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A Midwest Whoop-Ass Extravaganza

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Bellydancer | Hellenic Polytheist | Fandom | Occasional Functional Adult Practice Radical Kindness She/They
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Not socialist in a “I won’t have to work” type of way but socialist in a “I’ll still be working but I won’t be worried I won’t make the rent” type of way. In a “billions won’t be hoarded by one person” type of way. In a “janitors, fast-food workers, child care workers, preschool teachers, hotel clerks, personal care and home health aides, and grocery store cashiers, will live comfortably” type of way. In a “the sick and elderly will be cared for” type of way. In a “no child should work” type of way.

In a “disabled people live comfortably even and especially if they can’t work” type of way.

In a “I would have the option to not work but I think I’d like to without a gun to my head” type of way

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Want to hear something stupidly validating?

At dance class yesterday, I tried on my friends sacroiliac joint belt. The moment it was strapped into place in my dance posture I felt immense relief.

I felt lighter, I could no longer feel my spine and hip move in and out of place, there was no sound, no click or crinkle as I did basic bellydance moves. I felt good.

I teared up, not just in relief, but also because it was like, no, this pain and loose feeling isn't normal and it can be helped. I'm not just making it up or blowing something out of proportion.

So anyways I'm going to buy one asap.

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The culprits (i would die for them)

C // Amythestsparkles • Hal Brindley

Yep, I’m on the side of these superb piggies. This is play stupid games, win stupid prizes territory.

Native wild animals engaging in natural animal behaviors?!?! I'm shocked!

Image by http://wryote.bsky.social

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zoobus
She’s an eco-vengeance iconoclast who loves coyote pee and running at manic speeds. She’s an unstoppable chaos queen with a stink-nipple on her butt, who turns luxury Arizona golf courses into free range charcuterie boards for her grub-worm girl dinner. She’s a guerilla class-warfare legend whose mating call sounds like the hissing warb-garble of a cappuccino machine milk-steamer.
She’s the internet’s most beloved trash-eating ungulate — the uncompromising, the indefatigable, the lovely javelina.
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room429
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apolladay

That is a big jump between 2 and 10 hours. I'd put it at 5. 2 hours is just a trip to one of the next "big" cities or a trip to my parents if there's traffic or construction. 5 hours might actually get me out of Illinois.

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I love how on Tumblr, "media literacy" has become "Um, just because someone writes about this doesn't mean they're endorsing this. I hate all these media puritans ruining everything."

I'm sad to inform you that knowing when and whether an author is endorsing something, implying something, saying something, is also part of media literacy. Knowing when they are doing this and when they're not is part of media literacy. Assuming that no author has ever endorsed a bad thing is how you fall for proper gander. It's not media literacy to always assume that nobody ever has agreed with the morally reprehensible ideas in their work.

Sometimes, authors are endorsing something, and you need to be aware when that happens, and you also need to be aware when you're doing it as an author. All media isn't horny dubcon fanfic where you and the author know it's problematic IRL but you get off to it in the privacy of your brain. Sometimes very smart people can convince you of something that'll hurt others in the real world. Sometimes very dumb people will romanticize something without realizing they're doing it and you'll be caught up in it without realizing that you are.

Being aware of this is also media literacy. Being aware of the narrative tools used to affect your thinking is media literacy. Deciding on your own whether you agree with an author or not is media literacy. Enjoying characters doing bad things and allowing authors to create flawed or cruel characters for the sake of a story is perfectly fine, but it is not the same as being media literate. Being smug about how you never think an author has bad intentions tells me you're edgy, not that you're media literate. You can't use one rule to apply to all media. That's not how media literacy works. Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! Aheem heem. Anyway.

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God damn, people need to stop underestimating Biden.

How many times have we been through this? People rage that Biden isn't doing anything, even that he's complicit in such and such injustice, because he's not out there grandstanding using the specific language they want. Hell, I've been guilty of that myself.

And then it turns out that yet again, Biden has been quietly working away in the background, making deals and exploiting legal technicalities that most of his critics don't even know exist, to get results.

Every time people write Biden off, he comes back and surprises us. Because that age that everyone complains about? That is 80 years of experience. 80 years learning how the system works, who all the players are, how to come back from crushing defeat, and above all, how to get shit done.

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songlordsbug

Yeah see everyone was screaming and clutching their pearls and going on about how Biden wasn't doing anything so he must be supporting it. And all I could think was every time. Every. Damn. Time. It turns out Biden was working behind the scenes to arrange a fix that will actually do more than make platitudes. I've just been shrugging and going wait and see. I waited! Now we're seeing! The thing is Biden needs a CJ Cregg, it's the lack of PR on all the stuff he's gotten done that is causing problems.

