~WHOLESOME WEDNESDAY~

Hello this is (not) JYPe and guess who's feeling soft again? this mf 💞 heh I just thought hey it's been a while and I kinda am seeing how a lot of us are falling back on activity and posting less and stuff and I kinda feel like the general activity of the community has come DOWN a lot which I mean it's OK!!!! because we all have lives!!!! right? but also I do kinda WORRY LIKE WHERE YALL AT i guess I just kinda wanna make sure we're all doing good? yall holding on? taking care? sleeping and stuff? I've seen also many bots pop up again recently (STARES AT THAT ONE ADMIN THAT MADE LIKE 3 BOTS IN 2 MONTHS WITH LIKE 10 PPLZ EACH YES YOU PLEASE TAKE CARE) and I know bot can sometimes feel like a job more than a fun relaxing place for some so just take it easy on that too just making sure we all remember that things around here aren't that deep and you can take it at your own pace. this has always been supposed to be a safe, fun place where we make friends and have a blast, so if it doesnt feel like that anymore step back, take a deep breath and then come back if you want but like dont feel like you gotta be here and keep putting stuff out for others

I know school work, uni, real work, family, responsibilities, it can all be too much sometimes and drive us a little bit insane. I personally have a 🤩🤩 fun few days coming 🤩🤩 I hope I don't die 🤩🤩 so yeah maybe I'm PROJECTING RN but yknow how it be, I think its important sometimes to remind ourselves that, yknow, stepping back and taking some time for ourselves it's also ok. I sometimes just log out and not having my phone vibrating and notifs popping up for just a few hours feels refreshing. it's ok. you wont miss out on anything important for treating yourself to one internet free day

we take so many things seriously sometimes dont we? like, sure theres things that ARE important like keeping connections and friends and staying healthy and safe, but also theres so many things that are important for ??? no valid reason ??? or that maybe we wrongly prioritize over other things like for example dont prioritize your bot development over your sleep plz don't do that it's not worth it rip, or dont feel like you need to be around 24/7 when you have other things to do or just don't want to. dont feel like you're neglecting bot because you have to study or feel like going out with friends is pushing you back here. dont feel like being behind in notifs is such a big deal. youre a great admin and you're doing well!

but also like,,,, dont prioritize work and uni over sleep and eating and taking breaks and going out and getting fresh air either. really just prioritize yourself first. sometimes being here just as admin and sharing and talking to friends is good enough. you dont always need to be your character, you don't always need to keep an image or a clean neat blog. you can just enjoy and go around shitposting that's really ok! (bunnies for the soul)

yknow it's really cliche to think about it but sometimes you just gotta sit back and be like what am i doing? why am i doing this? what am I taking from this? is this meaningful or beneficial for my life and my growth and my wellbeing? like tumblr as any social media can be TOXIC it rlly still is just because we don't see shit it doesnt mean it's not going on and just because we don't go through something anymore it doesn't mean it hasnt hurt us or leave us super fucking paranoid around.

I JUST AM SAYING that I know many of us maybe feel safe and welcomed and at home here or like we won't get this thing we have here anywhere else but I think we make our own safety and comfort yknow? itd be really sad to see some of you go and the community poof but I also think that for us to keep carrying this thing we have and for us to protect it and for more people to feel welcome and safe we first need to look at ourselves and be sure we can actually keep doing this. I see posts pop here and there about admins feeling sad they get no interactions or how people they talked to has left or how they simply have things going on that makes them sad and unable to be around and I think often we forget, even though we say it ALL the time, that we're all just people behind these. dont forget you're just a person too. I've personally been having quite a hard time coming around with the boys on dms, anyone who talks to me knows that, but as admin? I'm always here. and sure none of us HAS to feel responsible of others, we're not /individually/ responsible of someone's fun or popularity or how long they stick around, but as a whole community we are all responsible somehow of this place's safety and to look ALL after each other. don't forget we're all just people and don't push each other to get things

anyway what im trying to say is that I do fucking love all of you so much and like I worry yknow??? I worry a lot when I see someone upset or I feel like an admin is in a kinda place. it's been just a bit over a year since I've joined this and ive been lucky enough to meet some amazing people that will always live in my heart no matter what and some others maybe I do not really know you or talk to you but I do appreciate your existence yknow you're not invisible and I notice when some of yall delete or when someone I see around makes a new bot and I 👀 or when yall change @s without telling and I have to go through my lists to fix them. maybe it's not enough but I do notice you and I hope you know that. and so because I love all of you I do think that I am a bit responsible of putting at least one smile on your faces throughout the day too be it with a post or a rb or an ask and so I do hope all of you feel a little responsible about someone else's happiness too. I know dash can be hard, I know dms can be hard, and I'm.not saying hey go befriend each other RN but maybe just stopping by someone's bot and "hey this is v cool!", I'm sure that would mean a lot for many people

maybe I just ate too much sugar today. whatever it be, have bunnies I love this kind of art

