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@fleur-de-violette

Violette - Any pronoms - You can come and talk to me if you want ! - I'm Fleur_de_Violette on A3O too -
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shivunin

Because I have just seen this specific thing for the second time, I would like to say:

  • If I reblog your art, I do not expect you to reblog (or share!) my fic in return
  • If I comment on your fic, I do not expect you to comment on (or read!) mine in return
  • My enjoyment of anyone's work does not come with strings or expectations
  • My friendship is not a bill that you will have to pay later

That's it!

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No one: Me: Bruce Wayne would be a horrible Jedi actually because of his atrocious self-inflicted attachment handicap

If nothing else he would make a perfect Mandalorian. Compulsive adoption every time he sees a foundling, non-powered when compared with a Jedi but equally competent, and in Legends Mandalorians sometimes painted their armor to signify the specific causes they were pursuing. Black armor symbolized justice, while gold was vengeance. So, the color theming would be on point.

oooooooh I love this

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“but it wasn’t that bad”

did it hurt? did you feel scared? unsafe? were you embarrassed? humiliated? terrified? did you feel confused on why? does it keep you up at night? do you avoid being in a similar situation? did you cry? did you want to cry? who told you it wasn’t that bad?

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jjsinger

Congratulations to this one person who has written 23 out of 40 existing Garth/Benny fics and has basically never written anything else. Imagine this must be the best day ever for you 🎉

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“no one’s ever mad at me unless they tell me so” is the best assumption i’ve ever made

sorry for tagwatching but you still have to act like they aren’t mad at you imo! bc it’s the mad person’s duty to make it known if they want anything changed. it is never anyone’s duty to be a mind reader.

Also, on that note, if you are mad at someone and don't tell them, you also cannot expect them to know or do anything about it. Just like you cannot be expected to be a mind reader with other people, they cannot be expected to read your mind.

And like, sometimes that's fine! I definitely don't tell people I am mad at them if there's nothing constructive that will come of it! It's just also important to keep in mind because if you are hoping for a resolution, it can't happen unless you let the other person know what's up.

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realizing that sticking to the "do it bad" "do it scared" mentality implies theres also a "do it bored"

A stick figure, doubled over on all fours so its face isnt visible. Tears stream from its face, and its head and the floor below it are covered in blood.
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well. did it bored 👍

DO IT SCARED. DO IT BAD. DO IT BORED. DO IT HALFWAY. DO IT WRONG. DO IT EMBARRASSED. DO IT UGLY. DO IT LATE. DO IT DIFFERENT. but by god do it <3!!

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