adhd will get you thinking "i should make this doctors appointment" every day for 7 months and counting
none of us are making those appointments huh
Any support is appreciated! Thank you all.
It sucks that there's only 20 minutes in each day. If there was more than that I would get more stuff done I'm sure
people with chronic pain and chronic fatigue will be like why does it hurt and why am I so tired
bro im gonna CRY i didnt know this 🥺
free healthcare should include teeth actually
when two adhd girls link up... ANYTHING could stop us
Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost
- The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.
- The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.
- The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.
- The “get stuff done while you wait” method.
- The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.
- The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.
- The “break the task into smaller steps” method.
- The “treat yourself like a pet” method.
- The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.
- The “put on a persona” method.
- The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.
- The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.
- The “wait for a trigger” method.
- The “do it for your future self” method.
- The “might as well” method.
- The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.
- The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.
- The “make it easy” method.
- The “junebugging” method.
- The “just show up” method.
- The “accept when you need help” method.
- The “make it into a game” method.
- The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.
- The “trick yourself” method.
- The “break it into even smaller steps” method.
- The “let go of should” method.
- The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.
- The “fork theory” method.
- The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.
This is the sacred texts, this is the holy grail.
This a GOOD STUFF, people. Read and try, it may work for you 🤞
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Not diagnosing a child doesn't mean they won't notice they're different. It just means that instead of thinking "I'm struggling because I have autism/adhd/anxiety/depression/schizophrenia", they will just conclude that they are struggling because they are stupid, weak, annoying, unlovable, etc.
I can't stand parents who don't want to "label" their child.
I have all of the ADHDs, and I didn't have it confirmed and diagnosed until I was over 50.
I have trauma: it is not "big" trauma, it's smaller daily traumas where I always felt "wrong", layered over and over and over very finely, so now it's as hard and unbreakable as a Japanese sword.
I want to scream "LABEL THEM. ALL THE LABELS. I WILL BRING MY LABEL-MAKER AND ADD SOME MORE."
Sure, Diagnosis = Label. But also = beginning to understand = access to help and accommodations = now you can't be a dick to your child about their DIAGNOSED DISABILITY unless you are fully committed to being a dick anyway = child can now start doing their own learning about themselves (I learned so much from ADHD twitter) = being able to make choices about how to be in a world set up to maximise neurotypical success.
Or is the problem here that you don't want your own label as "parent of a neurodivergent child?
I feel this so hard. I was diagnosed at 33. I said to my mom “turns out I have adhd.” She says “oh I could have told you that.”
And I’m like “why the fuck didn’t you then???”