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lafresqugay-remade

remaking!

mutuals feel free ask me for my new main if i dont know you (that or we dont follow each other or at least i dont follow you, then sorry but i wont share it with you

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lafresqugay-remade

remaking!

mutuals feel free ask me for my new main if i dont know you (that or we dont follow each other or at least i dont follow you, then sorry but i wont share it with you

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lafresqugay-remade

remaking!

mutuals feel free ask me for my new main if i dont know you (that or we dont follow each other or at least i dont follow you, then sorry but i wont share it with you

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lafresqugay-remade

remaking!

mutuals feel free ask me for my new main if i dont know you (that or we dont follow each other or at least i dont follow you, then sorry but i wont share it with you

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remaking!

mutuals feel free ask me for my new main if i dont know you (that or we dont follow each other or at least i dont follow you, then sorry but i wont share it with you

#ian.txt#i queued it
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crygorlabs

Unrecognized signs of abuse

This list includes signs I exhibited while being abused and afterwards, as well as signs I’ve seen other abused youth display, all of which are less commonly recognized for what they are: red flags in disguise. 

  • Being described as a “perfectionist” or having an extremely competitive attitude to the point of experiencing breakdowns if you are not “the best”
  • Developing a habit of locking the door to every room you enter, especially when at friends’ houses or your own home, or other places you would be expected to feel safe and welcome at
  • Excessive daydreaming or fantasizing which may be accompanied by restlessness, pacing, or listening to music, and will often last for hours at a time, and may interfere with daily functioning
  • Experiencing an inability to relate to your peers which may lead to you creating pseudo relationships or obsessions with fictional characters to replace your lack of social interaction
  • Refusing to look at yourself in mirrors in public, especially when buying new clothes or going into fitting rooms
  • Showering in the dark because you are ashamed of your body
  • Experiencing intense feelings of guilt when someone does something nice for you
  • Hyperfixation on a hobby such as drawing or writing, which is often used as an outlet and a way to escape the abuse
  • Purposely making yourself appear unattractive 
  • Being known as the shy or obedient child who never acts out
  • Possessing an unnatural amount of maturity for your age which many adults may have praised you for
  • Not knowing how to live, having an “I can survive with the bare minimums” mentality
  • Hoarding food or other objects in your room such as toiletries so you do not have to leave your room. This may be as severe as going to the bathroom in bottles or cans, or having months worth of dishes piled up around your room 
  • Having an anxiety attack if you’re woken up abruptly or if you wake up to loud noises in your house
  • Never experiencing sexual interest in others, never going through a “boy phase” or a “girl phase”; alternatively, being hypersexual 
  • Intrusive violent thoughts about small animals or children
  • Having no sense of belonging since you were a toddler, never feeling connected to your childhood town or house, and feeling alienated among your family members

Feel free to add more to this list. If you or someone else has experienced at least half of these signs, it’s very likely you or them has been through some form of abuse.

#okay jesus christ#i needed to stop in the middle bc it felt way too real and hit me way to close gbhgfdg my eyes are wet#abuse mention
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roskii

“well… technically it’s aged up! Uwu”

When you say it’s “technically’ not pedophilia..you know it’s an excuse you are lusting for a child Character.

#just bc they are aged up and 'omg they are both adults!!!' doesnt mean that you cant get callouted for pedophilia lmao#if you age them up to see how would they looks as adult... and not make it to ship them with someone already adult... fine#future / adult designs are okay as long as they arent used to ship the 'aged up' minor with adult lmao#pedophilia mention
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remade7754864578

honestly tho these 13/14/15 yr olds on here who animate their own shit and practice color theory and constantly churn out art really fill my dead aching heart with hope for the future. y’all are super fucking talented and i’m so proud of you motherfuckers. keep up the good work.

#dont let those old cranky artists to make you believe that you are too young or too unexperienced to try and draw or animate!!#try your best and have fun! who cares if your arent aint perfect as long as you like it and feel good about it#keep going!
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galaxybrainthot

this post reads very differently for mlm and wlw

i hate this website because the op is a lesbian of color who captioned this post “ah yes i love receiving messages from white boys” and it has now been decontexualized so it can be passed around as a funny gay post rather than being seen as the creepy entitlement it was

#wow ew#tunblur why
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gothmods

PSA

i’ve been seeing this post a lot lately:

which means a whole lot of you don’t know the difference between an intrusive thought and an impulsive thought.

intrusive thoughts are a symptom of ocd and many other disorder, they are upsetting and often graphic, they are thoughts you do not want and that scare you, commonly thoughts about doing something violent or about abuse. i suffer from intrusive thoughts, they are triggering and upsetting and yes, dark or about killing people.

an impulse can also be a symptom of a disorder, impulses are not inherently bad and are just your brain telling you to do things with no thought as to why. some can be unpleasant, but they can also be things like “cut all your hair off” or “eat the cardboard”.

please stop saying that intrusive thoughts and impulses are the same thing, you are only adding to the stigma and misunderstanding people with intrusive thoughts face.

thank you.

please spread this guys!!!

Good post op 💗

#abuse mention#oh important
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