are, even though you barely knew each other.

there's a strange kind of love to it. i don't know you and i want to hold your hand across miles and time zones and oceans. i can still see the imprint of you in this community you left. you don't anyone will notice or care when you're gone, but we notice and we care and we wish you well.

i hope you're all okay out there. i hope the sun is shining on your face and you are breathing deeply. i miss you.

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Miundy? How Is your name pronounced?

I’ve been saying it like (Me-un-dee) but I realize that may not be right!

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Mee-oon-dee? I guess? You're not far! It can be difficult to transcribe depending on your accent? The way you say it should be okay??

I should record it :'D

Thanks for asking btw!

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prguitarman

Happy Anniversary. This is the original post. On this day in 2011 I was doing a charity drive for the natural disasters in Tōhoku and drew this. A few hours later I turned it into a gif and posted it here.

Here’s the original doodle before I drew it into a GIF

Icon legend bless you

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kkujo

i just saw someone describe a disabled person as "someone with beautiful abilities" i cannot do this anymore

god can we stop softening the term "disabled". disabled isn't a dirty word. it's not "special abilities" or "differently abled" or whatever the fuck you want to call it. people have disabilities that cause life to be hard and there's nothing wrong with acknowledging that?? it feels so invalidating when people are like "ohh you're not disabled!!! you have special abilities!!" like. omg a) it feels so infantilizing. b) by saying that you're basically saying our struggles aren't real...? some conditions are disabling. it's not hard to understand?? like there is NOTHING wrong with being disabled & using the word disabled. it's not offensive it's not a dirty word can we take the shame out of it pls oh my god. this goes for physical & non physical disabilities btw

Parents are teaching their children this too.

Disability and accommodations and accessibility all have legal ramifications. "Special” does not.

Remember why people want to remove your ability to literally take them to court.

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(prologue info) siffrin sunday! today we celebrate siffrin being non-binary, because hell yeah go you!!

while they don't mind he pronouns, they don't identify with or express themselves as a man, and to that we say "valid"

wonder how they looked in a dress!

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slfcare

five recipes for an exciting life (in my opinion)

  1. spending enough time creating things with your hands (baking, drawing, scrapbooking, doodling, crocheting, journaling and so on)
  2. keeping track of things like pretty skies, milestones, happy memories, appointments you're looking forward to
  3. listening to music that genuinely makes you feel happy and energetic
  4. making a habit of reaching out to people in a way that's comfortable to you (i send my dad songs he might like, my friend sends me monthly life updates)
  5. being kind to all your five senses β†’ like investing in a scented candle or essential oil dispenser or body mist, having a soft blanket or socks (or a soft animal to pet), listening to birdsong or the rain, looking at the sky more often, and having your favorite foods enough times
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