Fondue for Two

Ok compared to all the other asks this is very baby like, but what are your tips for frenching, god im so self conscious about my technique uuuuuugh

Don’t be self-conscious at all! Kissing is just as important. I have two tips for you!

My first and major tip for frenching this: be a fucking tease. 

Keep your lips soft, open, inviting. Pause between kisses, pull your head away when he goes in for more so that he only gets a little. Lick the corner of his mouth or up underneath the center of his upper lip with just the tip of your tongue. Suck his bottom lip into your mouth and bite it hard enough to make him gasp and then pull away and smirk at him. 

He’s gonna get so riled up at your teasing (at least in my experience) that he’s gonna grab you by your neck or your hair and pull you in deep for a kiss, the kind where you’re knocking teeth and can’t breathe. 

This is where my second tip comes in: once he takes control like that, LET HIM.

You can match his tongue if you’d like, you can even try to match his dominance if you’re in the mood for it, but I find that if I’m dominant in oral foreplay and submissive once he’s fully engaged and demanding, the makeout sesh is so much better for me. Let him take the lead, let him move your body where he wants it, part your lips how he wants them. Also don’t forget your hands; tug on his hair, cup his neck or his face softly, rub your fingers up underneath his shirt. Guys like that shit just as much as girls do, if not more so.

So yeah! Don’t hesitate to practice if you’re still nervous about it; I always found and open fist works beautifully for this. Wrap your fingers around your thumb but leave a gap, and your thumb will imitate lower lip movement. Have fun, my queen!

Witch mom tell us what you like about your otp zodiac pairings, like obv all pairings are differently nuanced because of the other placements but what common characteristics are found in your otp pairings?

Of course!! I’ll do my best for you, my dear. All my favorite pairings tend to bring out the most in each other, imo, so they’re pretty similar, but I’ll try to mix it up!

Pisces x Virgo: THE OTP. They’re such a Soft and Sweet couple to me. Virgos are extremely giving but only for people who truly matter, and no one brings them out of their shell better than a pisces. They’re a pretty private couple, but they have no problem making it known they love each other. They’re the subtly intimate couple. They’re both imaginative, but in different ways. Virgo helps bring Pisces back to earth, and Pisces helps Virgo find their passion again in their dreams (they can get bogged down in trying to be perfect, pisces helps them realize they’re great just the way they are) – I could go on and on but, ya know.

Libra x Leo: The Fairytale. Honestly, I’ve never seem more of a prince charming/princess couple that works as well as these two. They’re both huge romantic sweethearts, humanitarian, charming, big dreamers, passionate and caring lovers. I just love them. Catch a Leo moving mountains and doing everything they can to both impress and cherish their Libra while the Libra provides a softness and delicate love for their Leo that the Leo didn’t even know was possible. They’re a beautiful couple (although they can be prone to fighting–usually just for the sake of makeup sex, though).

Taurus x Scorpio: The Magnetic. Ugh, these two, they just destroy me as a couple, definitely my guilty pleasure otp. Taurus/Scorpio is one of the biggest sister pairs that can’t seem to stay away from each other, but I think it really works. There’s a reason these two can’t keep their hands off of each other. Both are extremely loyal, dedicated, fixed in themselves (yes, the stubborn thing can be a problem, but when they’re on the same side? Run). And they want all of each other, they’re the soulful pairing, very intense. But, man, idk, they just get each other, they really do, even if no one else understands it. 

Aquarius x Gemini: The Unconventional. Yeah, shoot me, guys, I think this double air couple is fantastic and I’ll fight anyone who says otherwise. They’re both really weird and unique and funny and love to discuss everything and anything, always. They’re both pretty out of this world, and highly independent, and it works for them! The biggest issues they may face is decision making and trying to get in a word when the other is talking (as both are indecisive/ranty af) but they adore listening to each other, so it shouldn’t be much of a problem. While they think similarly, they’re personalities are different enough that the conversation is never dull, they’re always surprising each other and it’s adorable. 

Aries x Cancer: King and His Queen. These two, when developed, actually make a fantastic pairing, (or one of the worst, depending on who you ask). They are like best friends, and they find so much comfort in each other. They have more in common than the realize, they just go about things in very different ways. Both have extreme loyalty, (like tau/scor), they just have a hard time giving it to anyone. Both are affectionate, I’m pretty sure I’d call them my opposites attract couple, very touchy feely with each other. Like Leo, Aries will do pretty much anything for their cancer, and cancer provides the emotional stability and nurturing calm that aries hasn’t ever experienced. The “asshole to the world but never to their partner” couple. 

Sagittarius x Capricorn: The Power Couple. No, I’m not kidding, these two can dominant pretty much anywhere they go. Sag is boisterous, adventurous, outgoing, Cap is confident, sure, rational, and determined. Sag brings out the humor and fun loving side cap is usually to shy to show off, and Cap helps Sag actually follow through their goals and dreams. They stand with each other through thick and thin. They can also be a pretty playful couple, despite the stereotypes, and usually they’ll be all over each other because they don’t care about what anyone thinks of their relationship, (well, they might care, but they won’t show it because they both have that “fuck what other’s think” mentality quite often). Pretty outdoorsy/travel-curious couple, as well. Wants to make the most of this world with each other.