Alrighty I've sat with this for a day and now wanna actually talk about it. The page in question that prompted me making this post was, of course, from Wonder Woman (2023) #5. And I think part of why I had such a gut reaction to it is because it really just reminded me of a notorious page from Teen Titans (2003) #25.
Now, these two pages are different and I do think the Wonder Woman page is definitely preferable of the two—but the common factor that just stands out to me is 'having Cassie talk about her tomboy past in a way that makes it clear that's NOT who she is anymore, that treats it as something she grew out of, treating the fact that she has moved away from it as as a good thing/an improvement:
(Teen Titans Vol. 3 #25 & Wonder Woman Vol. 6 #5)
In the Teen Titans page, it's framed as a 'good thing' through all the negative talk and descriptors of her past self—mocking her own old fashion sense, her 'bad hair' and saying she 'wasn't very pretty'. This page acts like this newer more girly presentation of herself is somehow obviously better—not that it fixed everything because some people still call her a fake... but she acts embarrassed of who she used to be even just in this internal monologue.
In the Wonder Woman page, instead it's being framed as a 'good thing' because it's a change attributed to Diana's influence rather than, like, society's—that meeting Diana allowed Cassie to indulge in girly things she'd previously stayed away from, that this was a positive impact meeting Diana had on her.
Now, a slight but relevant sidebar—debate about Cassie and how she's been portrayed on the tomboy to girly-girl spectrum is nothing new, it's been happening forever. As a general I thing I don't have many positive feelings towards Cassie's creator John Byrne, but I do want to highlight something he said once about her:
Regarding changes to his characters by different creative teams:
Byrne: "I've had to train myself not to care, because when we let go, we have to let go. A somewhat recent example is what they had done to Cassie Sandsmark in Wonder Woman once I had left. I'd done this 'all elbows and knees' fourteen year old girl, and they turned her into Britney Spears. And that's because there's an awful lot of artists out there, sadly, male, who can ONLY draw Britney Spears. They can't understand, and there's an awful lot of fans who won't accept anything else. There were a lot of males saying how 'ugly' Cassie was, and I'd say "She's not ugly, she's ordinary. You guys are just used to seeing these cookie-cutter whatnots."" (source)
The change in Cassie's depiction, historically, came about largely because of real life societal pressures and opinions about what a 'Wonder Girl' should look like—which as much as I hate that Teen Titans page I posted above... Cassie talking about how people saw her as a 'fake' and 'pretender' speaks pretty true to the actual real life situation. There very much so were real life people that didn't think this character suited Wonder Girl because she wasn't depicted as pretty/girly enough. And when she was changed in the comics, she became more popular. Go figure.
But that was ~20 years ago, and while it's not like misogyny in comics has gone away (lmao) the general landscape of media is definitely different in several ways than it was then—and at least in the 'talking about DC comics' social media sphere I see somewhat regular discussion and debate about the state of Cassie. Trying to reconcile the girl she originally was with the girl who she became in later iterations.
Especially because of how even MORE extreme the New 52 had gone with her—with not just girly-fying her but also wildly over-sexualizing her. And while that's not the version of the character we're seeing anymore, I think putting screenshots like these side by side and saying 'this was supposed to be the same character at age 14 and then age 16' made a lot of people go 'hang on—'
(Young Justice Vol. 1 #20, Cover of Teen Titans Vol. 5 #1)
(However I do absolutely need to point out that nowadays, since the Rebirth era, Cassie has definitely been pulled back from that over-sexualization from the New 52 era:)
(Teen Titans Vol. 5 #1, Young Justice Vol. 3 #2)
But anyway, yeah, these kinds of comparisons just... got people talking and thinking about the situation more, I think. Got people realizing that this character has been altered so heavily over time in ways that at their root had little to do with character motivation and much more to do with 'making her appeal more to the male audience'.
And so, back to the Wonder Woman page from this week, it feels largely like this 'Diana allowed me to become a 'princess girl' thing was King's attempt at smoothing out Cassie's history in regards to this subject for his approach to her character—to acknowledge her tomboy past, but still make it clear that she's changed. She's not being over-sexualized like in the N52 era anymore, and she's not outwardly disparaging her younger self the way she did in the Teen Titans era anymore either.... but she is a 'princess girl' now.
Which irks me because I feel like a far more interesting story with Cassie would be to allow her to embrace elements of her tomboy past and reincorporate those into who she is now, to salvage the irl situation that has caused these changes in her character and make it into a story about how societal pressures can impact a person and change who they are for a while... but that they can pull themselves out of that and not just be defined by what the world around them thinks they should be—BUT I do acknowledge that's my wishful thinking, that's my approach I'd love to take with her character, that's not something a writer at DC is like... required to explore. If I just hold up every modern comic in comparison to that idea, then of course I'll be constantly in disappointment.
So putting my feelings on how I think Cassie should be handled aside, the primary other thing that irks me is this specific approach to 'smoothing things out' that King took—having this shift in Cassie's characterization be attributed to Diana's influence.
Because, well, I have read most of Cassie's appearances. I can look at release dates of issues and the stories within them. And because of that, I know that Cassie meeting Diana was not the root source of the shift in her character the way this page from King treats it. (Like... Cassie met Diana when she was introduced in 1996... and while Cassie definitely started to shift slightly more girly gradually after the Byrne WW run ended in 1998, the substantial 'huge jump from before' changes were in 2003)
I want to specifically bring up Wonder Woman Vol. 2 Issue 153 for a second here. A relatively-early-in-her-history (late 1999/early 2000) issue in which Cassie does actively try to change herself for the girly-er... temporarily.
She attempts to re-do her whole look into something more feminine because she wants to impress Kon (her celebrity crush/teammate) and gets a makeover from Cissie
(Wonder Woman Vol. 2 #153)
Which she soon realizes was a mistake and it's stupid trying to impress Kon like this in the first place. In part of her explaining to Kon why she tried doing this... she cites the rumors of 'Superman and Wonder Woman' and why that made her think Superboy and Wonder Girl would be a perfect pair.
(Wonder Woman Vol. 2 #153)
So, um, sure. Yeah. Acting like Diana's influence caused Cassie to like... get more in touch with her 'pink and frilly' side? That bugs the shit out of me. Societal pressure from the idea of Wonder Woman (and the idea of 'Wonder Woman being paired romantically with male heroes') caused Cassie to once try to change herself to be more in touch with her 'girly' side, but it backfired wildly and was something she immediately regretted because it wasn't true to who she is.
Like... I dunno, my ultimate point here is that I think this was just a stupid approach to the subject from King. I don't think he was the right person to approach this subject with her at all.
I think he could have easily written an interaction between Cassie & Diana here that didn't involve this topic of Cassie's approach/relationship to femininity at all—I get that the point he was trying to make was about their influences on each other (not that I think the influence he had Diana say Cassie had on her is great either... teaching her 'how to be an American'... 😒) but there could have been... a lot of other things to say!
Things that could be just... far more meaningful. Something about ways Diana taught Cassie to find strength in herself, to find confidence, to find leadership qualities... ya know? I mean hell, that core idea of 'I will not be ruled' that he has her bring up, that exact sentiment could be taken in so many different directions aside from the one he chose—Cassie being inspired by Diana to stand her ground and approach things her own way could be about a million things aside from... her being or not being 'a princess girl'.