Fucking's Landing

Dawg how are you 22 with a wife and kids you should be outside playing

she's right.

I just think Kayvan Novak would make a great Doctor Who!

Just thinking about him*

*the medieval irish monk who basically wrote “this made me sad” in the margins of an Iliad manuscript next to Hector’s death

coffee shop au or whatever

The makes me so happy. It's never to late to come out or express your identity.

"i was a transtrender" no you werent. you were just questioning your identity and then you decided that wasn't for you. that's a fucking healthy thing to do. fuck off lmao

Questioning is:

-healthy

-common

-normal

Questioning isn't:

-an excuse to be transphobic towards often young individuals

I once thought I was asexual and it turned out I actually wasn’t ready to have sex before I had transitioned to a point where I was more comfortable with my body. 

And in that time, the asexual community welcomed me, supported me, helped me feel good about who I was, protected me from the harm I would have done to myself if I had pushed myself to have sex. That made a huge difference.

If I see an opportunity to support asexual organizations, I do so not just because it’s good but also because they were there for me in a difficult part of my life without judgement. I owe them for that.

If you at one point identified as transgender or questioned your gender identity, maybe you too sought a home in the wrong place because you were struggling with something else. And it is very likely that the people in that home, the transgender community, believed you and welcomed you and listened to you.

And then when it turns out that you were searching for the wrong thing, you don’t just leave that community behind but you turn around and shit on them? Shame on you. What a shitty thing to do.

i feel like it’s common for teenage girls to be uncomfortable and dysphoric for a lot of reasons that overlap with trans boys’ experiences! double standards, increasing pressure from adults and peers to conform to a very narrow and confining standard of ‘good’ that their male peers aren’t held to, the sexualization of their developing bodies that feels gross and scary, the pressure to fit into the roles of girlfriend, wife, and mother that can seem really unrewarding. being constantly dismissed and invalidated in ways boys aren’t. growing boobs hurts, periods hurt, a lot of shoes and clothes that are supposed to be desired hurt. being a teenage girl sucks shit on a lot of different interconnected levels.

given all that, it’s always seemed perfectly reasonable to me that plenty of people under those circumstances go ‘hey! this sucks! can i quit?’ i didn’t think i was allowed to quit for most of my life and that is why i didn’t realize i was trans until i was 28. i wish when i was fourteen someone had said ‘hey. fuck it.’

so like, go for it. go on strike. just walk out. fuck it. maybe you’re not trans. maybe you are. but the more people who realize that being a woman shouldn’t actually be a lifelong sentence of unrelieved sacrifice and suffering, the better. you should actually enjoy being a woman! if you don’t, fuck it. walk out.

SHERLOCK HOLMES (1984 - 1994) ↳ 3x02 | The Abbey Grange

fo1 and fo2 compillation 

So, Essek gets a cat. What’s she called? GO.

Indubitably 🧐

The kids are alright

You don’t want to get between me and my moustache

"We're drinking dead people tea?// Aren't we all?"

the little guy