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i hope the holiday season brings you a break from the pain you all may be going through and that you find the means to celebrate whatever you wish peacefully and freely. stay safe my friends.
i’d like to just add that if any of you need a safe space to lament or complain or vent at all, my ask box/IM is 100% open and i’ll hear you without judgement.
i hope the holiday season brings you a break from the pain you all may be going through and that you find the means to celebrate whatever you wish peacefully and freely. stay safe my friends.
your hobbies, your craft, and your spirit are all strong and valuable. you don’t need tangible evidence to prove your worth.
i hope you're still active on here :) i love your blog so much ♡♡
i’ve actually been going through a ton of stuff lately so my activity has suffered as a result. i hope everyone who has still kept following me is doing well and thriving.
sometimes, the most important relationships you make aren’t the ones you’ve had the longest. don’t feel guilty for prioritizing them how you see fit.
don’t let people take your kindness, your strength, or your concerns for granted. you don’t owe anyone your time.
YOUR BLOG IS PERFECTTTTTTT!! Really I hope you yourself are doing well too! Your blog is inspiring! xxx
thank you very much! it’s appreciated
don’t let anyone make you feel bad for a comfort items! your security blanket? your stuffed animal? your collections? your lucky socks? all have value and are all incredibly valid and important!
very important message: fat people are beautiful. fat isn’t a bad word. you’re valid, stunning, and deserve love and respect.
you are under no obligation to be kind. you are under no obligation to talk to people or keep in touch with people that have hurt you. you get to decide your boundaries and sometimes it’s hard, but stick with them. no one has more power over you than you do.
Hi! I don’t know how active this blog is but i have no where to very and noone to talk to. I have a good friend who is being badly bullied outside of school by kids who go to the same school as us. The main one does things like put him in a choke hold or literally flip him over his head, and its gotten very physical. Today I stood up for my friend and realized multiple people i trust support this kids constant bullying and its crushing me. I just need some advice on how to help my friend, please
i’d say, for your friends safety, get an adult involved. use the buddy system. cut out your toxic peers who support this kind of abuse and just... make sure no one is playing innocent bystander.
Hey what's your main blog? ❤️🍪
i’d actually rather not put it up on this blog, but if you hit me up off anon, i’d be happy to give you the url!
you are not your trauma. it has shaped you and it is a part of you, but it will not consume you. you are not a product of your pain and it is not your being. you are multifaceted, complex, beautiful, and original.
I don't know what's with the haters today but they are wrong to bother you. They don't get anything to say about your life. Only you do ❤
ah, thank you so much! i have been getting a bit of hate lately, but those last two messages were just my friend making a joke!
you run a blog about self care but eat cookies past 3am... 👀 that's... a little problematic don't you think . 🤔
i’m SORRY we can’t all eat chikan noodle sopa :( it’s all i had… this is the peak of self care.
edit: u guys please, this isn’t real hate
word on the street is that you're a furry and you told someone you'd rear it up for their cats?? any words to defend yourself????
1) i dont appreciate this hateful message2) cil how about u just admit youre in love with me
be sure not to put others down when you build yourself up because building the foundation of confidence on hurting others is bound to crumble with time.
