Never feel bad about using these men. Be ruthless, be fatale, be heartless, be manipulative. They never and will never feel bad about using you. They are liars. They are selfish and will tell you whatever they think you want to hear. They don’t truly, really care about you so always keep that in mind.
They are in it for their own self interest and you should be as well.
The number of “aspiring” or newbie sugar babies that flood my private messages asking basic questions is crazy. I’m turning off that feature (unless we’re mutuals) so if you have a question you’re gonna have to go through my asks. I’ll keep anon on, but if the same nonsense happens, anon is coming off.
I won’t help you find a SD, I won’t tell you what to say to these men, and I certainly won’t give basic advice that’s accessible on this blog and countless others. To anyone that has a problem, grow up, and research like the big girl/boy you want to be in the sugar world.
I don’t want to hear that aspiring/newbie babies will be in danger if tumblr blogs don’t answer their “How do I find a sugar daddy without having sex,” or “I need fast money how do I become a SB,” type questions. If you don’t have the time to research, again, grow up and get out.
Still desperate.. part 4 I don’t want to get murdered lol
Still desperate.....
Desperate.
The type that thinks they're paying $200 to fuck you 🙃 (just blocked out identifying info)
Pocket change 😛 I always find it funny how everyone always thinks that we have great chemistry. No bitch, that's my job to make you think that.
I miss this shit 😭😭😭 The smell of money is so glorious like.. seriously. WYP lunch date. I'm just scamming them for petty cash bc ummm I'm broke af now that I stopped sugaring and got a bf. He was all "I find you attractive. Do you find me attractive?" NIGGA. YOU ARE THREE TIMES MY AGE. NO. I was just "you're... handsome" LOL. But anyway, he was okay and gave me $100 more than I asked for. Even if I was still a SB, idk if I would even start an arrangement with him given the 40-year age gap lmao nigga old af. I felt kinda bad just scamming him for his money, but I just tell myself he would wanna fuck a 20-something-year-old for free anyway. But ye he was koo, minus the awkward af questions like what I thought about him 😒 Also holy fuck I'm a better liar than I thought. I'm going under this guise of "Oh, I only want $100 for the initial date bc I don't think it should be super high. And oh, I'm only looking for one SD that I have a connection with. $400 per date? Oh that sounds wonderful." Bitch pls.
This is why I'm gonna be scamming these men for money and never fuck em or get in an arrangement with them. "if you are a good girl I'll let you" Nigga pls. You're lucky to even talk with me. This is one of many reasons why I left the bowl lol
I still get notifications for PMs and get shit like this 😂
Why did you stop sugaring?
I got into a relationship (with a normal guy), which I was looking for anyway. Sugaring was always a side thing for me. Might get back into it if the relationship doesn’t work out :) Plus the bowl is exhausting lol
Love your blog boo 💕
Thank you! Unfortunately (well, actually fortunately, for me) I stopped sugaring so no more posts from me :(
does Seeking Arrangement have the option to choose both men and women as a preference or is it one or the other?
You can choose both, but don't expect Sugar Mommas on the site.
Ugh. One of these dudes from WYP who accepted a $200 offer of mine (he is broke though) just called me at TWO IN THE FUCKING MORNING. I accepted the fool's offer 2 months ago and we never met because he is "busy" (never talked to him either asides from less than 10 messages total, for that reason). IT IS THURSDAY. TWO O'CLOCK IN THE FUCKING MORNING. This is extremely inappropriate. I'm not your girlfriend or wife. Hell, I haven't even met you yet. I didn't have his name saved in my phone, and the conversation went down like this "h..hello...??" "(sugar name)?" "who's this?" "it's (x) from WYP" "dude it's 2 in the morning..." "I know I'm drunk haha" "yeah sorry dude no it's 2 in the morning I need to sleep bye" 2 am me cannot deal with this kind of shit, especially not with some clingy broke ass man. (This dude also sent me a text at 2 am apparently drunk a few weeks ago. I can't deal with drunks ugh)
Who even are you.
Splenda sent me a flyer for a study that his job is doing. Basically a breast exam/study to test their new product for $100. Ummm... How broke do you think I am? I'll let you touch my tits instead and collect my 600 ppm. (Getting there and back would be at least $30 and about 4 hours of my time, just for transportation). This guy is getting too comfortable. Like whyyyy would I go to your workplace? Even though I can say he's my language teacher, it's still inappropriate for a young girl to be with a man in his 40s, especially a married one. I'm sure his coworkers would get suspicious too and be nosy. Also I would have to give my full name for that shit. This nigga still doesn't even know my real first name, and never will. Does he think I'm stupid? I'm starting to get annoyed with him, for many other reasons. Plus some weird ass shit he said.... For my safety I'm not telling him my real name or phone number. I feel like he has the potential to get really attached... I mean it's not that I feel unsafe, but.. YOU CANNOT TRUST THESE MEN!!! Better safe than sorry!!!
Two of my daddies always pressure me into not using a condom.... they are clean I've seen test results but I still don't want to. But then I also don't want them to get tired of me because of it. I'm on the pill so no pregnancy risk it's just that it could get dirty. What do you think I should do about this so that they don't leave me at some point? It's weird how much they care about this like one of my daddies insists on using a condom! So what makes them different ugh
Tell them if they do not respect you enough to respect your wishes, then you will end it with them. There should always be respect and boundaries in any relationship, and a sugar one is no different. You shouldn’t even have to explain yourself. No means no.
If they're not using condoms with you, they're not using condoms with other girls who also aren't using condoms with other men. This is how you get STDs. You're a fool to not use condoms in the bowl. No amount of money is worth your health and life. You're not in an exclusive relationship, and even if you were, these men still cheat and lie (Hello? Most SDs are married if you didn't know). You are in your prime and youth.
If you get an incurable STD, it will be hard to find a future partner who will be comfortable with that (or you'll be making your pool much, much smaller and may have to be with someone with an STD).
ALWAYS USE CONDOMS. NO EXCEPTIONS!!! YOU CANNOT TRUST THESE MEN!!!
Naive girls should not be in the bowl.
