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BURNED AT BOTH ENDS

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marina // 29 // they/she
queer fat bitch that makes zines and occasionally talks about fucked up shit on youtube. disabled as fuck. friendly local dominatrix. unofficial tim skold pesterer. tarantula mom. horror enthusiast. degenerate pervert anti-anti. infamous (2012) defender.
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hi i’m marina and i’m a garbage person.

[tyler the creator voice] random disclaimer: you read the fuckin bio up there you already know this is a freak shit friendly zone. this blog is mostly pg-13. if you’re a minor you can follow me and interact with me as long as you understand that i am an adult human person. don’t fuckin get mad at ME cuz you followed an adult and they posted adult stuff.

other socials etc

my other blogs on this blue hell are

  • my nsft 18+ sex work promo etc blog is @slavetotheflesh if you click/read/follow be aware i post lewdz over there and generally rb kink/bdsm imagery but i do tag most stuff. if you’re a nsft blog and i followed you it’s probably for that blog so you may wanna follow me back over there. NO MINORS.
  • my fic blog is ao3user + my ao3 username. it's also linked in the end notes of my fics. i gotta keep it separate from main for privacy reasons and at my own discretion so sorry but it's not hard to find i promise. NO MINORS. i don’t talk about fic on this blog outside of discourse so if you send an anon ask about fic to this blog i will probably ignore it. leave it off anon and i might reply privately. but if you send it to my fic blog i will definitely answer it.

i block

  • radfems (all of you. idc if you’re a terf or not. trans inclusive radfems still suck)
  • antis (especially if you’re anti-kink/bdsm or anti-porn and ESPECIALLY especially if you’re also a minor. leave adult issues to adults i can’t believe i even have to say this)
  • loud anti-fat people (that shit is embarrassing at least keep it to yourself)
  • general fascist bullshit (put any -ism or -phobia or just cop-esque behavior in my notes & you’re getting the block hammer)

if you’re one of the above and you follow me anyway i reserve the right to publicly mock you on my blog

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Please, please be considerate of your fat friends' needs and limitations. Fat bodies are heavy to carry around. I move about the world slower than my thin peers, and I've often had to choose between pushing myself to keep a pace that takes absolutely all my energy, or being left behind, when walking in a group. I don't always feel safe to ask that everyone walk slower, because there's a prevalent idea in society that fat people need to exert themselves as much as possible at all times in the service of weight loss, and that we never "really" need rest, therefore it's a good thing whenever we're exhausted. Fat people and thin people alike are taught that fatness is a flaw, one that fat people ourselves are to blame for, so we're not entitled to any accommodation or consideration. A friend of mine who is fat recently told me about a dinner party she went to where the chairs were far too small for her and she was sitting very uncomfortably. After the meal she politely suggested moving the party to the couch, but the others didn't want to. She spent another couple of hours in unnecessary pain, and didn't dare tell them about it. I love my thin friends, but some of them just don't realize that I weigh probably twice as much as them, and yet I balance it all on the same size feet and carry it on about the same size bones. I'm like if they had a whole other them to carry around at all times. Why would that not have an impact on how I function? Please - take us into consideration when we're part of activities. Ask us which activities work and which don't. Adjust the pace so no one has to be dry heaving and sweating barrels on what's supposed to be a casual walk. Make sure venues have seating that fits us. Make it safe for us to speak up if we need something. When we do, don't treat us like we're the problem. Finally: yes, we have heard of losing weight. Even those of us who might (and many never will, whether you like it or not), won't do it on a moment's notice. If your response to "fat people deserve accommodations" is "what if they weren't fat though", you're playing a fantasy game. It's pointless. We are fat and we are here and we do partake in society. Work with that.

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were--ralph

I just think more hairy fat men and even hairless fat men just fat men in general should be wearing less clothing in the summer to give the people who work hard every day a treat to get them through their shift like fuck the people who think its weird seeing an overhanging belly in a crop top

Like i hate to say it but if you're a big boy with big thighs you're actively harming the future of this country by not wearing shorts in public and that's not even counting the men with big bellies and hairy tits who wear shirts like showing tits and belly and thighs in public should be a duty as an american citizen and even non-americans should be doing this in their country it's a public service for those of us who need a little treat to get us through the day

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