k. look. being lumped into the same general age group does not indicate equal development at all points. do you think that the only change between a 14 and a 15 year old occurs on their birthday? read more of these articles than just the headline. genuinely.
and as someone with markedly more life experience at the time, you Did have a responsibility to watch your actions. i don’t think i’ve stated that i think i didn’t shoulder some responsibility— certainly not recently. And I have been in roughly the same position you were in, and made the same mistakes, or similar ones, and that is partly why I feel so strongly about it in the first place. and mistakes are human, humans are fallible, i get it.
but here is the real difference dumbass: i didn’t hound the people i inadvertently hurt afterwards. when they said they wanted, needed space, even when there was no expectation that they would EVER want to talk again, i listened and abided by their wishes. even when it was painful for me. that is something that you seem to be incapable of.
to your other issues with my precise wordage: art encompasses a broad scope of written AND handcrafted media. i certainly haven’t used the word ‘art’ in any recent (read: post within the last two years) description of your actions. you writing that you wanted me to tear you open and eat your heart was a ‘fantasy’ of yours. you wrote a lot worse, too. i’m also not publishing your rambling, self-aggrandizing asks because defunct as it is, this is still my blog and i get to choose what i put here? also because, if you didn’t know, when you block someone, tumblr deletes any asks they’ve sent you.
pet a cat, hug a tree, have fun. your life still seems to return to me again and again and you profess that you don’t want it to, but you’re still fuckin here aren’t you? show the messages and etc. you’ve sent me to a professional, or at the very least a trusted friend, and see what they have to say. see if any of this has been ‘healing’ for you. don’t make it my problem. i actually don’t care.
see u in two years.