aelin
The real problem people have with Aelinβs attitude throughout TOG (imho) is the fact that she owns what she is. Sheβs smart and strategic and carries a lot of burdens and is beautiful, and she never tries to diminish herself or act like she is less, in order to make other people feel better about themselves. And thatβs what people donβt like to see.
We donβt want to see a pretty girl who knows she is pretty.
We donβt want to see a smart girl who knows she is smart.
Those things bother people. And honestly, why. Why do we want people to feel like shit about themselves. Or at the very least, why is it that others need to be the ones to validate us and say βwhy yes, indeed, you are actually smart, you may think that of yourself nowβ. Thatβs so effed.
In conclusion, anyone who would want to put someone else down (real or fictional) for recognizing their own strength and not minimizing it or downplaying it, can screw right off.
(And sure you can have other reasons for disliking her, whatever, but a character having confidence in themselves should not be a reason to dislike them. Especially when that can spill over into the real world and suddenly we are shaming real women for feeling good about themselves, for whatever reason.)