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Get On Your Dancing Shoes

@wantsthelot / wantsthelot.tumblr.com

Ant. 28/punk desk jockey/total mess. Examples of shit found on this blog: sweet jams and bitchin' mixes, pretty dudes and ladies, nerd shit, tag rants, gorgeous graphics that are not mine at all, and .0125% of original content
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tavalen

why doesnt anyone talk about the fact that having fat tits is a symptom of adhd? everyone thinks of it as hyperactivity or inattentiveness but in fact its so common to have fat tits as a symptom due to the adhd-induced hormonal imbalances in your brain

#eyyy
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kingkumaaa

When the whole party is down but your bard is up

jack had absolutely no right to go this hard

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bramblepatch

um excuse me Jack not only may but must go this hard

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ageisia

I love the moment where the band is like “oh, yeah, let’s pick this up!”

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tranceberry

Time lapse of a thunderstorm captured from an airliner from 12,000m (40,000ft) over the Pacific Ocean shows a towering cumulus convection that rises from an altocumulus cloud cover.

An altocumulus cloud cover from below.

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thatgeeklover
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prontaentrega

Whys a dead wife so common as a backstory for male heroes when divorce exists and its 10000% funnier

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impatentpending

my wife divorced me for a villain >>> a villain killed my wife

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sansadaynes
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rumpledspinster
GIF by doortotomorrow

Even better is my wife divorced me for my nemesis but turned out to be a bigger villain than my nemesis so now me and my former nemesis are buds and develope a lifelong friendship.

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amuseoffyre

Bonus: I try to help my former nemesis get laid

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#galavant is e l i t e#galavant
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maltedmilkchocolate

I was on an ADHD forum, and someone posted the question of how to tell Laziness vs ADHD. There’s a lot of ableism surrounding ‘laziness’ that’s been discussed else where by many people on this site, and off. But it’s something that gives a lot of neurodivergent and disabled folk a shit ton of undeserved guilt that bears discussion. Here’s how I break this down:

  • Laziness is – I need to do this thing. I don’t want to do this thing, therefore I won’t do this thing. I couldn’t care less about the consequences, or who it hurts, as long as I get to enjoy myself. Complete lack of care for others. Instant gratification achieved.
  • Responsible Self Care/Mindfulness is – I need to do this thing. I want/don’t want to do this thing. However I’ve been working really hard lately. I’m feeling burnt out and exhausted. I need a break or I’m going to get sensory overload, or have a meltdown. I’m going to skip this task in order to take care of my mental and physical health. I can always tackle this task tomorrow. The world won’t end if I prioritise my health.
  • Procrastination is – I need to do to this thing. I want/don’t want to do it, but it’s important I do. However, I don’t want to do it just yet because it’s a big task and it’s making me anxious, and I could probably do other stuff first, so I’ll put it to the back of the list and do it later on.
  • Executive Dysfunction (the core ADHD experience) is – I need to do this thing. I want/don’t want to do it, but despite needing to do this thing… I can’t. I don’t know why I can’t. It should be easy right? I just need to get up, and find the item, and start the task. But how do I start the task?? There’s so many steps involed. What’s the best way to do this? This is really stressing me out because I need to do this thing, and I’m so frustrated! Why is this not happening, it’s not even this hard. But no, I’m just scrolling through the internet still. Pleeeassse, I’m begging, just start the task.
  • Hyperfocus (the ADHD intense state of focus) is – Cool. I’m doing this thing. This thing is really engaging. I’m so focused on this thing. There is nothing else that exists but this task. Oh crap, it’s been five hours and I haven’t made lunch, and really need the bathroom, and I’m kinda exhausted. Where did my day go!? Oh my god. Woops.
  • Executive Dysfunction (the Time Blindness aspect) is – > Version 1) (Time moves too fast) I need to do this thing at 3:00, which means I need to leave at 2:30 to get there for 2:50 so I can be ten minutes early and… What do you mean it’s already 2:45!? *PANIC* > Version 2) (Time moves too slow) I need to do this thing at 3:00, which means I need to leave at 2:30 to get there for 2:50 so I can be ten minutes early. Wow! I sure did get all of this preperation done early so I can leave on time! I bet it’s almost 2:30 now. Wait… What do you mean it’s still 11am??????

*As per usual, social media is not a medical source. If you want to know more about Executive Dysfunction, I have a post full of links to actual resources here.

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adhdtogether

This is an exceptional breakdown!

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tricksypixie

You know what?

I am annoying sometimes.

And that’s okay. It’s not the death sentence I was led to believe. People will love me even if I can’t read their signals sometimes. Not understanding is forgivable. I don’t have to hold myself back so I don’t annoy anyone ever.

The people who love me know I get excited. And I am still loved.

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space-fey

Well shit

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