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Nothing more punk than someone who is in pain all the fucking time and just continues to exist.

Edit: this isn't about random characters. This is about physically disabled people.

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mewvore

Don’t forget the AIDS episode.

If you weren’t around in the 80s or you haven’t studied queer culture of the 80s, you have NO IDEA how fucking insane it is that they made an episode with this scene:

“AIDS is not a bad person’s disease. It is not G-d punishing people for their sins.”

That was a statement so radical in the mid-1980s that calling it “radical” doesn’t feel extreme enough. Nor is this the only moment that hits so hard: Sophia expresses the then-common fear that she might contract HIV from sharing Rose’s coffee cup, and in a later moment of the episode where Rose is at her cracking point, Sophia takes one of the coffee cups she’s marked as having been used by Rose, and drinks from it. If you’re young enough to say “…..okay?” or “so?” to that sentence, I don’t begrudge you your ignorance of the fear—I feel glad you’re blessed to have never had to live in that world—but I do need you to understand:

This is Princess Diana and this photo caused an international uproar because the man she’s shaking hands with had AIDS.

Princess Diana touched HIV/AIDS+ people and had to reassure the entire world this didn’t make her a bad mother or mean she was dying, and this would have been about the same time as the GG episode. Remember the initial terror over Covid, before there was a vaccine but after the pandemic was announced, when nobody really knew exactly what it was, only that it was killing people? Imagine that. Multiply it by a hundred. Maybe a thousand. The hospital scenes we saw in Covid aren’t much different from the AIDS crisis.

And the Golden Girls explicitly chose to give an AIDS scare—and remember, at this time there was absolutely no treatment whatsoever, AZT had been discovered but not yet approved, so basically if you got AIDS your treatment was praying like hell—to its most straightlaced, beloved character. Rose is an integral part of the show. Rose is not a “very special episode” shoo-in. And while Blanche could have been a cautionary tale about sleeping around, no—they chose to go with something that was a very real concern at the time, the lack of effective blood screening for donated blood. There wasn’t a person in America who could judge Rose. She needed surgery. She needed a transfusion. She trusted her doctors. This is the most natural thing in the world. The storyline was carefully crafted so that at no moment could bigots find some way to justify Rose’s possible diagnosis.

And for thirty minutes, the show delivered hit after hit after hit of AIDS education (VERY GOOD AIDS education, actually, some of it is now outdated but most is still solid and for the mid-1980s it was choice), forcing middle America to actually reckon with what the the then-President was openly mocking as “fag disease.” And not just the disease part of it: when Rose says she’d have to give up her job and doesn’t know what she’d do, that the medical bills will pile up, Blanche says “that’s what [house] mortgages are for.” She’s the one who owns the house they all live in. She’s ready to put herself into tens of thousands of dollars of debt—no minor sum now, it would have been MASSIVE in 1985–going into her retirement years, to ensure Rose receives what little medical care is available, should it be necessary. This episode forced people to look, really LOOK, at what HIV did to people emotionally, the choices it forced them to make. Yes, it’s somewhat sanitized for prime time, but ask any gay man who survived that time what it meant to hear Blanche say “AIDS is not a bad person’s disease” or to see Dorothy fold Rose into a tight embrace as she faced the possibility of being told “I’m sorry. Get your affairs in order.” It was HUGE. It was AN EXTREMELY BIG DEAL.

The Golden Girls came out swinging hard for older women, and then said “fuck that, we’re doing it for everyone” and they DID.

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ralfmaximus
Former President Donald Trump has not been able to get a bond to secure the $464 million fraud judgment against him, his lawyers said in a court filing Monday [March 3, 2024]. Trump and his company need to post a bond for the full amount by next week in order to stop New York Attorney General Letitia James from being able to collect while he appeals. They've asked an appeals court to step in in the meantime and said Monday that they have not had any success getting a bond.

Poor baby. I thought he said he was a billionaire, and testified under oath that he had more than $400 million in cash laying around? Gosh, maybe he lied about that too.

We're about a week away from New York seizing his assets.

gee, I wonder why insurance companies wouldn't want to use real estate as collateral. I mean, it's not like the entire case is about overvaluing real estate or anything.

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aimandfire21

People feel like they have to... Justify their ships now? When the hell did that start? Ask me why I ship something and it's like, the characters were in a room together one time. The fuck more do you expect from me?

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shiocreator

sometimes they werent even in the same room but like what if they were

I put them in a room together in my mind and they were quite cute

And if I'm remembering the SGA fandom correctly, sometimes you just turned them into walls.

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