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beaft

ever since i was a little girl i always knew i wanted to be some sort of horrendous freak

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keclan

varric tethras did not wear a cock ring necklace shirt open bare chested just for people to say he’s straight. don’t worry mr. tethras, i saw your cock ring necklace

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wizard0rb

what did we do to deserve portal 2. that shit was so good and for what

we got to have this! we got to have a valve game set in the half life universe, and its an enemies-to-lovers-to-enemies-again sci fi comedy story about a homicidal ai created to run tests forever and the test subject she catches feelings for!! how is this game real!!!

happy birthday to the only video game ever

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egberts

tw for child abuse again but literally being in your mid twenties and still suffering from your childhood abuse is the worst. everyone is like "you can't blame your mom for all of your problems, you have to take charge of your own life." my guy. my dude. my mom intentionally prevented me from gaining necessary lifeskills to take control of my own life and then traumatized me about those things to the point that some of them still trigger me at age 26. she told me she didn't want me to move out because i'd tell people what she'd done to us. i can blame my problems on my mom because sometimes she caused them!!!!! she deserves all the hate and disdain i have for her!!!!

THIS. Adults are responsible for their own healing but your abusers will always be responsible for causing your trauma, and no one is obligated to love or forgive their abusers.

People often say forgiveness is needed to heal but I vehemently disagree. The way I see it forgiveness is something that is indeed needed when it's for a relationship you want to heal and continue, but not for a relationship you need to protect yourself from or terminate. Accepting what has happened in the past and that you can't go back and fix it is important but, but it's not the same as forgiveness. Forgiveness is a gift earned by willingness to change and be better.

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