𝕱𝖔𝖔𝖉 '𝖓 𝕱𝖆𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖔𝖓 𝕱𝖗𝖎𝖉𝖆𝖞

🐺 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖂𝖊𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖔𝖑𝖛𝖊𝖘

Its finally Friday! Weekend's around the corner! How are you guys doing, uh? It feels like it's been forever since I was last here haha have you all been taking care? I hope so! Missed talking to everyone in here, but when work calls we gotta tend to it. Past few weeks have been hectic for me, as usual. Luckily enough I got a few free days from it! Met all my deadlines in time so I get a small week break till next Wednesday, gotta reward yourself when you do something right!

How about you? How's work? Uni? Life? Remember to always put yourself first. Sure, we all have responsibilities, we all want to do a million things and feel we don't have enough time, but don't take your boss too seriously. Don't take your classes too seriously. Your health and wellbeing should always come first!

Chan you talk way too much-

Anyway, how's been your Friday so far? Any plans for today/tonight? We went out with Chris, played some sports, it had been a while since we last did that. He's quite good actually, even though he insists he's average. He says "we're too short". I say throw the damn ball y'know-.

Usually we meet up with the boys by the end of the week, have lunch and just update each other on stuff, but with Channie's rut we were left alone with Chris. We rarely are alone together because we always end up fighting, but it was quite nice, to be honest. He seems to be working on being nicer to people. And also himself. It was nice not hearing him being an idiot for once. I mean he still got pouty when I beat him on basketball but I made up for it by getting him lunch, LOL.

Ah, I'll probably be stopping by Channie's house at some point anyway, gonna get him something yummy to spend his rut. He probably won't be going out for the next few days, as usual. But hey! I'm sure he'll appreciate movie recommendations or som-

Oh my GOD. Have a nice Friday, GOODBYE.

𝖂𝖊𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖔𝖑𝖋 𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖓𝖓𝖎𝖊 𝕾𝖕𝖊𝖆𝖐𝖘 🌓

Helloooo its the Monday 😋

I hope yalls week started quite ok!!! Today I went out!! ☀️ It was really warm out so I rode the train and saw pretty trees and all!!! 🌳🌸🌼They have flowers already!!! so fast!!! I like the train because it gives me time to think and I get to see the city and meet new people and all yknow? ☺ I dont use it much during the winter though because I freeze like a snowman ☃️ anyway I even dressed up pretty hehe you like my fit? uwuwu

I went out for lunch, had some nice beef and pasta 🍝 uwu and then I also went to a bunny cafe!!!! 🐰☕ it was my first time there because I dont usually go places too crowded alone but there was a lot of space for the lil friends so it was ok hehe have you been to a bunny cafe? I def will be going back uwuwu anyway I'm going back home now to nap 🏠💤

make sure to take your daily sun dose!!! and have lots of water because you'll sweat like a PIG uwuwu goodbye

𝕱𝖔𝖔𝖉 '𝖓 𝕱𝖆𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖔𝖓 𝕱𝖗𝖎𝖉𝖆𝖞

🐺 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖂𝖊𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖔𝖑𝖛𝖊𝖘

Lemme show off real quick-

Real quick with three pictures?

You're just jealous you got nothing to show off.

HEHE pasta for channie *dances*

I got a cat to show off.

For the LAST TIME her names Venus >:(

Whatever-

She doesn't seem to like herself much.

Pets imitate their owners, right?

YETH that's why she's all black like your closet jdjsjsjw

And his fur.

Valid.

twinnies 😖✌🏻

had yall brought your pajamas we could be twinnies too 💔

We kinda are already, though?

I mean if you want me out there nak-

Just shut up, I beg you.

ok now that I am actually awake, I think it's just appropriate to wish all my fellow ladies an even more wonderful day today, and to hope that the ones to come are nothing but extraordinary, always. I genuinely do not believe on wishing a "happy" women's day, all things considered, but I do believe today is an opportunity for all of us to sit down and look back at everything we've been through, everything we've accomplished. as women. with our fight. alone. we still have a long way to go of course but if there's one thing I've learned from and with women that a man would've never been able to teach me is that things ain't served in golden trays for us, that no matter our social status, economy, or political affiliation or really just no matter WHAT we will always have to stand up and fight for what we want, what we deserve. so here, for the fights we won, the many we lost, and the ones we're still at. not a happy women's day, but hell am I happy of being a woman 🤩 now bus ride, goodbye

PSA Thursday

Hai Everyone, Here is the first PSA Thursday!

Reader discretion is advised, below the “Read More” contains sensitive topics. Read at your own caution.

