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the quiet part out loud

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Things that I like. Fandom and personal blog. Nerd.
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fabula-unica
“I came to learn that women have never had a history or culture of leisure. (Unless you were a nun, one researcher later told me.) That from the dawn of humanity, high status men, removed from the drudge work of life, have enjoyed long, uninterrupted hours of leisure. And in that time, they created art, philosophy, literature, they made scientific discoveries and sank into what psychologists call the peak human experience of flow. Women aren’t expected to flow. I read feminist leisure research (who knew such a thing existed?) and international studies that found women around the globe felt that they didn’t deserve leisure time. It felt too selfish. Instead, they felt they had to earn time to themselves by getting to the end of a very long To Do list. Which, let’s face it, never ends. I began to realise that time is power. That time is a feminist issue.”

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Why sitting on my ass is a feminist act, thank you.

(via azephirin)

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Leanne Franson

the happy ending

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delsomebody

oh this comic shows up in a really cool anthology i bought a few years back (and was just rereading in fact) called No Straight Lines. it covers the last 40 years of LGBT comics and the various phases, influences and unsung heroes of the zine scene and more. (such as a chapter that focuses heavily on what art and stories resulted from the AIDS crisis, the clash of the gay sexual revolution and the rise of homosexual monogamy, and more.) highly recommended if you’re interested in LGBT history and comics!

Hey I know this artist! Her and her son are going through a really tough time right now and could really use your support!

You can find her Etsy here (she makes custom pottery/figurines)

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aurpiment

Look how cute!

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roach-works

listen. aging into your thirties rocks. yes your joints get a little creaky. yes you can’t sleep in a pretzel on the floor anymore after a concert or a convention. and you lose some friends. but the thing is that you sort out who your real friends are and you sort out who you really are. and you get to see your friends settling into careers they like, and adopt new dogs and cats, and you find a job you can stand, and get really good at arts and crafts, and maybe that book you loved as a kid gets a movie deal and it doesn’t suck, and you learn to like new food and bake your own bread, and you realize that the great portfolio of self harm scars you all used to curate are going white with age and not updated, and half your friends are a different gender now and so much happier and maybe you are too, and you know who you are, and that it’s a journey and not a revelation. it’s a direction you’re headed, and you’re enjoying the trip.

reaching your 30′s rocks. and i’m hearing good things about what comes next, too.

i am looking into your eyes, i am holding your hand. i absolutely promise.

if you can just live long enough, your soul will build your body into a home. you will live there and you will find a way to be at peace. it’s worth the time and it’s worth the work. i promise.

Also you become happier with how you look, and I do mean including the things you can’t change, like your nose or whatever

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robertwire

it is very important to have friends who unapologetically dislike the same things u dislike that other people like a lot so u can talk about it in private and avoid being a jackass in public.

i love this reply. the goal of militias: to avoid being a jackass in public. i mean like are you wrong, legally? no. but you are insane, and that is so hot, etc.

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largishcat

circling back around to the issue of writers being expected to do all their own goddamn marketing via social media these days, because it completely nixes the possibility of writers being weird shut ins, off-putting eccentrics, or misanthropes. 80% of the literary canon was written by weird shut ins, off-putting eccentrics, and misanthropes. if you weed out everyone who’s the wrong kind of insane to maintain a twitter presence, who on earth is left

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“yikes- op is a spn blogger.”

*miranda priestly voice* OK, I see. You think this has nothing to do with you. You go to your dash and you reblog that corny romantic quote, for instance, because you're trying to tell the world that you take yourself too seriously and care about what you put on your dash, but what you don't know is that that post is not just a romantic quote. It's not richard siken. It's not louise glück. It's actually supernatural fanfic. And you're also blithely unaware of the fact that in 2008, eric kripke did a season on angels falling from grace, and then I think it was ben edlund who showed a fallen angel in military jackets, and then endverse tropes quickly set up in the collections of different fic writers. And then it filtered down through the spn bloggers, and then trickled on down onto some tragic aesthetic blog where you no doubt fished it out of some generic love tag. However, that quote represents thousands of fics and countless blogs, and it's sort of comical how you think you made a choice that exempts you from big destiel when, in fact, you're reblogging a quote that was selected for you, by my mutuals, from a cw tv show.

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