mapping the interior
Dan Bodelson (detail)
mapping the interior
Dan Bodelson (detail)
canโt stop smiling in inappropriate situations
forgive me father for i have grinned
a man, shaking and sniffling: why do you still need feminismโฆ.you can voteโฆ.and thereโs a chance that iโll go to prison if i kill youโฆโฆ.what more could you wantโฆโฆ.
reaction image for doing anything ever
there was a tiktok I made a while ago basically saying "your abusive ex boyfriend is more likely a misogynist than a narcissist" and while most people agreed some said I was victim blaming(?) and that I couldn't know what their ex is like, and while obviously I don't, every fucking person describing their narcissistic ex is describing a typical misogynist. ask yourself, is this behavior you associate with narcissism directed at women or does he treat his male friends the same way? is his general functioning in life impaired?
many people don't seem to know this, but a mental disorder is NOT based on symptoms alone, it's based on how much the symptoms actually impair you in daily life. most people could look at a list of mental disorder symptoms and identify either themselves or someone else with them. as far as a narcissistic personality, we all know people who appear more self absorbed than others, but this is typically subclinical narcissism (presence of narcissistic traits without significant impairment of functioning) which is not a disorder. there is also a misunderstanding of what npd is. a narcissist is not a supervillain invincible to emotion. npd is a defensive reaction to trauma that lead to deep insecurity and fear of being seen as weak or vulnerable. so narcissists aren't actually "in love with themselves" at all and often are diagnosed when seeking help for other issues such as substance abuse resulting from their struggles.
this focus a lot of abused women in online pop psychology have on narcissism is particularly concerning because it completely glosses over misogyny which is literally a huge factor in violence against women. people really only know misogyny as a surface level thing. they don't know it can lead to family annihilation, for example, and is one reason most family annihilations are committed by the husband. it's always "this man is a sociopath" "this man is a narcissist" when the man's behavior is driven by ideology. I am so fucking tired of everything being tied to mental illness and left at that. you know what this leads to? courts "fixing" abusive men by...giving them anger management therapy. guess what? it doesn't fucking do anything because the problem isn't mental instability leading to anger, it's targeted, purposeful abuse. we are getting nowhere
i think we as a society need more lesbian vampires in media
giving unread book back to the library makes me feel like i should be shot
The fact that some people say things like this while other people think itโs totally fine to starve children is something that really should be talked about more.
period i am against that for sure
directors using colorful or "impossible" lighting to convey mood and meaning and beauty my beloved. directors making night scenes impossible to see for the sake of realism my beloathed.
Average color of US states based on satellite imaging.
fond of the average by county version of this:
also the world version:
Australia is really out there doing her own thing
Youโre just jealous of our apocalyptic arse sand
Why is the ground made of Flaminโ Hot Cheetos?
It rusty
the wii is considered a retro console now.
THE WII IS CONSIDERED A WHAT.
[on the verge of having a complete breakdown] i need to make some kind of list or perhaps sort things into categories
everytime someone rbs this i get a notification as though it were my post, even the rbs that donโt have my addition. go away onion post i am not your mother
Abandoned by its biological mother, the onion post instead imprints on a random passerby that fed it.