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Current Main f/o(s): Guy Gardner, Bumi
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I'm Nicole (Nic). I am 21+. I am a self ship side blog. I follow back from @the-kryomancer
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Before you Interact

My name is Nicole (Nic)! There are a few things you should know before you interact with my blog

I follow from my main

Fandom blogs, DO NOT FOLLOW

  • I am not a fandom blog, I am a selfship blog. If you have a self ship side blog that’s fine! Let me know! But if you don’t, DO NOT FOLLOW ME and especially don’t reblog my posts

I am 21+ so I am an adult

  • I would prefer for no one under 16 following me because I am in my 20’s and it makes me uncomfortable
  • If you’re a minor and you’re uncomfortable with following me or me following you, it’s totally okay to block me! There’s no hard feelings
  • If you need anything tagged please let me know, and I’ll start to tag it as [example] tw

I use self shipping to cope but also as fun

  • I tend to make vent posts that sometimes can contain triggering content like self deprecation. If you don’t want to see those posts then block the tag blah blah blah because that’s my vent tag

I am not comfortable sharing any f/os romantically

  • Because I use this cope, I’m uncomfortable sharing any romantic f/os romantically. If you follow me and share a romantic f/o with me (as in they’re a romantic f/o for you too as opposed to familial or platonic), I won’t follow or interact with you. It’s nothing personal, it’s just because I’m not comfortable sharing
  • If you do follow me and we share romantic f/os, please do not reblog gifsets or content from me of those f/os, whether they’re my posts, fics, or things I’ve reblogged. If you do, I will soft block you
  • (the exceptions to this rule are mutuals who I am friends with and have a tag I can block)

I practice reblog karma

  • When I reblog an ask game, I send an ask to the person I reblogged it from. I ask that you do the same with me if you reblog an ask game from me

Do not follow or interact if you are:

  • transphobic
  • a terf
  • against the LGBTQ+
  • an exclusionist
  • are a proshipper
  • are pro-shipping (aging up f/os/aging down s/i’s)
  • racist
  • sexist
  • not a self ship blog (self ship side blogs are fine, just send me ask letting me know please)
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knightoflove

Sensitive Self Shippers, this one is for you <3

💫 They’ll always be around to comfort you, no matter what upset you. They’re ready to listen.

🌙 They’d never tease you if you were uncomfortable with it. Your f/o(s) would never push your boundaries.

☀️ You’re their sun & moon, if anyone made you upset they’d be there to help pick you up (and maybe beat up the person who upset you idk)

🪐 And they would never ever think you being sensitive is annoying. They love you so much and they hate to see you cry.

Pr/oship dni please

Dividers made by @.cafekitsune

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💫 fat selfshippers i love you. fat self inserts i love you. fat ocs i love you. your f/o loves you too. they think you're perfect the way you are. they think you're the prettiest, cutest, hottest, handsomest, sexiest, most beautiful person in the world, both inside and out. they wouldn't change anything about you, either physical or psychological.

prøship, cømship, fatphøbes dni. safe for minors to like and reblog.

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💫 fat selfshippers i love you. fat self inserts i love you. fat ocs i love you. your f/o loves you too. they think you're perfect the way you are. they think you're the prettiest, cutest, hottest, handsomest, sexiest, most beautiful person in the world, both inside and out. they wouldn't change anything about you, either physical or psychological.

prøship, cømship, fatphøbes dni. safe for minors to like and reblog.

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💫 fat selfshippers i love you. fat self inserts i love you. fat ocs i love you. your f/o loves you too. they think you're perfect the way you are. they think you're the prettiest, cutest, hottest, handsomest, sexiest, most beautiful person in the world, both inside and out. they wouldn't change anything about you, either physical or psychological.

prøship, cømship, fatphøbes dni. safe for minors to like and reblog.

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💫 fat selfshippers i love you. fat self inserts i love you. fat ocs i love you. your f/o loves you too. they think you're perfect the way you are. they think you're the prettiest, cutest, hottest, handsomest, sexiest, most beautiful person in the world, both inside and out. they wouldn't change anything about you, either physical or psychological.

prøship, cømship, fatphøbes dni. safe for minors to like and reblog.

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💫 fat selfshippers i love you. fat self inserts i love you. fat ocs i love you. your f/o loves you too. they think you're perfect the way you are. they think you're the prettiest, cutest, hottest, handsomest, sexiest, most beautiful person in the world, both inside and out. they wouldn't change anything about you, either physical or psychological.

prøship, cømship, fatphøbes dni. safe for minors to like and reblog.

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when i see mutuals in my notifications i'm always like oh 👉🏻👈🏻 friens 👉🏻👈🏻

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Imagine taking a bath or shower with your f/o.

Imagine running your soapy hands through their hair, gently massaging the shampoo into their scalp. Hearing your f/o hum or sigh contently, eyes closed and a smile on their face.

And them do the same for you, gently scrubbing the day’s worries from your skin, rubbing away every tension. Just feeling your f/o’s presence right next to you, as well as the droplets rolling down your spines.

Maybe this is a moment where you can finally unwind. Where you can chat and fill each other in on how your days went. Or, maybe you both stay in silence. Both finding it comfortable without the urge to speak.

Just relax, and take care of one another.

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knightoflove

Sensitive Self Shippers, this one is for you <3

💫 They’ll always be around to comfort you, no matter what upset you. They’re ready to listen.

🌙 They’d never tease you if you were uncomfortable with it. Your f/o(s) would never push your boundaries.

☀️ You’re their sun & moon, if anyone made you upset they’d be there to help pick you up (and maybe beat up the person who upset you idk)

🪐 And they would never ever think you being sensitive is annoying. They love you so much and they hate to see you cry.

Pr/oship dni please

Dividers made by @.cafekitsune

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okay but, maybe you’re f/o isn’t really what people would describe as the “perfect partner” at first. maybe they don’t know how to comfort you or has some disagreements from you that makes things a little strained sometimes.

but the fact that you guys can sit down and talk about it is the good thing. it’s never an issue to sit down and really get into what’s bothering you before it blows out of proportion. they get better. you get better. and things change for the better.

sure they aren’t the perfect partner by society’s standards but you love each other and are working on yourselfs for the better of your relationship ♡

note: i am not talking about really awful/pr.oship situations !!!! i mean little things that may come up in a relationship. pr.oship this is not for you please respect that

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