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Lucifer - hot as hell

@lucifer-hot-as-hell / lucifer-hot-as-hell.tumblr.com

#deckerstar, #I find Tom Ellis highly attractive | S. | too old for Tumblr | she/her | INFP | Germany | nerd, mom, daydreamer
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My thoughts on expectations put into pictures.

Sometimes we are too small and need to stretch to fulfill other's expectations. When we fail, we disappoint...

Sometimes we need to make ourselves smaller and when we stretch to our real selves, we confuse and disappoint again

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A visualization of growing older

With time we are exposed to more and more experience. We soak it in and try to arrange it so they make sense. Sometimes we might feel like we exploded if we would let in anything new. But by letting go of old stuff we can find energy to grow again and rearrange to make sense...

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The metaphor of TV shows

When you talk about how a TV show affects you, you don't actually have to reveal too much of yourself.

Some people do and that's so delightful.

Some may only see the boring plot, laugh at funny scenes...

Others may see metaphors, make connections to their own experiences and get invested in characters' stories.

I like seeing people through the way they watch shows and movies.

And through characters we can experience without actually having to do something.

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thoradvice

i cannot emphasise enough how much you need to create something. anything. it doesn't matter if you suck. you don't need to monetise it, or make it your career. you can restart an old hobby; you can start from scratch. it doesn't matter. you just need to hold something and be able to say "i did that". baking, drawing, painting, writing, coding, crafts, whatever. make something ! you cannot have all your hobbies be a form of consumption. it's fun, it's great in its own right. but the single best action to make yourself feel better, to calm your mind, to gain self esteem, is to Create

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Happy pride

I've been wondering why I draw rainbows every June and always feel a bit reserved...

Even though I'll never be an active part of the LGBTQIA+ community, I have the greatest respect.

Because more than any other community the LGBTQIA+ community promotes diversity, tolerance and inclusive thinking.

There are no preachers that everyone relies on. In my years on Tumblr I've seen mean people trying to invade the community and being blocked off.

Nowhere else the power of education is promoted so much. Know what TERFs are, understand why this is offensive, don't support them, boycott them, educate others...

There might be some different opinions but in the end ... people are valid being different and this is how a healthy society should be.

So pride is more than justified because this is something to be proud of

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spyld

Speak Your Language Day

BRINGING BACK THE DAY OF LANGUAGES!!!

This year's 7th of May 2023 we use our own language again!

A few basic rules (this is very much copied from the original UYLD creators):

  • If your language is something other than English, on May 7th you can speak that language all day!
  • Speak whatever language feels good for you! Any and all!!
  • You’ll blog in your language all day: text posts, replies, tags (except triggers and organizational tags), the whole nine yards. Regardless of what language people choose to speak to you, you answer in your own.
  • Midnight to midnight according to your own time zone
  • English native speakers, if you wanna participate you can practice a second language you’re learning
  • The tag is gonna be #Speak Your Language Day or #spyld
  • Non-verbal, non-written languages (like ASl, dialects, otherwise non-written languages) are more than welcome!
  • Tag me in any and all non english posts! Or submit to your liking!
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Should I scold my therapist for calling me cis-hetero? (In a rather casual conversation - so replace "my therapist" with "a gay man I value and like a lot")

I mean, I don't care about labels.

But I always say "I live in heteronormativ" but I still don't fully understand monosexuality.

I would totally shock him but still I feel like it wasn't right behavior and has to be ... Called out in a way.

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