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@gamoravandyne

marvel & disney with a hint of video games
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writer: this is one of my male characters! he cares about his guy friends and loves them deeply.

tumblr: oh! so he’s gay!

writer: uh…no, he’s attracted to women.

tumblr: ….so he’s bi!

writer: uhh…no…….he loves his guy friends but he’s not romantically/sexually attracted to them.

tumblr: ….so you’re homophobic.

writer:

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Healthy male friendships are almost as rare in mainstream fiction as gay male relationships, and maybe more rare in fanfiction. Let men be wonderful friends without pushing a romantic relationship, just like men and women should be able to be wonderful friends without the pressure of a romantic relationship.

*AGGRESSIVELY SLAMS REBLOG UNTIL I DIE*

This is literally the reason men are so terrified of being open about loving each other platonically, because they don’t want people to assume they’re gay just because they can be supportive of their fucking friends

I literally got anon hate about my response to this post, and I just want to say that I’m sorry…

for not reblogging it sooner.

Psyche bitch, this is a good post.

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PREACH

This is like a direct response to half of Tumblr.

Not all relationships have to be romantic. Being close to someone doesn’t mean you are in love with them. Platonic friendships can be just as strong and wonderful as romantic ones.

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hey I wanna test something, if ur lgtb rb this with ur birthday and ur fave season in the tags only please

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shitty things my parents did to me whilst growing up:

  • read my personal diaries and chats
  • invade my privacy
  • called me 'selfish' for putting my mental health first
  • called me a 'sin' after coming out to them
  • made my friends feel bad
  • called my friends 'bad influences' and continue to distance me from them
  • broken off a shit ton of my friendships
  • has bodyshamed me on numerous occasions
  • made me feel unsafe in my own household
  • forbid me on any social medias except for facebook (yes even messenger)
  • slutshamed me
  • has verbally abused me
  • made me feel bad after they found out I s*lf h*rmed
  • continue to push me that I am straight
  • called my bisexuality a 'phase' and I am just merely confused
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