Merry Happy BHM!

stop saying “but I feel like I’m being mean” when you set a boundary. you are not mean because you have standards and want to be treated a certain way

Nature mandala’s

You deserve to live. You deserve to love and be loved. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to be you. You deserve better. You're here for a reason, your existence is not a mistake. You deserve to be safe. You exist. Thank you for that

It has come to my attention that some of you have been trying their best despite really, really don't wanting to??!! I just wanted to say congratulations for being so badass! You are so cool and awesome, and I'm so proud of you<3

People rarely notice your flaws that you worry about, because they’re too busy worrying that you’ll notice theirs. Remember this if you feel self conscious or embarrassed

It's not fair to tolerate discomfort to make someone else comfortable. You're not less deserving of joy, rest and happiness than anyone else. You don't have to prove yourself worthy to have the most basic things in life, and I am sorry someone has made you feel like you should be perfect. You don't have to put up with so much only to prove you're not a burden on others. I hope soon you can let go of all this guilt and shame you have for simply existing. I hope soon you will feel more alive than ever.

You can break the generational trauma. The toxic patterns. The financial insecurity. You can start a new chapter, make the difference. You can do it.

give yourself some credit for surviving the days where you thought the world was ending

I might make a rentry so bare with me. It is so much easier to design than carrds.

Fuck it I am making a new carrd or rentry , the debate continues because so many things changed. UGHHHHHH.

things that don’t make you any less of a person:

you don’t have to earn your personhood. you deserve care and respect regardless of what you can or can’t do. you deserve to be treated with dignity and kindness

Sharing this here too

I do not usually make posts like this but recently I have seen a lot of content on Instagram, Twitter and I think tiktok too misunderstanding the meaning of intrusive thoughts, which may cause people experiencing them to be upset.

I have tried to shortly explain the difference of impulsive and intrusive and hope it will help people to understand and use the words correctly.

Reblogs are very much appreciated!

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fat bodies are good bodies.

disabled bodies are good bodies.

sick bodies are good bodies.

scarred bodies are good bodies.

intersex bodies are good bodies.

trans bodies are good bodies.

all bodies are good bodies.

made a beginners guide for the twitter newbies hope this helps <3