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Saucy Little Smile

@saucylittlesmile / saucylittlesmile.tumblr.com

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Ocean waves made of maps by Matthew Cusick

[ID: A series of mosaic-styles collages that use map cutouts to create images of crashing waves in a painterly style. The map cutouts are so small that from afar it is hard to tell that the images are not paintings. End ID.]

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acesartemis

This is wonderful.

For people who can’t see the image for some reason:

It’s a “Dear Abby” column, published in 1995. The letter writer, “Not Looking for a Girlfriend in New Jersey,” identifies as a 53 year old male virgin with no interest in either women or men, despite coworkers having assumptions that his lack of a family means he must be gay.

This man expresses no concern about his situation (other than the presumed exhaustion at being continually misidentified), and suggests he was writing simply so other people could see that “a man who had no interest in sex” exists.

Abby blows it out of the ballpark with her response:

People who have no sexual feelings are called “asexual.” Since it doesn’t appear to bother you, it should present no problem. You are accountable to no one except yourself [emphasis mine].

Here we have the bastion of middle American, the “nice White lady with all the answers”, normalizing this man’s experience and literally telling him to ignore the haters. Pre Millennium. She even calmly supplies this man with the language to identify himself, since he seems not to have encountered it before; that must have been so empowering for him, to have a word for his experience and identity, and to hear that others shared it.

Everyone, you are valid, and your identity is accountable to no one except yourself.

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catchymemes

Animals interrupting photographers

The thing with wildlife photography is that you're supposed to lie still and do your best not to bother nature while you spend potentially hours getting good footage and shots. However, lying in one place and not making a fuss also happens to be a good way to get curious animals to waltz right up to you

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have i ever shown u people my hand sofa

my prized possession is this loveseat I bought from a divorced dad who couldn’t tell me anything about it and in the years i’ve owned it i’ve never been able to find out who made it or where it came from. it’s got nails and finger creases and palm lines but they’re all kinda hard to see in this pic.

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sepdet
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emeraldwhale
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kleefkruid
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