Baby like juice box !!
☆how to care for your carer☆
with a lot of suggestions out there of how to care for the kiddo, still, caring can be mutual, although maybe not in the same ways. a lot of carers are also mentally ill, sensitive, traumatized, and anxious; just like the kiddos.
(aside for the carers: you need to learn to take care of yourselves, before you can take care of your tinie properly)
- communicate
- you say what you need, encourage the carer to communicate what they want or need. tell each other if you have a bad day. try to be honest and theyll be honest back
- send them reminders
- like little messages that you love and appreciate them too. carers also need to remember that they are completely adored
- reasonable sleep time
- it can be hard to push for when “youre the kiddo” but still, its possible to make the carer promise to go to bed. use puppy eyes, or nag if needed
- self care
- washing up is also a tough one, but if you try the way of “unless you do it too, i wont do it” it might work. if you can see your carer face to face, maybe ask to wash their hair, or bring them lotion - they will find it adorable and itll make them feel cared about
- spoil them
- if not with material things, then with crafts like a drawing or a coloring page, or with affection. (if you can get them something like bath bombs, or lotion, it might help with the self care point)
- cooking
- a good way to make sure an evil witch didnt curse the apples is to help them make a meal. maybe, if youre big enough, make something for them - if you are ldr, encourage them to cook something healthy and yummy
- reign back the attitude
- sometimes it gets hard for the carers to deal with fussiness, so try to be a bit more complacent with the reasonable little things. this shows your carer that you trust their judgement
- make caring for you caring about them too
- it can be subtle - like holding their hand during a monster check, or protecting them from a storm in a pillow fort. make sure they know you care about them too
- dont be selfish
- consider the carer, and their needs, and their feelings. they are human too. all the tips on tumblr usually go to a lot of extremes that are not okay in real world & relationships - never force your carer into anything theyre not comfortable with. dont get upset when they dont comply your every will. treat them like you want to be treated
- take time to know each other
- if you are in a relationship outside of regression, get to know each other and do different things. give each other time to rest and grow
- love them and be nice
so important!!
Cottagecore Frog Friend ♡
So I bought her! Welcome to the family! 🍨🍪
We bare bears softies
Monsters Part 03: Make your own monster! (for printing)
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@peachybaby-world , I hope you like it!
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!💖💖💖💖💖 AND I LOVE U!!
Check my talented friend's drawings pls!! She deserves all the love and support 💖💖💌💌
scooby is home !!!!im so happy i could cry !! i gave him a scooby snack for being so brave on the delivery truck ! also hes softer than i imagined the texture of his fur is absolutely perfect !! 🐾
Blue’s Clues Doodles!
A super cute completed commission I just had to share :)
I just wanted to make you aware that your links in your description don’t work, at least for me, so you might wanna check that they’re right?
Ooh thank u for letting me know, dear. though i have no idea how to fix them. Any ideas?
Thank for the heads up. Have a nice day💖 youre loved and appreciated 💌