Trigger Warnings // Pedophilia, Sexual Exploitation on Minors, Sexual Content, Adult Language

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I am a worried bean and I know shit today may have looked wrong but many people but you can NOT, you simply can NOT minimize the importance of the subject. in any way, shape or form. I got two people come out as minors with me after a while of talking and in lucky enough we never did actually engage on anything NSFW, and guess what, I didnt close rp with them! I trusted them and their better judgment after a long, LONG talk, and I decided to remove any NSFW aspect that wasnt fitting from our chats. it's not about cancelling people and throw them aside. it's not about making them delete or disappear. its NEVER about that. its never harassment. its about making them UNDERSTAND not only the consequences for us adults for YOU as a MINOR. because what's the difference between 17 and 18? none really you may think, but there's a REASON why 18 is almost globally the age of consent. there ARE reasons why things are how they are. its not about shaming you because you lied, it's about you sitting the hell down and understanding the issue. not getting defensive, not blaming others, not minimizing it because you're old now or because no one cared before. no one cared before about many things but it doesn't mean that they were right. there was no reason at all for admins today to cry, to feel attacked or to delete. they were at this for long enough that they had been told before to cease and they didn't. calling out posts ARE needed. it's not targeting and shaming. it's not accusing. in real life you will not go fuck someone who's obviously overage without telling them your age. i do admit that it's also on us to ask, because you cant never surely know, and assuming can gets you in troubles always, but you simply and plain shouldn't engage where you are not allowed. period. are there other important stuff going on? probably! bring it up! bring it up to the people and then publicly if people don't change. make us aware! make them aware! you're part of this just as much as anyone else. this is not a pick and choose, important things need to be discussed.

its mindblowing to me how some of yall decide to just not see some things or minimize them because there's "worse going on" then instead of talking about that worse that's so much more important, you trash someone who's making this place, the place you claim to have wanted to be safe and fun, actually safer and better. Like-- no ones hunting anyone down and what was done wasn't random. and no one is forcing anyone to leave or delete but just pointing out their wrong doings. but then again you are a minor so how would you understand what this means for us overage people and the troubles we could have. sighs anyway

UPDATE: Chris has decided to take a time off. He's currently away at an unknown location. His return date is also unknown. Dm's will not be replied till his return. Please standby.

The update service will be taking your messages for him.

Thank you for your understanding.

𝕱𝖔𝖔𝖉 '𝖓 𝕱𝖆𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖔𝖓 𝕱𝖗𝖎𝖉𝖆𝖞

🌓 𝖂𝖊𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖔𝖑𝖋 𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖓𝖓𝖎𝖊

HELLOOOO!!!! THIS CHANNIE ON A NEW FFF AND TODAY IM GOING TO TELL YOU ABOUT HOW I RUINED THIS WITHE SHIRT WITH PIZZA AND SPICY CHIKENDISJWJWKSN So like anyway I was super hungry right so I finally ordered some food other than ramen and everything was good at the beginning BUT I been watching a lot of horror videos? for some weird reason because I HATEEEE horror anyway thing is I was in my couch, munching, watching videos in the tv, and I got SCARED AS HELL and I jumped right and hit my foot so it was all a fast sequence and in the blink of an eye I was standing in one foot jumping and had chicken leg on my SHIRT I tried to clean it but like--- yeah anyway that's why we dont watch horror videos while having dinner in other news I found out grey hair washes out FAST so I might try a different color now what do you think should I go pink or green or back to black? thinking thoughts 💆🏻‍♂️

𝕱𝖔𝖔𝖉 '𝖓 𝕱𝖆𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖔𝖓 𝕱𝖗𝖎𝖉𝖆𝖞

🌓 𝖂𝖊𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖔𝖑𝖋 𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖓𝖓𝖎𝖊

Hello this is Channie!!! I hope you haven't forgotten about me just yet! I was missing everyone quite a lot 👉🏻👈🏻 I dyed my hair!!! do you like it? I like silver even though I cant get close to real silver... anyWay I think my hair looks good hehe also I've been living in this hoodie for the past weeks and it smells like dog now but I don't care :( honestly the whole house smells like dog, I haven't really been going out hence why I dont have food to share other than my microwaveable ramen 💔 is microwaveable a word? anyway I hope you guys are staying healthy and drinking water. i took these after and while having some long chats with some people I love. isnt love crazy? you can be feeling like a punching bag and then someone you love laughs or smiles and it's like you find all the strength in the world to get up haha crazy crazy. ok I love you bye

𝕿𝖍𝖎𝖗𝖘𝖙 𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖕 𝕿𝖍𝖚𝖗𝖘𝖉𝖆𝖞

🌕 𝖂𝖊𝖗𝖊𝖜𝖔𝖑𝖋 𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖓

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{{ The world tried to burn all the mercy out of me but you know I wouldn't let it~ }}