If this is my last moment with you, Bonnie Bennett, I need you to hear me.

7x01 // 7x21 requested by anonymous

Vampire Diaries 7.21 | When you love someone, sometimes you have to go to those extremes!

Damon is the happiest character on the show? Are you serious? Damon is literally almost constantly in a puddle of self-loathing, self-hate, and feeling as though he’s not good enough. On top of it, people are always feeding into that, telling him everything is his fault, even when 99% of the time it is not his fault, but he cleans up after it anyway.  For Gods sake, Damon coffined himself because he felt he was only hurting Bonnie, that her life was better off without him in it. When he got back, Alaric told him he was worthless, only caused problems, and he should have stayed in the coffin. Not to mention in season 7 when all Damon wanted was to spend Christmas not thinking about Lily, and not getting revenge on Julian, Stefan constantly called Damon horrible, and made him feeling guilty for not wanting anything to do with their emotionally and mentally abusive mother.    Damon was far from the happiest character on the show. He was just the only character who didn’t let the fact that he and everyone around him, saw him as worthless, and horrible keep him from living life, saving people, and cleaning up messes that often had nothing to do with him. Damon did the most to save not only Elena, but Bonnie and Stefan. Yet no matter what he did he was always the one the blame got put in. Staying Damon needs hard work, and not peace and contentment? Bullshit. Damon has been busting his ass since season one. He has kept Bonnie and Elena both safe since season 1, and constantly did what no one else was willing to do, but were willing to let Damon take the heat for.  Everyone literally says Stefan is the most miserable, but Stefan’s problem is that he’s miserable because he refuses to be himself. Stefan is repulsed by vampirism and has been since Katherine, and can’t deal with that. True Stefan is unfortunately the Stefan that  Stefan hates.  Stefan doesn’t need contentment and peace. Stefan needs acceptance.  Damon doesn’t need hard work, he needs people who actually care about him like Bonnie used to be before Enzo got in her head. Not people who are constantly putting him down, even when he’s literally saving their asses blind folded and broken. 

THIS PHENOMENAL TEA IS SCORCHING HOT😋it’s really just facts wow

Hearing “I’m so proud of you” when you feel like you aren’t doing enough really does lift a lot of weight off of you.

no matter how bad the fight, say ‘i love you’ before you leave

And if you hear it, then say it back.

me and my boyfriend live by this. at least we try.

please do this, life is too short y’all

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