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‘ . - SLEEPY YOONGI - , ‘

@sleepy-yo0ngi / sleepy-yo0ngi.tumblr.com

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coming back to this account after *checks watch* three years and scrolling through all the stuff i reposted is crazy. it’s crazy how much i’ve changed. i still love kpop, and it’s crazy how much stuff has changed in that world. honestly…i miss being here. it was a simpler time when i was active on her. and because i’ve been attempting to write a book, i think i want to write on here again, and possibly experiment on ao3

but i want to reintroduce myself

hi, i’m nyx! and i use they/them pronouns.

i stan bts, loona, twice, le sserafim, and others !! my ults are hoseok, haseul, and mina !! three years ago my ults were yoongi, yeojin, and jeongyeon. which is crazy

i want to write again. probably not x readers, if i do they’ll probably be gg members, but i know i want to write again…so i’ll see how this goes

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Marvel Cinematic Universe Phase 4

Black Widow: May 1st 2020 Eternals: November 6th 2020 The Falcon and the Winter Soldier (TV series): Fall 2020 Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings: February 12th 2021 Loki (TV series): Spring 2021 WandaVision (TV series): Spring 2021 Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness: May 7th 2021 What If…? (TV series, animated): Summer 2021 Hawkeye (TV series): Fall 2021 Thor: Love and Thunder: November 5th 2021 Blade: ?

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striders

i wanna know wtf was up with the dude from ratatouille that this rat could just up and jaeger pilot his ass by pullin on his hair

hes a bottom

So we’re really going to expose Linguini just like that huh

you take one look at the girl he ends up with and tell me she doesn’t break out the strap on every night

nothing could have prepared me for the trajectory of this post and where it ended up. i’m so glad everyone on this website is so fucking weird, thank you all

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Imagine This

Imagine that your partner has been hitting you. Yelling at you. You’ve been married for a few years, you’re both in your 30s, you have a little daughter, and everything you do seems to be wrong. You’ve been made fun of, mocked and belittled by your partner. 

But you need them, because you can’t take another failed relationship. You can’t be alone again, and they’ve got you convinced that all the beatings and scratches and scrapes are your fault.

You tell your friends and they laugh. No matter how many bruises or cuts you show them, it’s still your fault, so you hide them. You feel trapped, but you don’t feel like you can escape. You’re convinced that you’re just locking yourself in.

And you see online one day an article. Someone else went through what you have. They got the cuts, the bruises, the scratches. You see that here is hope and freedom from these beatings. The physical and emotional pain can go away, there is someone there to help!

So you write down a list of 10 abuse victim hotlines, for people being abused. And you call them one by one.

If you were a man:

6 of those hotlines would refuse to help because of your gender.

3 of those hotlines would refer you to or give you a number to a hotline dealing with people that abuse and are looking to stop.

1 of those hotlines would help.

Out of those 10, 2 of those would also laugh at you or say you deserved it.

If you were a woman:

10 of those hotlines would help.

Abuse is very scary, but what seems scarier to you; being abused, reaching out and getting the help you need, or being abused, reaching out and getting laughed and turned away over 60% of the time because of who you are?

Only 8% of men who call abuse hotlines find them ‘very helpful’ and get the assistance they need.

Wtf is this trash lol

how is this trash?

All they could say is “this is trash” because this study was written and published by a woman with a PhD and is comprehensive and heavily sourced.

Just to add some quotes found in the study from men who tried to seek help:

• They laughed at me and told me I must have done something to deserve it if it happened at all.

• They asked how much I weighed and how much she weighed and then hung up on me…I was told by this agency that I was full of BS.

• They accused me of trying to hide my “abuse” of her by claiming to be a victim, and they said that I was nothing more than a wimp.

• They didn’t really listen to what I said. They assumed that all abusers are men and said that I must accept that I was the abuser. They ridiculed me for not leaving my wife, ignoring the issues about what I would need to do to protect my six children and care for them.

And maybe the saddest one: They just laughed and hung up the phone.

Man can be abused too , this is not trash

My father had to suffer hell for years , and he ended up in hopsital too because of my mother . So don’t you dare to say that a man can’t suffer from abuse because that’s bullshit. It happens , it can happen to everyone . And the fact that people are not willing to help is just sick 

This breaks my heart.

This is a conversation just as important as the conversation about abused women. We need to have it far more often.

As a woman who was abused by another woman I often feel invisible and marginalized in the discourse about abuse.

So when I see posts like this I reblog them instantly.

NO ONE should have their experiences mocked, belittled, dismissed, or erased.

The only thing that’s trash about the original post is that male victims of abuse are often ridiculed and cast aside.

We need to bring more awareness to female abusers, in straight AND gay relationships.

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insomnispyro

Hi, please remember that men can be victims of abuse, and women can be abusive

I know we like to point fingers at genders because it’s easier to paint the world with a broad brush, especially if you’ve been hurt before. We need to come together and support and defend eachother, against those who want to harm us and our peers.

I love you all so much please stay safe.

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ambris

Abuse is much more about psychology than it is physicality. A man’s potential size difference means nothing if he’s been mentally broken down into feeling helpless by years of emotional abuse.

Size also means less if implements are used in physical abuse. Doesn’t matter how big you are, if you’re unarmed and your abuser has a weapon.

This is important.

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“If BTS did what Seungri did, you would be defending them, too.” No honey. I’d be out of this fanbase so fast you wouldn’t even see me leave. I’d delete this blog and burn every fucking piece of merchandise I have. I love BTS with all my heart but if they did something like this, it would absolutely be unforgivable and my love would automatically dissipate. Gone. That’s it. Done.

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spiffyseok

Um,, the user @gayoongi posted screenshots of messages in which I told them I’m autistic (and explicitly asked for them not to be posted), which I didn’t want tons of people knowing. Then, they kept up posts in which they made fun of me for something caused by my autism. And they blocked me so I couldn’t see the posts they made about my mental illness. Please, keep this fandom safe for disabled people. And please reblog to spread awareness about the unabashed negativity thrown towards disabled people in this fandom.

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just remembered imagine dragons have a grammy and sunmi doesn’t . the music industry is such a joke

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kkuline

Always the brightest star, thank you for shining so bright and for keeping those around you warm with your kind words and and sweet gestures. Thank you for inspiring us and for the constant reminder that, no matter what, we should always have hope. We may not know each other personally, but I’ll always wish you the very best. Happy birthday to our hope, our angel, Jung Hoseok! 💚🌞🐶🌻🌼💛 #OurPieceOfPeace #MY_HOPE_JHOPE #SunshineHobiDay #LightOfHopeDay

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“Why are you so against it?”

Because it’s not true. This image you guys paint of him. He can be cute and shy and sexy and aloof but not to the extent of how a lot of people paint it to be. And some other things were said just for fun but the context has been strongly shifted. I wonder how much deeper a hole people can dig in this case. Stop at androgynous bc that’s what he is. Don’t project your kinks.

Bottom Jimin is fine. As in Jimin. A normal person. Pretty chill. Kinda witty. Happens to be a bottom. That’s cool.

“Jimin is strictly a bottom. He can’t be a top!” is bullshit. You just like his ass and needs it to be sexy dom JK taking over whiny pathetic crying messy slutty Diminie that apparently needs to be doted on or punished or rescued or handed things in order to function. Idk why y'all even like that trope. Makes my eye twitch.

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putting yourself first is not always a bad thing. you don’t have to help everyone else first if it means you’ll be falling behind or hurting yourself. you have to look after yourself too.

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